Is he acting like a mate or a potential?

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Question - (30 April 2009)

1 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this guy, both at uni. I am friends with a lot of guys and usually don't fancy them but this guy caught my attention.

it started in one of our workshops he made a sarci comment and i outwitted him he replied 'are you always this physco' i said yes. he was said i think we will get on better than i thought.

from thn on whenever we were in a workshop or alone together he shoves, pushes into me. insults me teases me i give as good as i get we end up laughing and most of the time i outwit him and he laughs in failing.

this happend for three weeks.

then he spoke to me on msn for 3 hours one night i couldn't sleep and we were both online. just baout stuff.we ranted abot our partners i said i want someone abit more sarci and who can challenge me more. he said he wanted a gf less optimisic a bit more sarcastic too. he told me his type i said your gf must be good for you make you more upbeat less pesimistic he said i always hoped my partner would be more cynic more sarcastic who i can argue with.

then for a while we didn't speak. then a week lateron facebook he clicked on me out of the blue as hes rarely online. we spoke for an hour he asked for help with his work as we are on the same course. i said i you want my help youd better have my number as it will be easier to contact me.

immediately he rang me for another 2 hours, we talked about general things, what were into and stuff. i then said its my birthday soon he asked what we were doing and i said what makes you think your invited?

he was dispointed saying he wanted to come out with me, to my house, my brithday.

he was teasing more and as a joke i said i bet i could out drink you, outdance you im just better he couldn't take this and said we were going out us two.

then the day after he text me instead of his gf, whils he was at work! i said haven't you got some xbox mates to get back to? and he was like well actually im at work.

two days after, i thought id make the effort and texted him asking if he got his work done for deadline and whathave you. i then had to stop texting after like 5 texts ran out of credit. an hour later he came on facebook and clikd on me imediately. we spoke for a nother 2 hours.

he said he would text me the next day but didnt i havent bothered niether as i don't do the high maintenace easy catch thing.

i usually get chased not the other way around.

he never mentions his gf around me and whn i mention my bf he really doesn't like him and wants me to break from him. requesting how tall he is and that he could probably take him.

ive now not heard from him in 4 days its driving me crazy i normally dont give but this guy, i love that hes not all over me and isn't easy.