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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm in love with one of my closest friends. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - Okay well im 16, and one of my closest friends is 14 going on 15. Iv known her practically all my life and love her to bits. The problem is, now im starting to like her as more of a friend, i cant get her out of my head, and every time she comes an...

What should I do? How do I think, she won't even talk to me, I know that she needs space but I'm getting killed here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My name is Greg and I'm 21 next month, Well a little over a year ago I broke up with my first serious relationship, she totally smashed me in every way but I played the good guy card and ended up hurting myself in the end and I broke it off. A...

Is it true the longer you wait to have sex the harder it gets ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hey I am 16 and I am still a virgin I feel worried that I will never find anyone to have sex with because all my friends have boyfriends and are having sex and saying how good it is. I am afraid that the longer I wait the harder it will get. Is it ...

I have feelings for a guy friend. I want to tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I have been friends wth this boy for years, and as you have proberly guessed i really like him (as more than a friend) but recently he has started dating my best friend and i dont know what to do, as i know she really likes this other boy, i wa...

How do I tell him that I'm not interested in him as a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - How do I tell a guy that I like as a friend, that I'm not interested in him as a boyfriend? I met a guy on holiday as part of a big group of friends. I've since seen him again with several other people we met on holiday too, and we get on really...

How do I handle my relationship with my ex? We're both happily married.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi Am a married woman of eight years,a mother of to 2 kids. Two weeks ago, i met my ex -boyfriend for the first after departing for studies in australia, we gave each other our contacts. A week ago, he invited me for lunch of which i didn't t...

I want to be with this guy and I don't want to lose a good friend... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Liz in trouble I am 21... and my very old friend told me that he likes me... he's a great friend and I sort of like him too but he's going out with this other friend of mine called T... All three of us are together since junior high... I am in a ...

This girl who I fancy says that I'm her favourite boy in the class - also that I'm nicer than the others - does she fancy me or just like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - This girl who I fancy says that I'm her favourite boy in the class - also that I'm nicer than the others - does she fancy me or just like me?...

Next week I leave for another job 20 miles away, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm seriously going crazy over this guy at work, who I really like. He is everything I look for in a guy, manly, smart, kind, sweet and loves football, of which I'm a huge fan. The thing is I leave next Friday and I can't help but think about how ...

I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 9 months now only every couple of weeks because he lives in another town. I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him. From the conversations we've had ...

My friend is Bi curious and I love her! She said she wanted to experiment with me. Should I tell her I love her????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help! I'm 20 and I was recently joking with my friend that's also a girl that I would give her oral sex and have sex with her because she has never had it and I said that she is missing out on it! She's never had any sexual e...

I cant get over my work colleague

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We ...

My friend is really bugging me about our size differance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - im 15 and lately my friend has been bugging me, she is kinda overweight and says its weird that im two sizes smaller in clothes than her because we look the same, and the other day i did a test to find my BMI (body mass index) which shows you if you ...

I have a girlfriend but have met someone I like more. But she is engaged. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I've been seeing a girl for about a month now and everything is going really well. We get on well and the attaction is there. I live with my house mate and have done for some time now. Recently a new girl started work at her business and they ...

I love him with all my heart but a part of me wants to try new things.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend in 6th grade. (I know that's young). We dated for 2 years and then broke up for a year and neither of us dated anyone else. when I was in 8th and him in 9th. We got back together last year and have been together for ...

We have been together for 2 years and I flirt a lot with other guys. I have never cheated, just love the attention...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm in a relationship and we get into it a lot We have been together for 2 years and I flirt a lot with other guys. I have never cheated, just love the attention and I am in love with my man, I just can't seem to keep him as the only man that giv...

I would never have sex with someone under 16, but is it ok, (or legal) for me to go out with her, or do some of the things she is talking about.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 18 and have been mates with this girl who is 14 (nearly 15) for a while now. She has just revealed that she likes me, and has been giving me some vivid messages about what she wants me to do to her. I do like her, but am worried about th...

I hadn't seen him for 12 years. I like him. Does he just see me as a friend???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - hey dearcupid.. I am 14 and met up with this guy today and have known him since i was born as our parents were really good friends. Today was the first time i saw him in 12 years or so. At first it was slightly awkward as i fancied him and ...

