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He isnt being straightforward with me

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Question - (30 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A female India age 36-40, *egna writes:

I am a women who is liked by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over heels in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more !

At first he told me that he is surprised because there is lot of men behind me who is better than him but y did I choose him , later after I explain him that I just like him not yet love him (because I don’t believe in love at first sight) .

After we spoke for a while we decided to get to know each other well so finally if we like each other we can commit! After that he is too busy so forgets to call me but when I call him and asked him if he don’t like me plz do let me know he refuses and tell he is pleased to talk to me .

but sudently one day he told me that he have a strong crush on me and not love becoz he cant sudently fall in luv with a girl, he told me that whether i am willing to have sex with him , i told him yes if he luvs me and swear to be with me forever. at once he told he know that this would be the answer and also promised me that he will be with me if he fall in luv with ...............i dont understand wat is in his mind , i feel like he is giving me a puzzle or riddle to find the answer?

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A female reader, megna India +, writes (30 April 2009):

megna is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hay thanx for all ur answer , but i think he is trying to to capture wat is in my mind ....because he knows that am person who pefer everything to be straight forward!!!!!! i can tell dis for sure eventhough i dont know him o well atleast to an extent....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009):

Er no! Listen to yourself! I can't believe that you think someone who said that they don't fall in love straight away, is suddenly going to fall in love with you when you have sex?! I mean come on! He is saying that to get sex. Why are you so keen on him all of a sudden!

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