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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Going out with this guy I like will really upset my good friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm in a sticky situation Ilike this guy, lets call him X I met X about a year ago but we wern't really that close, we were like, hi and bye kinda friends.... I really liked him, and whilst drunk, texted him saying how much I liked him. HE tex...

He went from dating me to just being friends with me and now...he's ignoring me! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I finally started going out with this boy who I liked for a couple months. We seemed to really connect; we hung out a lot and always laughed and smiled when we were together. But best of all is that we could talk about anything together, including ...

His mates tease him about us and it's harming our relationship! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hey i have a real problem ok ive been out with this guy 6 times...and it hasnt worked out for more than a week because his mates keep making fun and saying crap like 'have you f**ked her yet?' and he didnt want that. ...

Why do I have to choose one of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...

Is he being selfish or really doesn't like my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi this may seem silly but it hurts me. the thing is my friends invite me and my bf out everytime they are going out and when i ask my bf if he wants to go out he always makes up an excuse like on sat there. my friends had arranged to go for a night ...

I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...

If he is quiet or distant I blame myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a good relationship with one of my male friends to the point that I love him. We get on great have lots of fun (not intimate) but at the moment he is happy being single and doesnt want a relationship. We talked and agreed that we ...

Just 'sex buddies' and he dumped me! Having a hard time moving on..any tips?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and since May I have been the 'bed buddy' of a 29 year old man I met on the internet. I grew attatched to him. I had feelings for him. I wanted to tell him how I felt but didn't get the chance because he was busy. So weeks passed and I didn't ...

Need to tell this guy, I don't want a relationship. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex bf, but i'm not telling anybody because I know that everyone will disapprove as they think I can do better (and he has a gf so I can't do anything about it). My ex's mate who I was into once has been showing an interest ...

I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...

I came to work hungover and this guy I liked, asked if I pulled someone else...does this mean he's interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I really like this lad I work with but the trouble is I don't know if he feels the same. We've been working together for almost a year now and we have a laugh together and can talk for ages on the most random topics. He always seems to make time to ...

I thought he was taking me for granted, but now I haven't talken to him!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - thers this blokes whos 25 and im 18. he says that he likes me and wants to get to know me. he always takes me out and this has been going on for just over 6 weeks now. but hes still not mentioned a relationship! also friday just gone he let me down ...

Any advice on how I can get my confidence and social life back and make new friends? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - This is probably a stupid question and I feel a little embarrased asking for advice. Basically I feel that I have no social life and find it quite difficult to be sociable and make friends. I find it very hard to join in and hold a conversation. I ...

I want to be more than just her friend...the sexual tension is driving me crazy. What should I di?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6589 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - i'm completely at a loss here about what to think and i need help. i've been best friends with this girl for nearly a year now. we spend a good deal of time together, and we have a great deal of fun in each others company. but since the day we ...

Don't want Peter around me anymore but don't want to explain things to him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - A boy in my gang Peter caused problems between my ex best friend(Susan) and I as they started to try to go out in secret Which I do not know why meant my best friend started to be upset with me and his atittude to me(peter's) was very unkind. My ...

I'm hurt and frsutrated with the way people treat me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6589 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I am feeling a bit down and frustrated with myself because of the way I let people treat me, mainly regarding my boyfriend but also a few of my friends. I was quite hurt by the way my boyfriend treated me on his birthday (he initially invited me to ...

If your friend starts dating your ex gf...is he still a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6589 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone if you dated a girl then you's broke it off as your male friend was then dating your ex, you couldn't see him as a friend anymore could you?...

I respected her and cut off contact with a female friend but now...she won't do the same for me with her male friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Me and My gf are going out for 9 months now.Problem started when she asked me to break my relationship with a good friend(girl) and i did it.Now she has gotten close to friend(boy) and i asked her to do the same,she wont do it.Also she tells me i ...

We are friends but she keeps wanting to hold hands and hug constantly asking if I love her...which I do!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - Q) Should i(male) ask out "R"(female)? Q) If yes, then how do i ask her? Q) How do i build up to i love you in a conversation? Situaton: We are alredy friends but recently(months)as in half this year, i feel were closer. she has also been toyi...

I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6589 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My ex bf's mate has made it clear that he wants to be with me. I'm confused because I really liked him when I was still in the relationship with his mate, infact I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me. Now I'm really ...

Meeting with him again would be playing with fire

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6589 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up at the beginning of the year, after three years of being together. Things had been difficult for a while - there were various things about our lives we were not happy with, and our relationship suffered as a result. I ...

My best friend also likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Hey guys. I really like my boyfriend and I care about him. And there's my best friend (aka also a relative of mine), I talk to her about everything. We are practically like sisters. But one problem is that she likes my boyfriend. She is always ...

I think I'm in love with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - I am i 16 year old girl and i think im in love with my best friend....i dont know tho...i want it to be lust more then love..but he has that thing about him..we were dateing but broke up.....i dont want to hurt him again...but i really think i love ...

The other night as a dare we kissed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6590 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - Well, one of friends broke up with her boyfriend recently. And the other night as a dare we kissed, but all of a sudden i find myself really liking her. I dont know if she like me or not, and I'm confused about what to do! Can someone help???...

I think she likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - How to tell if sum1 likes u? Im 13 and male and theres this girl in school who i think likes me. Is there any easy way to tell? We're friends as well if that helps......

Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had ...

I've never turned down a guy in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I had a relationship with S for 4 months, and he had a mate, M, that i really liked as we really hit it off. But My relationship with S ended 4 weeks ago, and today M was hitting on me. I have some serious hang ups at the mo, part of the reason me ...

he keeps giving strange looks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - hello. e here im falling for this boy who im friends with and he keeps giving strange looks. i think his friend n has told him. what should i do?...

