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writes: hi! there seems to be a trouble with me a friend. i want to ask this girl to the school dance but i think that he does aswell. i haven't said anything to him. he begins to act all strangely around her. he seems to be unsure and slightly nervous. also he tries to show him self off by saying i did this and i did that...myself, i am in everyone of the girls classes and we speak to each other just asking how her weekend was. each time se sees me she smiles and waves. i smile back and continue with my day. i keep thinking that she wants me to make a move should i? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): Since schools probably out this probably won't be much use just in case ur interested........Don't let your friend's possible crush on her stop you from asking her...If she likes you, which it obviously sounds like it does, ur friend wouldn't have had much of a chance anyways. Also, if you feel sorry for your friend...try to make him feel better...maybe try to set him up with somebody else...show that you care, and he won't be too mad.if he's still feeling sorry for himself, talk to him, try to boost his confidence, and don't hesitate to take the luxury of pointing out when a girl is staring at him.Trust me, it will all work out in the end either way. Literally, the exact same thing happened to me this year......i got the girl, and me and my mate are still best of friends, no hard feelings (or at least i don't think they are)Whatever...go in there with some confidence and never underestimate urself
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reader, stina  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Hello Anon,
If I were in your position, I would be a little worried that I might upset my friend by asking this girl to the dance. Perhaps you could just mention in passing that you're going to ask her to the dance and see what his reaction is. Or else you could flat out ask him how he'd feel about that. Since you don't seem to have any strong feelings about liking this girl, at least like your friend seems to, then it seems the better choice would be to not upset your guy friend and remain friends with the girl, too.
Take care.
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reader, Little_Laura +, writes (24 October 2006):
 If you think your friend REALLY likes her you should ask him if its ok for you to ask her but otherwise - ask her first and if he confronts you, claim ignorance!! In the lon run, its only a school dance - just ask her and see how it goes xxxxxxx
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Ask her before your mate does or you could lose out if she says no at least you can ask some one else but if he gets to ask her first you will never know will you go on ask her she might say yes A
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reader, dearhannah +, writes (24 October 2006):
Oh sure you should make a move and get it over with,But before you do you might want to ask you mate is he is ok with it because i think it could ruin ur frienship if you didnt.
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