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Archived questions from: 18 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I want him to get a boner over me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I finally go out with the boy I like, he asked me out but last night I went to see him and then we went about with his mates and they were like Drew she's the only one you haven't gotten a boner over and then he was like you don't know, you weren't ...

4 months and I still cry over him... not because I still love him but because I'm hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am asking for advice and just a comment! Please be honest! I am 13 and I am going on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about a year. Every time we go out we are the main thing in each others life. We spend a good amount of time with each other an...

I don't get butterflies with my boyfriend... something's not quite right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - This is driving me mad... please I need advice!! I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months, I was in love with his friend, before I met him and I was young at the time but that's all in the past. My boyfriend is loving caring, polite, thoughtf...

My ex has started texting me again after we broke up 2 months ago, I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Dated a girl for 4 months. Was really good until the last month when things went south. She wanted to not be tied down at this point in her life (she's a freshman in college I'm a junior in college). I wanted something a little more serious. So we ...

He can't get hard, does he find me unattractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hiya, would love your opinions. I met this boy about a month or so ago and we speak all the time. I've stayed at his a few times but no sex. He tried it on with me a few times and I think I lead him on but I didn't mean to. Now he says he can't ...

What do you think guys - good or bad signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - There is a girl I like. I've never spoken to her before but I see her everyday. Her friends all seem to like me but I don't know about her. Today I was playing football with my friend and she was watching us. Everytime I went near her with the ball...

She asked if she could kiss me, but I am not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am 14 be 15 in September.I have never dated. Last night a girl who is quite attractive, better looking than I am, who is 17 asked me while we were secretly alone if she could kiss me. I was shocked and told her perhaps later as I had to thin...

I find it hard to make a single friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Is the middle child ever wanted? Is the middle child just a hassle? I am a middle child and I live at home, I am 28 years old, my younger sister is 14 years and my brother is 34 years old. My dad listens to my 14 year old sister before he'd listen ...

I am confused, depressed, frustrated, devastated, sick of my life! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 15 but I got the problems of an old woman with 10 children. I wanna ask you for help to solve at least some of these problems. 1- I love a boy and we go to the same school but we never talked before and we don't know each ...

Should I just wait to see where things go? Or is this just a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I've known for around 2 months now. For around the first few weeks we got along reeeally good and flirted a lot. We have like exactly the same personality. Then for a few weeks after that he started distancing himself and not ...

Should I move in with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Well... I find my friend sexually attractive (I'm bisexual, and she knows I do but she pretends she don't but she knows because I told her once and when I got drunk I kept feeling on her and she mentioned it and thought it was funny but she wants us ...

If someone smokes weed does that change his moods?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - If someone smokes weed and he sees a girl that has a brother that is friends with him and he has been giving her signs that he likes her and at the end he ignores her but still smokes weed does that change the person for who they are, becaus...

What's going on? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi,there I am So confused:S I been going crazy about this boy named "Harry" his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Last week On Monday I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end ...

I think my younger g/f's best friend like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I'm a forty-seven year old male who's been married four times before and has five children (wih only two of the women). I am also currently dating a twenty-one year old woman. We've been together since last Christmas and yes, we have had sex. But ...

Why do I keep going back to guys I've had a relashionship with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I have this problem where I often go back to guys I've had a relashionship with. Theirs one guy in particular that already has a girlfriend but hooks up with me from time to time. I keep thinking I'm a whore or something...am I? I mean I like him,...

I think I told him "I love you" too soon...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm currently going out with a boy and we have been together for two months now, although we have been talking for about six months. I really like him now and I stupidly told him that I love him. He said it's a bit too soon to say that sort of ...

Has she bought him the car to try to keep him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend has just bought him a new car, a 57 reg and he knew nothing about it, thing is they have been together for 2 months,and now I feel I wasn't good enough for him because I could neve afford anything like this, I did ...

19 and 45, what to do... need some help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was ...

Does this Claire have a crush on my fiance or are they just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm in my first serious relationship (22 years old) with a man in his 30's. We met on a blind date which in a strange way was set up by his mother who I knew. We got on real well and got engaged recently. His Mum sometimes spoke about these tw...

Stress is really taking a toll on me..should I talk to my teacher?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old and I have really been finding the past few terms at school difficult. I have a lot of stress from exams and courcework (who doesn't!!) and I have a friend who is currently very ill at the moment. I have tried to do everything I ...

I don't want her to go through what I did after the break up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - A very close friend of mine just broke up with her boyfriend of nearly three years and she's freaking out because she can't remember how to be single. (By the way, their break-up is justified because he's a crazy, sort of Edward Cullen-type with a ...

Getting through depression alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - how do u get thru depression by yourself? my friends dont care cuz they cant see it and when i tell them they still seem to not care. im going thru a break-up of my first love. and they say that its hard to get over your first love and it is. help....

How do I get this friendship back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I need help! I am so confused. I don't know what to do!! My friend doesn't want to be friends anymore. I know that kinda sounds a little silly to be asking for help by only just that. But then i Came to the conclusion of That he's my BEST friend. ...

Making excuses or means what he said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I really like and I thought he liked me too but I don't know what happened. We've been really good friends for about five years; one day we were hanging out and we were kissing then all of a sudden he's pulling away, saying he ...

I don't know what to consider myself???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am straight.. I think. All my life I was attracted to men. I love men! but once in a while I would look at a girl and think "wow she's mad pretty!" but I never have thoughts of getting with her or having sex with her. I usually imagine kissing her ...

Is this the start of love... or an extreme crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Hi there, I need a little advice. I'm 16 years old and I have a friend who I really like, she's just my type of girl, I love everything about her! I get butterflies whenever I see her and even when I hear her name. I get extremely jealous when I see ...

Stepping out of my sexual prison...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm still young but have been stuck in a mundane and protected box, only had 1 boyfriend which my mom really chased away when he found out we had had sex, and any mention of anything sexual is'nt something I'm allowed to partake in because I'm too ...

Rollercoaster ride!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I are on this crazzzzy roller coaster with our relationship! I'm getting tired of it and hurt and every time I think about just turning away everything we went through makes me heartbroken and go into a depression. I need help ...

Are there any steps you suggest to getting over a guy you are madly in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am asking for help how to get over a guy I love because I'm tired of being hurt and always the last to know everything. This 'relationship' with him began 2 years ago and since then he's lead me on, only talking to me if he wants sex. He never ...

Should I call the guy she is engaged to and tell him what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I have concerns for my friend. She became engaged to be married to a guy on January 1. The issue is she has continued a relationship with an old boyfriend up until recently in which I know that they have been having sex. How can she have sex with an ...