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writes: I haven't ever had a proper relationship even though I am 19. I really fancy this guy in my year at uni and have done so for ages, but am way to shy to make the first move. However I really met another guy who i like but not quite so much, who is younger than me who i barely know. This guy has now asked me out and i am really tempted to go for it, however i am worried i am only thinking this because i want a relationship and that it would be very unfair to him as i still have feelings for the other guy. should i say yes? help!
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 I have my own thoughts on the ethical concerns, but it would be a lengthy explanation. So, I will just give you the easy way to deal with this.
Ask the guy you really like out. If he says yes, you get the guy you want. If he says no, you have adequate closure to ask the other guy out without the ethical considerations.
You might be shy, but when there are only two answers and both work out well for you it's not really much of a risk.
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reader, fATTYNATTY +, writes (27 October 2006):
 oooooh, well you have doubts, so what does that say ? don't think you'd want to go out with some one if they liked someone else would you ? lol, Although, you could just go out for one date, see how it goes, maybe you'll enjoy it ? it could increace your confidence with guys. Do what you feel is right and what you want to do, try and get to know the guy you like better, you never know he could be shy too, and waiting for you too ask x
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