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writes: well where do i start. Im sort of in love with my best friend (male). We are really close and speak on the phone every night except for when either or us go on vacation. My other close friend told him i love him as i have done for a while, and he said he really liked me too, like a sister, but also a best friend and sometimes he also wants something more. This all happened 3 weeks ago and nothing has come of it, he had a 3 day 'relationship' with this girl following a party we both went to, but nothing happened between us except we had an argument. But that was ages ago. He said he was confused and didn't know what he wants, or if he wants to take the risk of losing me. What can I do? I want to be with him so badly.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (27 October 2006):
Hi dearie,
I know u really do like this guy and want to be with him but i feel he is confused on what he wants now and u shouldnt get involved with someone who is still unsure so that u dont get hurt. He is aware now on how u feel about him so give him time to sort out his feelings but in the meantime do go out and enjoy yourself with other friends as well.Dont focus too intently on him alone.
Take care now. Kelly
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