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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I feel like my life is so boring and inadequate.I've got good friends, but not a circle of friends. Whenever I go out, it will be with, say, one of my girlfriends and her boyfriend...It just seems everyone around me has huge groups of friends, who they hang out with every weekend, and do awesome things. Websites like Facebook don't help as people are constantly posting up photos of all the fun things they do...I'm not a massively outgoing person, I just feel like my life is slipping away and I'm wasting it...
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reader, BigHeartNLuvr  +, writes (30 April 2009):
I hear u, but u have to stop comparing yourself to others. Shyness can get in the way of living ur life tho. I am proof of it sometimes, I have my ups and downs with shyness. Life can pass u by if u let it. Don't be afraid to call up ur friends to do stuff and don't wait for them to call u. Learn to do stuff spontaneous. The more u do stuff, the better u will feel about ur self and ur life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): why do you have to be surrounded by a crowd to enjoy life? Why do you need a massive circle/entourage? You have to understand that some people just aren't wired like that. Besides, your few close friends, mean a whole helluva lot more than 1000 fair weather friends. Bet that.
Some of those quantity types would envy your quality of friends.
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