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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I want his friends to like me

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30 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He knows i'm very shy, and tomorrow we're going out with his best friend and his best friends girlfriend. I've met them before but i haven't talked to them much. I don't know how to start a ...

What do I do about a best friend, who no longer wants to be in contact with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - If your best friend wasn't very good at keeping in contact before she left for uni and now she is even worse. When I text her she says she has to have space and she'll text you when she's ready. Which she never text first before anyways. What does ...

I really like her, but she gets on my nerves! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I like this one girl named "Emily" but I just cant stand her. I mean that I am in love with her but sometimes she can get on my nerves. I dont think that she likes me though. I have had a crush on her for about a month. She is a straight as a line ...

My best friend likes me..I feel weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I feel weird around my best friend because he likes me he was my BFF since kindergarden but now where not best friends cause he is jealous of every boy I like a boy whose girlfriend is her cousin so what should I do?...

We have liked each other for 5 years but now after telling me he loves me he is being off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i have been in love with a guy for about 5 years,(lets call him x) we didnt go out but confessed that we liked each other 5 years ago, i had work things going on and my friend liked him aswell so nothing came of it. As that was happening i met ...

Was he telling the truth when he was drunk or was he not thinking stright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am so confused. Last week a guy at my work who I have liked for a long time bumped into me on a night out, he bought me a couple of drinks and invited me and my friends to come along with him for the rest of the night. While I am at the toilets ...

She lied about having cancer but I feel like I want to be back on speaking terms with her again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi I was wondering if you could help me as I am at the end of my tether and tearing up inside. I had a massive fall out with a friend 3 years ago, and have heard nothing from her in all the years then out of the blue I get a text message from h...

Is he just using me to get back at his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship ...

I am unsure of how to come to terms with my good friend being gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have just met up with a very close friend who I havent seen in many years. I found out the reason we fell out is because she is gay and she could not tell me as we were so close she didnt want me to feel like she fancied me. We had seen each other ...

Why do some girls not let go completely after a break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - why do some girls not let go completely ?? pardon me if i sound rude but i am depressed because my girlfriend has become panicky after i broke up with her and wants to stay my close friend ...where as i dont believe in friendship after breakup and ...

My friends are always coming to me with their problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi all, everyone who I know is used to tell me everytime about their problems. I meet my friend and he/she only complains. Well , I don't mind it. I even like to listen to them and help them to feel better. But the problem is if I have a problem ...

She rejected me before but I still get the feeling she likes me more than a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I asked this girl out for a meal when I started to think of the possibility of something other than frienship. She never replied to my email asking her. Anyway, we have still met a few times since, and the strange thing is I still get the impressi...

I'm starting to develop feelings for him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have this guy friend we have been talking to each other every day online and the conversations usually last for hours without either one of us breaking it. I usually have to tell him good night because it would be 3 in the morning and he would say ...

Could it be that he is jealous and still has feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hey thanks for reading. I recently brokw up with my ex 5 weeks ago, and we have remained good friends.... However a good friend came down from interstate last week. I spoke with with my ex and told him that a good friend was coming down, and sen...

He isnt being straightforward with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am a women who is liked by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over heels in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At first he ...

Is he cheating? please let me know what you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Is he cheating? pls tell me what you think..thanks..? Hey guys..I need an objective opinion asap. I have been going out for a guy for 10 months. For the last 2-3 months we were on and off and every time we had a fight he would dump on me. I gu...

My married friend is getting very friendly with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - One of my european friends makes me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it. When we hang out with her husband she always tell me how handsome I am and how lucky any woman would be to go out with me. She really plays it up and I feel...

Is he acting like a mate or a potential?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I like this guy, both at uni. I am friends with a lot of guys and usually don't fancy them but this guy caught my attention. it started in one of our workshops he made a sarci comment and i outwitted him he replied 'are you always this physco' i s...

My first ever crush hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and in need of help. I've liked this girl for over a year, she was the first girl I ever crushed on this hard. And I found out by signs and her best friend that she hates me. She actually is rather mean to me. I'm trying to get over her...

He says he likes me but he won't move it along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - So I have this buddy who I've know for two years and we've continually have gotten closer. Well I'm bi and I have a crush on him so I told him I like him and he tells me he has a thing for me too. Now the thing is when I try to take it to another ...

My life seems so boring compared to everyone elses

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I feel like my life is so boring and inadequate. I've got good friends, but not a circle of friends. Whenever I go out, it will be with, say, one of my girlfriends and her boyfriend... It just seems everyone around me has huge groups of fri...

I have feelings for my male best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I have a problem. I'm a straight female who I think has feelings for her male straight best friend. I think about pete* him all the time and we talk everyday, he's always been there for me and just recently I think i've realised that I may ...

I was raped by my sisters husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to ...

I prefer to be their aquaintance rather than a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - We live in a small community and our children go to a small school. There is a couple whom we have kids in the same grade with. This couple has always been very cliquish with another couple. (They were really good friends, and they were almost ...

How can I make my ex choose me over my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I dated a girl for a few years before she broke up with me a few weeks ago. Although we were not in a long distance relationship, we could not always see each other due to a number of reasons, and it has gotten worse lately. I became too ...

Should I carry on sleeping with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I've had the serious hots for the guy in question for as long as I can remember (i.e. all through school) but after he left high school we didn't really see each other. About three years ago we bumped into each other and kept in touch. He text m...