He emails me everyday! That has to mean that he's interested...right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Can someone please suggest what I should do next! I have recently split up from my husband due mainly due to our lack of a sex life. I have also recently developed a very close friendship with a business associate. We email each other ...

In love with my best friend, how can I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - well where do i start. Im sort of in love with my best friend (male). We are really close and speak on the phone every night except for when either or us go on vacation. My other close friend told him i love him as i have done for a while, and he ...

Should I ask him out even though I have feelings for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I haven't ever had a proper relationship even though I am 19. I really fancy this guy in my year at uni and have done so for ages, but am way to shy to make the first move. However I really met another guy who i like but not quite so much, who is ...

I like my friend's bf and he likes me! Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hey i need help! i used to really fancy this male friend of mine and i know that my friend did as well so i decided to set it up for her and now she is with him but i still really like him and he isnt happy with her and keeps making passes at me. if ...

I'm staying friends with her as I'm hoping to spark her feelings for me back up!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - I am 21 and have recently mutually split from a long term relationship (4 yrs) where everything appeared to be lasting for life with ambitions of marriage and kids as we both loved each other immenseley. She fell out of love with me over a long ...

I liked this girl, told my friend, he's dating her but treating her like crap!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Istarted liking this girl that i grew up with in church about my freshmen year in high school. Well of coarse i talked to my best friend abuot it. Well about two months after he asked her out. Yeah i am still friends with him but i also am still in ...

I saw him first and am in love with my friend's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6593 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - help im in love with my best mates boyfriend, i met him first and had a brief fling with him, a year later and my best mate is dating him. I cant help looking at him wishing i was with him and not her. What should i do?...

I am bored with my bf's gal friend and he thinks I don't like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6593 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - hi, my bf and have been together 5 years, i am 18 and he is 24, there is this girl we both know , he is more friends with her and has more in common with her that what i do, which is ok, the thing is i find it hard to make converstation with her as ...

I want to ask this girl to the school dance but unsure whether my mate is thinking the same!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - hi! there seems to be a trouble with me a friend. i want to ask this girl to the school dance but i think that he does aswell. i haven't said anything to him. he begins to act all strangely around her. he seems to be unsure and slightly nervous...

He has issues with bigger girls...are we just friends or is he trying to get over the fact I'm a 16???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6594 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have a guy friend that i like but he has issues with bigger girls, we spend 90% of our time together and the other 10% on the phone talking. He says that we are just friends but i get different vibes, he flirts and I stay at his house alot ...

I asked him the 'status' of our relationship...I wonder-am I pressuring him too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6594 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have been feeling rather down in the dumps as I have been seeing a guy for nearly 2 months. Got drunk and asked the status of 'us' everything a guy dreads! He didn;t want to discuss it and I feel this could have made him not as inter...

Do any of you see your exes as good friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, could you see your ex as a friend?...

She is ill but I feel she is being unfair and selfish on me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - My best friend suffers from cancer ans she's under treatment, She is from a village and has a flat in my town. She is very nice but she is very messy about time or dates arrrives late,changes appointments or asks me for her to buy take away food ...

There is nothing between us and we are still mates but I want something to happen again!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - hey all cupids, A few months ago me and one of my best friends were out down my local area when we met one of my male friends mr x. we walked around for a while and me and mr x got very close we were holding hands and touching. when my friend w...

We slept together and I really like him but we don't want to hurt our friend who likes him too!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6594 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i have just started uni and made some quite good friends.most of the group i am with travel to uni every day exept me and one lad over the last 5 weeks we have become realy good mates.and on thursday we ended up sleeping together.now i dont no what ...

I'm 15 and don't like hugging anyone except the guy I have a crush on! Why am I this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - hi im a 15 year old and first question: all my mates at school hug ppl. basically if they see their boy mates they hug them to say hello. my boy mates hug me sometimes to say hello to me as well but i just dont really like it. i mean i dont min...

Invited to two parties! Which one do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - hey, about 2 or 3 weeks ago i was invited to a girls halloween party and i said i would go... but yesterday i found out that my best friend was having a party on the same day for his birthday. what should i do?... im going to have to pick one but i ...

He is everything I look for in a man but I'm not attracted to him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Hello, I have a bit of a problem. There is a man I've been friends with for a very long time, there has always been that "relationship" aspect of it, and it's become more apparent. His personality suits me well, most of the things that I look f...

She says she is not the type of person that has affairs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Any help would be appreciated. I am in love with my best friend, who is a woman and a lesbian She is in a relationship but is very unhappy. I was recently in a relationship but have broken up. I have known her for 7 years and we are very close. ...

Rock Horroe Show Hallowwen party comin up-I want to go as the 'sexy maid'. Any suggestions to doing this inexpensively?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Might be wrong place but... My friend is having a Rocky Horror Show halloween party. I want to look sexy as the boy that i like is going, how can i do this (and go as the sexy maid) inexpensivly?...

We got a deep connection and call each other like brother and sister but I feel more than that...should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - i've known this girl for nearly 3 years now. there's always this particular chemistry whenever we're together. we share the same passion for music, pondered about the same things, and even share the same belief. we confide a lot in each other, ...

I thought we had chemistry but now he's back with his es gf. I'm confused-so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Hey! Well my issue is.. I'm 27 and I have feelings for a friend of mine that is 20. We've been friends for about 6-7 months now and we have such a great time together. The first 3-4 months of our friendship, we'd spend every weekend together hanging ...