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writes:I have been friends wth this boy for years, and as you have proberly guessed i really like him (as more than a friend) but recently he has started dating my best friend and i dont know what to do, as i know she really likes this other boy,i want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared if i tell him he wil push me away and it cud reck our friendship.need help soon
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (1 September 2007):
hiya hun
the thing is with getting involved with your guy mate is that if he dont feel the samethen you will or may not b mates again...but if you go these feelings you will feel the urge to get this off your chest and it is always better to do so....but if your friendship is worth more is there any point...as for your friend if she is not truly serious about this guy then you need to tell her stop beig so false towards this guy as it aint fair to him..... you could ask him different questions like who do you like and syuff like that as at the end of the day where are you going wrong with that you could lways ask him would he ever get involved with any of your friends.he could say yes and then you could decide in saying something that you like him
god luck hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): if this guy is as good a friend as you describe him, he should be totally understanding when it comes to how you feel. As for your friend, who is dating him when really she feels for another guy, consider dropping hints that let her know that what she is doing is wrong and can be very hurtful to both you and him. does this girl know that you like him? lack of communication can lead to trouble!!
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reader, Tough Love  +, writes (31 August 2007):
I wouldn't get involved with this. Let it go. Don't do a thing. Let nature ride it's course. Eventually, he will find out, get hurt, and you will still be his friend. It will turn out okay. Leave it alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): I think you should talk to your friend. Ask her who she prefers out of the two guys. If she breaks up with your crush, then you can comfort him. I think you have to be there for both of your friends and I'm sure the situation will resolve itself quick enough. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): if i were you, i would tell your friend not to mess the guy you like about as she has another guy in mind. hint to her that she has made the wrong decision about being in this relationship. only when the relationship is over should you tell your guy that you like him. if you wait till the right moment and strongly hint that you have emotional feelings for him your friendship should stay strong, maybe even more.
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