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Archived questions from: 30 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I want his friends to like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He knows i'm very shy, and tomorrow we're going out with his best friend and his best friends girlfriend. I've met them before but i haven't talked to them much. I don't know how to start a ...

What do I do about a best friend, who no longer wants to be in contact with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - If your best friend wasn't very good at keeping in contact before she left for uni and now she is even worse. When I text her she says she has to have space and she'll text you when she's ready. Which she never text first before anyways. What does ...

I really like her, but she gets on my nerves! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I like this one girl named "Emily" but I just cant stand her. I mean that I am in love with her but sometimes she can get on my nerves. I dont think that she likes me though. I have had a crush on her for about a month. She is a straight as a line ...

My best friend likes me..I feel weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I feel weird around my best friend because he likes me he was my BFF since kindergarden but now where not best friends cause he is jealous of every boy I like a boy whose girlfriend is her cousin so what should I do?...

We have liked each other for 5 years but now after telling me he loves me he is being off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i have been in love with a guy for about 5 years,(lets call him x) we didnt go out but confessed that we liked each other 5 years ago, i had work things going on and my friend liked him aswell so nothing came of it. As that was happening i met ...

Was he telling the truth when he was drunk or was he not thinking stright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am so confused. Last week a guy at my work who I have liked for a long time bumped into me on a night out, he bought me a couple of drinks and invited me and my friends to come along with him for the rest of the night. While I am at the toilets ...

She lied about having cancer but I feel like I want to be back on speaking terms with her again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi I was wondering if you could help me as I am at the end of my tether and tearing up inside. I had a massive fall out with a friend 3 years ago, and have heard nothing from her in all the years then out of the blue I get a text message from h...

Is he just using me to get back at his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship ...

I am unsure of how to come to terms with my good friend being gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have just met up with a very close friend who I havent seen in many years. I found out the reason we fell out is because she is gay and she could not tell me as we were so close she didnt want me to feel like she fancied me. We had seen each other ...

Why do some girls not let go completely after a break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - why do some girls not let go completely ?? pardon me if i sound rude but i am depressed because my girlfriend has become panicky after i broke up with her and wants to stay my close friend ...where as i dont believe in friendship after breakup and ...

My friends are always coming to me with their problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi all, everyone who I know is used to tell me everytime about their problems. I meet my friend and he/she only complains. Well , I don't mind it. I even like to listen to them and help them to feel better. But the problem is if I have a problem ...

She rejected me before but I still get the feeling she likes me more than a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I asked this girl out for a meal when I started to think of the possibility of something other than frienship. She never replied to my email asking her. Anyway, we have still met a few times since, and the strange thing is I still get the impressi...

I'm starting to develop feelings for him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have this guy friend we have been talking to each other every day online and the conversations usually last for hours without either one of us breaking it. I usually have to tell him good night because it would be 3 in the morning and he would say ...

Could it be that he is jealous and still has feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hey thanks for reading. I recently brokw up with my ex 5 weeks ago, and we have remained good friends.... However a good friend came down from interstate last week. I spoke with with my ex and told him that a good friend was coming down, and sen...

He isnt being straightforward with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am a women who is liked by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over heels in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At first he ...

Is he cheating? please let me know what you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Is he cheating? pls tell me what you think..thanks..? Hey guys..I need an objective opinion asap. I have been going out for a guy for 10 months. For the last 2-3 months we were on and off and every time we had a fight he would dump on me. I gu...

My married friend is getting very friendly with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - One of my european friends makes me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it. When we hang out with her husband she always tell me how handsome I am and how lucky any woman would be to go out with me. She really plays it up and I feel...

Is he acting like a mate or a potential?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I like this guy, both at uni. I am friends with a lot of guys and usually don't fancy them but this guy caught my attention. it started in one of our workshops he made a sarci comment and i outwitted him he replied 'are you always this physco' i s...

My first ever crush hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and in need of help. I've liked this girl for over a year, she was the first girl I ever crushed on this hard. And I found out by signs and her best friend that she hates me. She actually is rather mean to me. I'm trying to get over her...

He says he likes me but he won't move it along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - So I have this buddy who I've know for two years and we've continually have gotten closer. Well I'm bi and I have a crush on him so I told him I like him and he tells me he has a thing for me too. Now the thing is when I try to take it to another ...

My life seems so boring compared to everyone elses

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I feel like my life is so boring and inadequate. I've got good friends, but not a circle of friends. Whenever I go out, it will be with, say, one of my girlfriends and her boyfriend... It just seems everyone around me has huge groups of fri...

I have feelings for my male best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I have a problem. I'm a straight female who I think has feelings for her male straight best friend. I think about pete* him all the time and we talk everyday, he's always been there for me and just recently I think i've realised that I may ...

I was raped by my sisters husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to ...

I prefer to be their aquaintance rather than a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - We live in a small community and our children go to a small school. There is a couple whom we have kids in the same grade with. This couple has always been very cliquish with another couple. (They were really good friends, and they were almost ...

How can I make my ex choose me over my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I dated a girl for a few years before she broke up with me a few weeks ago. Although we were not in a long distance relationship, we could not always see each other due to a number of reasons, and it has gotten worse lately. I became too ...