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writes: Q) Should i(male) ask out "R"(female)?Q) If yes, then how do i ask her?Q) How do i build up to i love you in a conversation?Situaton:We are alredy friends but recently(months)as in half this year, i feel were closer. she has also been toying with me.Like asking if i want to hold hands or hug.- I am hiding my feelings from her because i dont want to ruin our friendship. I am worried if i tell her how i feel then things will go quiet between us.I dont want that beacuse we travel to school every day and also meet up outside of school with other friends.-If i decline the hand holding or hugging then she will link arms with me and parade me around while asking if i love her.(In reality i do but i dont want to admit it formally infront of everyone.)So i "yeah" as a reply and pretend to shrug it off.See, i even tell her i love her i dont deny my love to her but im facing a bigger problem now ontop of my cowardice.:Im in the last year of Secondary/High school so if i dont tell her now then ill never get tell her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Hi Timortal,
Thats so cute!, Ok think you know its now or never, Shes obviously shown her feelings for you,She Fancy's you loads, now all you have to do is tell her how you feel, your Friends should be suportive to you, There maybe a little envy at first, but if you still spend time with them too everyone should be cool with it,
Also its important to take things slowly thus keeping your friendship in tact,should it not workout between you in that way,Try going somewhere just you and her like on a date somewhere fun like Bowling, If you feel a spark then you can tell your friend's you two are going out, But you dont have to say anything to them unless things do workout,you dont need spreaded around its your buisness after all Good Luck hope it works out, Ditzy-Blonde :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): I would guess that she wants more than a friendship so my suggestion is to ask her to a movie just the two of you, if you go just put your arm around her to see how she reacts. Do not mention that you love her untill you guys are officially together
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