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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I need helpful advice for my situation.Long story short, I am in love with this guy after 2 years who I have been intimate with but we are currently not seeing each other. In fact, he only talks to me for sex and in the last 2 years, I have seen him with 4 different women (including myself). This summer, he has a job up north in a clinic sharing a house with a girl from school and I am pretty sure they will hookup. I am very jealous and cant seem to get over him.I have tried deleting him from facebook, blocking him, leaving my cell phone off but none of it works, I still check up on him and he somehow still reaches me if he's lonely.I hate this feeling. I know its not him I need but a relationship but I want to move on from him and am out of ideas. Please help!! Any tried and true ways to do this before im hurt seeing him with someone else again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Tell him to go away. Tell all your friends and family that its finished.
otherwise, please follow the advice in this post?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-year-and-im-still-not-over-him.html
But i think you did the right think for dumping him. You are not a sextoy. You are much more - go find someone who loves all of you, not just the sexy bits.
Star.x.
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reader, loveuxoxo  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 its okay honey it makes sense to be upset and what you need to do is have closure. have him meet up with you and tell him how much he has hurt you and that you cared so much about him but its to late because you are done with how he makes you feel and its over. let him know he has lost you and then delet him off facebook, delet his number and change your number. just block him out completly and when you are ready then look for someone new! you can do it! and i know it seems so hard and almost immposible right now but you can! u will find so much better than him! he doesnt deserve u! just stay strong! i hope this helps! good luck
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reader, Miss Tj  +, writes (29 April 2009):
Actually, I was in the same situation myself but it wasn't aslong as 2 years. How you have been dealing with this, I have no idea but please tell me how because 11 months was long enough for me.
The best medicine is to find a new bloke. You need someone there who will distract you and after time you will move on. If you're not happy then you're just going to be thinking about this guy and after 2 years, you need a break. :)
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