We had sex. I'm his agony aunt when he has problems with his girl. But i have feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I'll try to keep this short, a few yrs ago, i became friends with this guy when he was going though relationship problem (his gf messed around with his brother) we became very close, and we had sex a few times,, Then he softly let me down by letting ...

I like this guy, but I dont know if he likes me!....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hiya :) ermm if u can give me anyyyyy advice i'd reallllly appreciate it because i'm really conufused and i don't know what to do :( well i'm 17 i really like this lad who's 18 :) i've known him along time, bout 6 years actually :) we've both al...

Has he gone off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Okay I need help, I don't now if I should start talking to him again? You know when you get that feeling that pokes you tell you do it well this is that feeling. I guess I should start from the beginning - my mum has a best friend who has a st...

I talk to this guy as a mate but he has a girlfriend. She sees me as a threat. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - One of my best friends introduced me to a guy. He claims he has been trying to talk to me for a long time. And I know he has but I never gave him the time of day. Now we've been talking for about a year... He has a girlfriend. He claims he likes me ...

We fell asleep together; the other competitors from the sporting club told me it's wrong, I could never have taken advantage over it though and it worries me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I'm 17 and theres this girl who's 15. We've known each other for years now and have always been really close. We went away with a sporting club a little while ago, and on the last night there, all crowded into one room. Her being much youn...

I'm wondering if my guy is cheating with my friend..what do you think???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for ...

Do you believe that "single" people are more inclined to mastubate on a frequent level or vice versa with those in relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so earlier today a friend and I got together at my place for our routine coffee talk. We discuss everything and anything, today's topic somehow became masturbation. At this point in time we are both currently single. My friend (let's call him ...

How can i step it up a notch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Well there's this girl i like, i see her every weekend and she is interested in me because we always talk and are around each other when we are out. The people around us know we like each other including her mum, and keep dropping hints in front of...

We fell asleep together and now everyone is taking this the wrong way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - okay well the prob is i have a very special friend and i love him to peices in a brother-sister sort of a way. Im 14 and he is 17 and iv know him all my life, with our families being so very close. A Little while ago though on tour, being the ...

Our friend is a liar, and a self harmer and we are at the end of our tether! Please advise..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - okay how can i put this, well one of my best friends is, lets say an attention seeker, but its getting quite serious she makes up stuff fo attention and now belives it herself. She used to self harm really badly but we got her to go an see a coun...

Me and my bloke split 2 months ago, he's already met someone new and now i've gone and annoyed his mate. I've got to work with them both! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I hope someone can help me out here as I am in such a mess. I know I will get through this but it is hard all the same. My boyfriend and I split two months ago and there has been no contact. I called him a couple of days ago to ask if we could meet...

Worried she's developing feelings for me, as I don't reciprocate and she'd feel rejected! I'm her best mate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - Okay i'm 16 and one of my closest friends is only 14. I have known her most of my life and we have always ben very very close and she always comes to me when she has a problem. However recently she has just broken up with her boyfriend, and i...

I'm 17 and friends with a 14 year old girl. Others are saying this is wrong. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - okay well im 17 and there's a kid who is very special to me (lets call her hannah) well she is 14 going on 15. I've known her since the day she was born and our families are very close. I have grown up with her and always looked out for her like an ...

How can i deal with friends that dont return my calls or visits, without it sounding like a big deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - do you feel slighted if you visit and phone others, but they dont reciprocate. what is the best reponse to this situation? should you reduce the frequency of your contact...accept that they dont value friendship as much as they do yours, or should...

I've been paired for a project with a guy in my class. He fancies me but i dont fancy him. How do i let him down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Im 14 and i go to a secondry school. well the thing is i found out a boy in a few of my classes likes me and well to put it bluntly i dont like him back but i dont want to hurt his feelings and he practically admitted he liked me in front of me ...

My friend has been in rehab and doesn't seem to want to talk t me anymore. Is that normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Do people get depressed and not really want to interact with others when they are trying to sober up? My friend is an alcoholic and she went to rehab and she's trying to stay sober, but I haven't heard from her and she used to call me a lot. ...