Could he be scared to commit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met someone online a few years back, he was all fired up about meeting in person. It took a few months for us to meet. We clicked immediately, he called me, we spoke on the phone all the time. I called his house and his children would pick up ...

Opinions! Does he like me back or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy and I want to know if he likes me back. Whenever we see each other we talk a lot about random things and he never ignores me at school. He talks to me online too but sometimes he ignores me. We have bets and act lik...

How do I tell him the truth? Please help.

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29 April 2009 (F) - I work in a small shop with a male lead sales assistant. We get on well, and ever since I started he made me feel welcome and comfortable. Also, we are both very shy and can be quiet. The problem is I blush when we talk (maiden shyness etc) which he ...

How can I possibly have anything to do with someone who might be different to what I had come to assume with getting to know her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I have liked this girl for a few months now and though we are only friends at the moment I feel there could be more. Anyway last time we met (Saturday) I discovered something about her that I found incredibly shocking (I won't say what it is, ...

I thought I meant more to him but he's saying to colleagues he isn't looking for anything serious...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - So I have been seeing this guy from work and we have hooked up on several occasions. Everyone at our job knows about us. He's mentioned to a couple of my co-workers that I am more than just a hook-up or a crush, but when asked what was going to ...

Am I taking our friendship too seriously?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This girl and I are good friends but lately things have slipped. I have known her for about a year and since she was able to drive, we have been able to meet more often up til recently, due to busy plans on both sides. Despite this, we chat online ...

I have loved this guy for 2 years and recieved nothing but now how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I need helpful advice for my situation. Long story short, I am in love with this guy after 2 years who I have been intimate with but we are currently not seeing each other. In fact, he only talks to me for sex and in the last 2 years, I have se...

Why is he scared to come near me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have a class with this one guy. I've just recently noticed something. If I'm around he won't come near me. If I'm talking to his friends he will either go sit by himself or he will sit off to the side and wait for me to leave. There was a seat ...

I don't want to lose any of my friends, despite how they treat me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Sorry, this is VERY long. I recently got back with an ex boyfriend, and things are going great. We are both so happy and it's perfect. The thing is today my friends starting making fun of him. Whilst I was with them. At first I knew they were just ...

Is this love or merely a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - is this love or mearly a crush? ... there is this guy i've know literally since i was born, recently we've become really friendly again, we talk everyday and i feel so comfortable around him. i'd love for something to happen between us but havn't g...

I thought he liked me but asked another girl to prom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I need some opinions...... I'm at high school and this year I have my ball/prom... I've been friends with this guy for a long time and we're really good friends but this year we have no classes together and he has his own friends and i have m...

GET TO KNOW A GUY

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29 April 2009 (F) - To get to know a guy at school: sit next to him at lunch or when you get a chance. Ask him random questions like what's your favorite color or something. If you're shy just laugh at his jokes. don't get creepy with it. Later on...YOU'LL BE ...

I keep having recurring dreams about my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I've known my best guy friend since we were 8 years old. We're now both 19. Neither of us have ever expressed any romantic feelings towards the other and that is what makes this disturbing to me. I've been having recurring sex dreams about him and I ...

How do I make my ex of 2 plus years choose me over my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 April 2009 (?) - Instead of cutting straight to my question, I am about to explain the background of my situation because I feel that it is unique and should be fully understood if I am to consider advice. If you are going to give me an answer, please do not skim ...

Lies, don't know where I stand, friendship doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm at uni, a popular girl in my final year. We've all had exams and work sabbaticals and I've been away from my group of friends revising and working. I'm about to return to uni and my friends. In the time I've been revising for exams and wo...

I can't wait forever...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I really want to know how to get over this guy I like, I'm still very young but I want to forget him so bad so if you know how please help me, or also any advice would be grateful. The story goes like this: He and I were very close friends, i...

Me and my best friend had lesbian sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hiya... im 17 and i have feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl... when we drink we usually end up kissing and once or twice its lead to sex... it was unbelievable... and i cant stop thinking about it...it was amazing. the th...

How can I gain more energy to become more fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I've always been the sort of person who keeps themselves to themselves, but it's really starting to effect me. I never have any energy to make the effort with people because I'm in a sort of fixed routine, and it's not because I'm lazy it's because ...

Does he like me and is he just shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes. Some days it seems like he really likes me and then some days he acts like he doesn't even notice me. He does the whole staring at me and then looking away really fast thing. If were waling in the hallway he ...

Friends or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ok so me and this have been friends for a really long time. and when we first had sex it was in Nov. of 07 and we didnt sleep together again until jan. of this year than we had sex again in march. and i threw a party for his birthday the 18 of this ...

Her friends say nasty things about us being together and mainly about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for around a year and 4 months. We have had 3 breakups during that time but never longer than a week. Her friends keep giving her grief over what has happened and say she should leave me. My gf herself has ...

How can I get over this shyness as it is ruining my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am in a new job and i am finding it difficult to make new friends. I started off fine when i first started this new job, i didnt know anyone and was polite and getting to know people. Six months later i still dont really know anyone and i have n...

Is my friend going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am good friends with this girl I met back in sixth form. We live close to each other and used to meet up all the time, especially since she passed her driving test. We enjoy each other's company a lot and when we couldn't meet, we chatted online ...

He keeps staring at me! What's going on in his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I think this guy likes me. We have never talked before but he always looks at me constantly. Whenever I walk past he will just stare at me until i look at him, and then he'll look away. He doesn't do it to any other girls except me. He tries to ...