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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My gut says that my ex is an ex for a reason, but my heart melts every time I see him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I am going to start with the fact that I am very responsible and level headed. All of my friends joke that I am the voice of reason. However, I have an issue that I can seem to sort out on my own. I need some different opinions. I am currently ...

How can a man tell if a woman has put him in the friend zone or whether he is in with a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Hello. I was just wondering if there really is such a thing as the 'friendzone', after all, if you hang around long enough in the friendzone you've got a good chance of moving into the 'leg-over' zone, haven't you? Hmmmm - I really don't know. Along ...

Sex tips for 2 females wanting to get randy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm a female who is going to be "going down" on another girl soon, but I'm really worried I won't do it right, does anyone have any tips (from males and females is cool)....

Her past FWB, it's killing me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One nigh...

Can you fall in love after only 4 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hey ok heres the situation...the 2 days ago me and my best frend went round to her cousins house.as soon as i saw her 19yr old cousin i was speechless!! ever sice that day me and her cousin have been in contact all the time and we have met up ...

I'd do anything to feel safe in his arms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - dont know what to do been friends with a guy for 3yrs met online and have never met in person - theres a 9yr age gap for the last yrs its been totally on a just friends basis u kno nothing romantic or sexual but we've obviously cared alot about...

There must be a way to get him to like me! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I need help. I'm in seventh grade, and I've liked this boy since 3rd grade! We've been best friends for ever, but thats all. Tons of people say that I should just try to ask him out, but the thing is, I know he'll either say no, or walk away. L...

Cute vs Sexy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...

Why is he always nice, if he doesn't want to hang out with me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - This guy i like, who i speak to online like everyday (we text too). We speak for hours sometimes, and we obviously enjoy speaking to each other. We've been to the cinema before and he came to my house party last week, we ended up kissing and he f...

How can I move on and like another guy?

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9 April 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of complicated reasons. I miss him loads and still love him but I really want to move on. I have tried liking new people, but I can't like anyone seriously like I did my ex. This new guy has been tex...

Any ideas to keep my foreign friend entertained? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - well,tomorrow arrives my friend from another country.at first,we'll stay at my house and i have no idea what to do to have fun and keep us both entertained.what do you thing we should do?any suggestions?i'm 13...

What do you think is going on? Please answer all the questions.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i know he liked me a lot since the last year, it was so obvious, but at one point i started ignoring him. a few months ago he tried several times to greet me, but i didn't hear him and sometimes i didn't answer on purpose. last week when i was with...

He's asked me out. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and like this boy name him A so i liked him for a while since primary school but he gave me the cold shoulder always taking the piss out of me etc... Now i'm in secondary and i do still like him but as i've gone through the years alot o...

I've never met him before and he wants me to move in with him but I don't feel ready...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok I'm 18 nearly 19 and I am in love with a man who is 30 and I've know for about 7 months. I've never met him but speak to him every day but I am also an addict to heroin or was, I've been clean for about 4 months (but he thinks it's been a lot ...

Did he lie to me all that time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi cupid readers, here's the story! I was in a long distance relationship and I was so in love with him and he loved me. Then one day he told me a girl asked him out for a meal and he told me they were just friends and I was trying to tell h...

Can love and happiness really exist after being apart for years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Say you have someone close to you who you love with all your heart. Fate intervenes and you both go your separate ways. Just as unexpectedly as you part, years later you unexpectedly find yourself with that special someone again. ...

He dumped me but we still act like we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years btw (don't know if that matters to anyone) I love my "boyfriend" so much and will do anything for him, he is my home, my heart and my other half..but.. we're together for one year, and this has been my 1st very serious relationship. But...

My friends don't seem to appreciate me... what am I doing wrong???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I would be grateful if you could give me some advice. Here is my situation: I am a reasonably quiet, but kind and (sometimes) funny. Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of friends, but I am beginning to feel that they are taking advantage of me. T...

My girlfriend's friend is a total user but she can't see it at all.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Okay my girlfriend has this ignorant ass best friend who I don't like, she has this problem with speaking to people. She also tried to shit on my mom who helped her ass out when she was out of a job buying her pampers and baby food when she had no ...

Bad text message!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I let someone write a text to my girl. The words they wrote were hurtful but they were not mines and I do not want to lose her because of the the words written by the other person. I love her more than life itself an that's no lie. I just don't k...

She has a really pretty face but she's fat!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best foot...

How can I get her sister to see I have no ulterior motive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and I'm dating a 14 year old, now I know it looks like im probably just trying to get in her pants coz of the age but I'm not really, we both really like each other but the problem is her older sister, though she has never met me, she thinks ...

He got hard talking to me via webcam....does this mean he still likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hi so there is this guy he used to fancy me a while ago and i him but then he went away for a few months and we never spoke as it would cost far too much to text and ring anyways he came back but he had changed towards me he then said he didn't like ...

Rumours at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I work at a big place and haven't been here long and many rumors have started to spread about me that are untrue and hurtful. I have turned down many men here already and I feel they get angry and spread rumors to get me in trouble or make me look ...

How do I tell my ex I don't want him back without losing him as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i dated this guy for 3yrs, we broke up 2yrs ago but we were still friends. we've both moved on and are dating other people but yesterday he calls me to tell me he still loves me. he was my first love so i'll always love him but i cant go back. all ...

The more we hang out the more it hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - so theres this guy and he is my best friend, hes there for me though thick and thin. he treats my brother like gold (spoils him rotton)and my family loves him. we've gotten really close lately and i have fallen in love with him. but he doesnt like ...

A good friend or a potential girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - So there is this girl and I think she is amazing. Shes smart, helpful, pretty, and nice and I really like her. There are two problems here though, I am a girl and so is she. She knows that I am a lesbian but has no idea or at least I think she has ...

All the drama of new and old bestfriends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i made a new best friend. And my other "old" best friend seems kinda jealous like if i tell my new friend something that i don't tell my old one she gets mad. and the reason im not telling my old friend is that she blurts out everything i say if i ...

How do I deal with the fallout of this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm at uni and a popular girl with lots of friends. I've fallen out with a guy friend of mine and we fell out badly so that he decided to end the friendship due to a misunderstanding. He was mad as hell. He decided to believe lies spread by 2 bitc...

Ladies, what is it with this "let's still be friends" line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - When I like girl and she plays me for an ego boost I really don't want to talk to her ever again. It's happened before and I simply don't care. In one case it's been 3 years and she still randomly emails me out of the blue in the face of my dead ...