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anonymous
writes: hiya... im 17 and i have feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl...when we drink we usually end up kissing and once or twice its lead to sex...it was unbelievable... and i cant stop thinking about it...it was amazing.the thing is she is always the one who kisses me first which is really confusing...however i told her that i was bi accidently when we were drunk and she seemed fine about it but and ever since she doesnt want to talk about it and i get the feeling like she trying to avoid me...i didnt tell her cos i wanted her to admitt her feelings for me or anything... i just needed someone to talk to...when she is drunk she flirts loads, like telling me how she thinks that girl on girl is hot and stuff... and giving me back rubs and reaching round so she is subtly touching my breasts...im so confused... she sends me so many mixed messages... so i dont get why she is acting like this, is it cos she is doubting who she is so by me coming out to her has got her doubting if she is straight??sorry to go on abit but i really need your help...please... as many answers as possible...xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): me and my best mate a month ago had lesbian sex to we where very drunk and i am a lesbian but i did not start this off my friend kissed me and then we had sex it was amazing... but the things is it was my first time with girl is to me it was special .... my best mate is older and always had boyfriends also it happened again the other weekend ..my friend is very flirty maybe like your friend she experimenting ...i dont think you are alone i dont no if i have helped but i am alittle confused as well xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Maybe she is confused on her sexuality. This is one of thoes things you really need to sit her down sober and just ask her what's up. She could either have feelings for you and not ready to open up about it or she just is confused but she needs to know that its not awful to be bi a lot of females are. My best advice is talk to her when you are both sober and let her know that you're friends and if she is just confused its kinda hurting you but if she is not then tell her how you feel about all this.
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