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anonymous
writes: I am in love with my best friend who i have known for my whole life. I have liked him for 6 years now and last year i told him how i felt. He said that he had thoughts about us dating too. But, he also said that it would be too weird because we are so close. I cant seem to get over him, do you think i have a chance with him in the future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEvery time I try to get over him I just fall in love with him even more. I have prom this year and i'm so nervous because when i see him with another date it is going to be so awkward. should i tell him anything ?
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (28 August 2007):
I'm in the same situation with my best friend except i'm the one who doesn't love him, it's hard for me because i feel so close like he's my brother maybe he feels that way about you too? If so i would not dwell on the idea thay maybe he could develop feelings for you because life's too short like that, life is full of opportunities and chances honey so one can assume one will always have a shot but i wouldn't add any pressure atm, just enjoy the friendship you have and see what happens x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): It looks like he's confused about how he feels for you. Move on. Rather than wasting your time loving someone who doesn't love you back have fun with your mates and you might end up coming across someone who you like more and who is interested in you (and this will probably happen when you least expect it). Don't wait for your friend to fall in love with you, after all it might not even happen.
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