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writes: Hi there,I have been feeling rather down in the dumps as I have been seeing a guy for nearly 2 months. Got drunk and asked the status of 'us' everything a guy dreads! He didn;t want to discuss it and I feel this could have made him not as interested as he previously has been.I haven't liked anyone this much for ages and we are a pretty mature as in our late 20's. We have both had a fair amount of unsuccessful relationships so guess we are scared of jumping into anything serious so quickly. We have both met one another's friends and get on really well but feel I could have made him think I am pressuring him because of this. The way he acts it seems like he really likes me and cares for me and acts like he is with me. Do you think he may be thinking he no longer wants to be involved? x
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reader, jack23 +, writes (24 October 2006):
 If things are still the same between you, he still makes you believe that hes interested and he hasnt gone off with anyone else, the I would believe that the chances are his feelings havnt changed.
It might be worth attempting to get him to discuss whats happened in past relationships that cause him to be cautious and help him address these issues, note if he says he doesnt what to discuss it then dont pressure. If things continue and you feel like you are getting no where, it may be worth thinking wheather its really worth hanging around for him, orif you feel you can comfortably continue with the way things are.
Another thing I would question is what makes you feel that you love him? Try and establish exactly what it is that makes you feel the way you do, understanding this may help you make more educated decissions.
I hope this helps :)
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