I just feel 'not bothered' about socialising at the moment. This is not like me normally. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - WHY WHY WHY?! Why do i want to be alone right now? I have lots of oppotunities to go and see friends but i just feel "not bothered" This feeling has been around for about a week now. I just want to be ALONE. It's not like me. Pleasee Pleasse...

We've been friends a year now and i still like him, But he now has a girlfriend. I cant stop thinking about him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - okay well theres this guy i really like hes 16 (im 14) and we used to be pretty close and went away on tour together with the band, he used to flirt with me an hint to me quite a lot but i didnt say anything to him not thinking its genuine. just ...

Me and my ex were going on holiday as mates, Now he's cancelled, I am so annoyed!! Should i be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have recently split up from my bf and we were due to still go on a pre booked holiday next week. We had recently become long distance and he wasn't prepared to make any commitments over the next yr so it was supposed to be an amicable split, ...

I'm in love with my friend but I'm unsure how to proceed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have this problem. You see, I'm in love with this guy at my school. He's one of my good friends, and I'm quite certain he loves me back; after all, he looked all mad even though his best friend was only helping me carry some stuff! But for ...

I like me my friend, but he doesnt like me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - theres this guy. and he has been my bestfriend for years after years. and we have dated alot. but now i like him and he isnt interested in me. infact he got mad at me for liking him. what do i do. im in need of help.!!!!!!! D:...

I hang out with a co-worker. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I asked the following question back on 6/25: I am 28 yrs old and have been working w/ my co-worker who is 40 yrs old for the past year. In this year we have gotten to know each other better and we often go out with 2 friends from work (our boss an...

I'm happy in my relationship and a guy at uni is interested. Whats the best way to let him down gently?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hi! I'm happily together with a very nice young man for nearly 3 years and I love him very much. At the moment he is working at the other end of town and I'm learning for exams at university, so we don't see eachother everyday. Last week I was lear...

A long term friend became my lover, then backed off. I'm feeling real low now. Do i forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I have been friends with someone for over 20 years and have always had strong feelings for him since we met at college. We got together a couple of months ago and went away for the weekend for our first date. It was everything I had ever hoped for ...

I'm meeting a guy i met on the net and am taking my friend with me. I'm positive he will prefer her!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone. We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me. My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he...

My mates been cheating on her guy and now I'm seeing the guy she's been sleeping with! What should i di??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi my best friend lets call her suzie said to me about three months ago that she really likes this guy she has known for two years, lets call him jake, and its only this year that he can return her feelings but now she has a bf! she keeps doing stuf...

I didn't want to ruin our friendship so i refused to date him, But now he's met someone else, I feel i made a mistake????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Should I tell him how I feel, or is it just too little to late? One of my best guy friends and I have always had a flirty relationship where we both basically liked each other. He has attempted to take things further on a number of occasions, but ...

How do i survive my freshman year without being destroyed by a bunch of seniors?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - I am currently entering my freshman year of school and unfortunately most of the guys have it in for me because of my stupid brother.......how do i survuve my freshman year without being destroyed by a bunch of seniors?...

My boyfriends female friend likes him! Its making me feel insecure. I hate her. Do i dump him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Ive been with this guy for six months now.before me he used to like a girl, but she got with his best mate and they are still together.my boyfriend and this girl are still 'best friends' though. is that possible???she really is the perfect girl for ...

This guy knows i like him, he has a girlfriend but wants to start seeing me! What shall i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - okay, well the guy i like is now 16 (im 14) and we've been really close for ages. he always used to flirt with me alot, but i just assumed he was just being a good friend and messing about. But about a year ago i realised i liked him as something...

Ive known him 6 years and like him lots but he just wants to stay friends. Do you think i have a chance in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I am in love with my best friend who i have known for my whole life. I have liked him for 6 years now and last year i told him how i felt. He said that he had thoughts about us dating too. But, he also said that it would be too weird because we are ...

I like this guy at work but there is an age gap and I dont know how how to approach him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so ive been stewing on this issue for quite some time, but now i think its time to ask for advice. I know this guy through the company i work for, we know of eachother's existence but refrain from speaking to one another. Now ive liked this guy ...