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30-35,
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writes:I really want to know how to get over this guy I like, I'm still very young but I want to forget him so bad so if you know how please help me, or also any advice would be grateful.The story goes like this:He and I were very close friends, in fact we were best friends, this was like 2 years ago. He told me everything and so did I but he started to like me and I never noticed it. He sent me all these "read between the lines" stuff and dedicated songs that basically said that he wished I would see that he liked me as much as I liked this other guy and so on. Eventually our friendship vanished because I was so used to him staying in touch that when he stopped I didn't notice it and we lost the friendship.After a year or so of the end of our friendship, I started high school in another school, the same one he attended, and I notice that he "stalked" me all day long with his friends. It was until one day that he said Hi! on IM and we started recovering the relationship but only at parties did he said Hi! and we didn't talk as much, he just stared and stared...But to make the story short, he likes me and I like him, he even said it to a friend of mine and is way to obvious. The problem is that his friends practically prohibited him from talking to me or make a move, my friends say that they just want to protect him from me because I hurt him a long time ago but still its really frustrating that nothing can happen because of his friends, and he never goes against their word.So I've decided I can't wait forever, it has been almost a year going like this so if anyone has an advice or knows how can I get over my best friend that could be something more, please help me.Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks I'll try your advice :)
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reader, Audrina +, writes (29 April 2009):
You've just got to stop stressing over him and what he might be thinking. Every time he comes into your head think about something that he did was mean or annoying to you, eventually that will become automatic and you will get over it. You could also start socialising with other guys, new love interests or prospects are great for getting over someone, and will keep ur mind occupied! If you are having a particulary bad night thinking about him watch a thriller movie or something scary that will keep ur mind off it too.
I hope ive been kind of helpful but there really is no one size fits all answer, its different for different people. Be strong!
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