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writes:I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone.We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me.My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he's going to take one look at her and like her instead of me. Seriously, im an ugly duckling compared to her and as I said, I REALLY like him.What do you think I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): I know how exactly how you feel...I've met a guy on the net before with my best friend and it turned out that he started liking her instead of me... Then I wuz talking to this guy for about 3 months and then he met my best friend and he started forgetting about me i mean he would always call her instead of me. SO now I don't want her to meet the guy that am starting to like even though she wants to meet him becuz am sure she will talk to him and he will like her instead of me. So if you really think it will happen then you should take someone else with you.
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reader, g man  +, writes (28 August 2007):
You have to have a little more confidence in yourself. Do you trust your friend? If he likes her better,then he was no good for you from the start.
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (28 August 2007):
 you can never trust people over the net and honey you seem to have insecurity issues its a shame you dont believe in yourself or love yourself it doesnt matter what your outter beauty looks like because personality is the sexiest most beautiful thing around and it is a miracle that in a world like this it still exists to meet this guy without your friend or another guardian is putting yourself in danger i no the feeling i met someone over the net once and he turned out to be someone 10 years older then me i was so thankful my parents had came with me!(i was 16 at the time)your bigger concern should be this guy there is no real proof that he is who he says he is why do you seek love in fantasy darlin? if this works out for you then touch wood and happiness but your young why not go out and find some real guys?does not matter what you look like beauty is not just skin deep your probally thinking 'what does she know' but like your friend my best mate does not like me meeting her new guy friends because she fears they will like me instead and it is not always the case neither! its a shame she has such insecurity because her personality is outstanding and that is what makes her beautiful x love and peace x
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reader, supersquirrel +, writes (28 August 2007):
 do NOT meet him alone, take someone with you no matter how much prettier than you you think they are, going alone is too much of a risk..much more of a risk than him potentially liking your best mate. please be safe and make sure someone knows you two are going to meet him and where you are meeting him, give times of when you expect to be back and what time to start worrying.
if he prefers her then he's not worth it, isn't it better that you realise that earlier on rather than when you've made a relationship with him?
confidence is much more attractive than beauty, work on that, don't worry about your friend's looks x
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reader, penta  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Why do you automatically assume that this guy prefers looks over the conversation he's had for a month? You've gotten to know him; is he really that shallow?
And if your self-esteem is really that low, why are you bringing a looker to your date? Shouldn't you leave her at home?
I think you should work on your confidence. Self-confidence is sexy; neediness really isn't. He likes you. You're the one he talked to. You're the one he made the date with. You're the one he wants to meet. Be confident in that, if nothing else.
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reader, crazyone +, writes (27 August 2007):
 You should just think positive.To you you might be ugly but to him you might be beauitful.I hope I helped.
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