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My first ever crush hates me

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Question - (30 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *lade4york writes:

Hi, I'm 15 and in need of help.

I've liked this girl for over a year, she was the first girl I ever crushed on this hard. And I found out by signs and her best friend that she hates me. She actually is rather mean to me. I'm trying to get over her, I tried to force myself to look for anoter girl, but i just cant keep my eyes off this girl. I can't sleep anymore, I feel depressed. Oh like I said she hates me, i see her talk behind my back. In class today tis kid takes a string of a flashdrive and swung it over my neck, he sat beind me btw. And pulled back on the string as if e was choking me, I saw her just laughing at me. She even knows I like her, and is freaked out that I like her so she avoids me by all means. Also this one kid pushed me against a locker and she just smiled and make rude eye gestures with her best friend. I feel so pathetic to have such strong feelings for a girl who wont even look, or talk to me. I care about her so much, I even write poetry about her. I tried talking to er once on the bus, but she rushed me and put on her ipod. Why is it that i still have strong feelings for her. and why cant I get over her. What is next for me?

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A male reader, malum424 United States +, writes (30 April 2009):

malum424 agony auntOkay I'm gonna say this in a mean way stop being emo and get the hell over her{ for any emo kids feelings I just hurt sorry but it's guys like him that give you kids a bad name.} Look you want to get over her then just think about all the crap she been part of that's hurt you. I think you want her because you can't have her that's it no deep feelins nothing, you've just tricked yourself in to thinking that your desire for this little girl is love.

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A female reader, RaeMay United States +, writes (30 April 2009):

RaeMay agony auntsometimes a girl doesnt know that she likes a guy until she finally meets him. i saw my boyfriend at the beginning of the school year and thought he was retarded but we ended up dating. sometimes the girl just doesnt like the guy who crushes on her. if shes the type of person who laughs at you like that, do you really think shes the one for you? i suggest trying to talk to her. like if i was in this position, and the guy told me that he wrote poetry about me, i would actually talk to the guy. but i dont know what shes like.

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