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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Sleeping with my best friends brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - im sleeping with my best mates brother what shall i do? do you think that i should tell her or not !...

Is my co-worker hitting on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - is my coworker he hitting on me? I started working for a new real estate firm. This guy started about 2 months after I did. We agreed to help each other through the real estate business, ideas, motivation, etc. I actually moved desks to be closer...

How do I turn my sex buddy into my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm sort of seeing this guy at the moment, it started out as a 1 night stand back in January but recently we seem to be making a habit of meeting in the pub for a few drinks and then going back to his house. I guess you could call us 'sex buddies'. ...

Thoroughly confused! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - This is thoroughly confused again more to my question and in regards to the answer we did have a big problem that made my ex distant and that was that I was listening to very bad advice from a very insecure friend of mine and I started being very ...

He only came to watch telly!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I've been out with a few dates with an old flame and on the third date we ended up kissing and we ended up sleeping together. A couple of days after this I went on holiday for a week. When I got back he came round for the evening and we watched tele ...

Opinions please. Do I stand a chance with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Ok I'll try n keep this short! Basically there's this girl that i like, and im trying to work out if maybe she feels the same. She knows im a lesbian. When we have sleepovers we cuddle up like a normal couple wuld, like 'spooning' and falling ...

I'm always just seen as "one of the guys"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I would appreciate some outside advice. When I started 6th form there were some new people start too and one of these was a boy who is also one of my best friends closest friends (she also started school with me this year) so this boy and i became...

Should I even try to win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Let's start at the beginning: I met a guy on the first day of university, and we started going out shortly afterwards. We were together 18 months, then we got engaged (pretty young i know!). We have lived together for two years, and been engaged...

We chat online all the time but why doesn't he ask me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Please help. I became friends with this guy in facebook, we chatted online every day, we are not completely strangers, more or less have the same circle of friends. We went out once, we had a great time and kissed. For the next three weeks, we ...

What can I do to make her happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I'm just gonna get straight into it. Someone who I have liked for a couple of months now has been going through some really bad times, and I kinda knew half-heartedly about them before but now they seem to be gettng more serious. Her parents ...

I have a boyfriend but I'm attracted to girls too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - When I was younger I used to kiss my friend in the toilets.(yes a girl!). I know this may seem like 'oh she's young and confused' but I'm not. But I am confused about what I am meant to do. I still have some feelings for girls and find girls mo...

I'm too intense when he's around. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I love a boy, we go to the same school but we don't know each other and we've never talked before. I saw him staring at me many many times and even my friends did. One of my friends is in his class and when he sees me with her he comes to us ...

How can I tell if this guy likes me so I can ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - there's this guy i like.he is the nicest, quietest, guy in class and i think i should ask him out.but i don't want to be teased about asking him out if he doesn't like me back.how can i tell if he likes me so i can ask?...

What do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Oh man!!- im still in shock!! what do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay??? Well that's what happened do me, i knew "D" since kindergarten, so it's been 8 years-we're really close friends and ...

I found my soul mate. Should I tell him or just leave it at that for now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I found my soul mate, but he is leaving my program for good. I won't see him anymore. I was thinking of telling him, but I'm afraid it will change things. Oh by the way, I'm 26 years old and he is 20 years old. Tomorrow will be the last time I w...

He gives me gifts. Should I feel guilty dating others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I should not be asking this question at my age..so but in any case this is the least of my worries.. I am divorced, awaiting unemployment, my son is grown, I am mostly college educated, totally at a crossroads of my life..so other than not having m...

We are considering a structured open relationship. Good or bad idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I just broke up because I can't see him sexually and have no sexual attraction to him. After a few days of being miserable, we talked and he said he was willing to consider a structured open relationship, which is what I ...

One night stand problems!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound really really bad, but I really need some advice. I go to college and the other week Ii had a one night stand with this guy. I always thought he was good looking, but never really liked him, but I was really really drunk an...

It's all such a mess of secrets, I need your opinions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I could really use your help, I don't know how to feel at the moment. In December I started a sort of friends with benifits situation with my best friend A, and it was all secret because he had a girlfriend at the time (wrong I know and I feel v...

We are "together" without the titles!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I was set up with a guy (by my dad of all people) and we hit it off immediately. Now, 8 months later we are still "together without the titles" and he always says he is not looking for anything serious. However, we have sex. I feel like we're just ...

Friendship and heartbreak

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i wouldn't say my problem is all that different from a lot of other girls' out there.. i was dating this guy 5 years back.. we met in a club.. really hit it off.. n i had a big crush on him.. he asked me out the next morning.. i wa...

$30.00 too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - just a quick question. its one of my friends birthdays in a couple of days, i don't see him very often but speak to him every day so i'm going to send him his present. i've got him a book and some silly things for his car and was going to send him ...

Why does he keep staring at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi. There's this guy at school that i have a crush on. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend so i haven't been able to ask him out. So i try to avoid him as much as possible like...

Does he love me? I waited 3 years for this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hay i am tia and i know over and over u have heard about loveing your teacher but i am deeply in love with mine it started off as a crush and this crush went for like 1 year and now for another year it has gotten to be love he is my science teach...

How do I make her see that she should get over her exes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - im 13 and my girlfriend is bi, and she has had a lot of gf and bf, i think being bi is only for nymphos personally by the way. she always looks at her exes weird and shes friends with half of them, it pisses me off. i love her and she said she love...

Boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A""

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - One morning(7:30), my boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A". I had a major HUGE test (3 hours) that day and it will determine if I'd graduate from high school that day. It totally threw me off. Anyways, I didn't know what to do....

His wife won't divorce him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Okay so 3 years ago, the summer of 2006 I fell for this guy. He was a junior while I was a mear freshman. I was 15 at the time, and I wasn't ready to commit myself to someone yet. So I told him goodbye and we stopped talking. Then I dated this guy ...

I'm interested but he seems 'clueless'! How can I make this clearer, without being obvious? Suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Ok, so l just told my best friend that l am quote, "interested" in him, but he's completely clueless, and doesn't understand what l'm trying to tell him. l have heard that he's bi, so that's not a problem. l have to be obvious, but not too obvious, ...

Possesive or Protective?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I was wondering if my taurus friend is being somewhat possessive or jealous with me. We used to date but now we're just reallllly great friends. The reason we broke up in the first place was because he's not the type to balance his personal ...