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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

In a drunken call, I told my ex I missed her. Now she won't talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I went out with this girl for 1 year and 5 months we loved each other, but we broke up because we were both stressed and we didnt know how to deal with each other at the time. we understood we needed time apart.. We broke up in august and start...

Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ...

Why falling for your teacher is never good!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...

Emotions or reason? Which one to follow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Emotions or reason? Which one to follow? I met her twelve years ago while traveling (became barely friends). I liked her and visited her once more few months later. I had decided not to come back. She was young (19 and I was 28), little careless,...

I'm 15, he's 25, is it illegal if I am with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hello i just wonderd if u could giv me some advice really i lyk this boy and hes older than me well hes older than 25 and im 15 i jst wonderd is it illegal if i am with him?? and do u think its right?? wb x ...

In love with a teacher and worried it's becoming an obsession...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - I've recently realised that I am experiencing romantic feelings towards one of my teachers at High School. At first I thought that it was just a crush, and I'd forget all about him and like someone else in a couple of weeks' time. However, things ...

I hate feeling this way, I hate how much this man affects me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Please, I could really use some help. I am so in love, infatuated, or whatever you want to call it, with one of my teachers, and now i can't sleep because of it. I'm so tired all the time, but I lie awake for hours trying not to think of him, yet ...

I do not want to be with her, as I know it's illegal. I seek your advice on how to get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number...

I'm having emotional problems while away at University, can anyone relate to what I'm going through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - After reading all the schoolgirls' crushes on their teachers on Dear Cupid, I realized how naive I was. I posted a question a few weeks ago about my feeling for my university professor. I have experienced a traumatic relationship. I ...

A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...

My dreams are even filled with this teacher and this love is taking over my life. What should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys I,m in a real situation here. I seriously need help getting over my MARRIED male teacher. It all started when I moved to this new school about two years ago. He was one of my teachers and I took an instant liking to him but then this inn...

My uncle asked me out, and we've talked about having sex, but I have some questions.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hey, im having trouble with a major issue in my life. My uncle asked me out and i like him a lot so I said yes. But we keep it a secret so he can spend the night. He is six years older than me. We talked about having sex, but I'm scared it will hurt ...

Teacher - Student Relations (Article)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - As an avid subject on Dear cupid I felt compelled to write an article on teacher and student relations and what becomes of them. Most of us has at one point been attracted to a teacher, whether it be that young fit sport teacher or that slightly...

How should I go about appologizing to her parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I've known my gf now for over 2 going on 3 years and we've been dating for going on 2, and i'm so in love with her and she feels the same for me. High school sweethearts, planning to get married the whole 9 yards. Well on problem...her mother d...

He won't even look at me now... He is a good man, has a loving heart but he is too flirty...this is a teacher I dated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I recently dated this teacher of mind. He is still married with kids. We split due to him wanting to reconcile with his wife and that split lead to many more controversy to the point where he almost got sent to prison and fired. But now i still have ...

I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...

I'm 17, my teacher is 27. I have a crush...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He's 27 years old, and its his second year teaching. I had him when it was his first year teaching, and it all started then...He's a really great teacher, I learned a lot from him. This ...

Time to end the fling with the married man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for 2and a half months and things started off really well and he used to pay me so much attention but recently, things have just gone downhill he hardly calls or makes any effort to stay in touch. Although ...

Advice please on how to get this teacher out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Okay well i left skl like 2 weeks ago and im in oncfe a week not to do my exams. Heres my problem tho, I am completely in love with my teacher :/ I actually sit up thinkin about him, his old daft jokes still make me laugh when i think about them ...

Is he just being friendly or is it more ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - i have a thing for my teacher... well it all started off when i started my new school. i spotted a teacher that a few people liked, well 1 or 2 to be honest + me at 1st, he was just a normal teacher i used to get into touble with him, but he used...

Both married, and it cannot be. What happens to the feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - Man meets woman at work.There is serious attraction on both sides. It cannot be. Both married, age difference, etc. The friendship is ended on good terms.Both look to their marriages. What happens to those feelings in time? Those of you wh...

My teacher found out I like him,

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

23 May 2008 (?) - hey this is like my personal story i would like to share you. See i'm 17 and have feelings towards my 10th grade history teacher. Last year were pretty close we would talk about teacher student stuff you know the typical, and no lie, i couldn't con...

I have this teacher. I am 17, & he just turned 29..........

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I have this teacher. I am 17, and he just turned 29. Anyway, the attention I began to receive were, in my opinion, just regular expressions of favoritism but then my friends are telling me otherwise. I will list them in order. He picks me too fre...

I am secretly in love with my cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 May 2008 (M) - PLEASE DO NOT answer the following question with morals and personal opinions of how it is wrong or disgusting (insert hurtful comment here). ALSO no other arguments against my preference whether that be Science, Law or experience. I have a cousi...

How do I get over falling in love with my therapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

22 May 2008 (F) - I realize that the following question has been posted in so many different ways, over and over again, but I am in need of some really sound advice. How do I get over falling in love with my therapist, especially when you know without doubt that ...

My teacher is amazing I like him.. HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

22 May 2008 (F) - help! I am a 17 year old female and my teacher is in his mid-30s and I like him. I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know if he likes me, he used to be really cool with me and treat me normally (sometimes kinda weird.. but I guess he's jus...

Is this feeling called love or something....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - There is this facilitator or can also be regarded as my teacher. Usually from what I know and read, people said that your heart will beat faster when you like someone. But for me, having him near me or when HE’s talking to me (just asking questions ...

I'm attracted to my first cousin; I need advice in order to forget him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - hi.. i know this is so wrong.. but im attracted to my first cousin.. but it looks like he's not into me coz there are no signs.. he's very formal and strict looking.. but he's cool.. definitely confusing; I still like him though.. i cant consider my ...

I need advice from a male or male teacher about a male teacher! Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Okay i have a question. yes this is one of many of those teacher student relationship questions, but this time i was wondering if there were any males or actual teachers out there that could give advice rather than women. not that girls dont give ...

Is my teacher in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I know it sounds crazy but our relationship is different then the usual student teacher relationship..first of all shes also a female and shes 34 years old..im not sure if she is gay or not.. we cant go a day without talking to eachother we talk on ...

Sex with cousin, we used the withdrawal method. What are the risks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - i had sex with my cousin. we are 2nd cousins, and he did not use protection, but he pulled out before he came. Is there a chance i might be pregnant???...

How do I get over this married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - Hi,i have been involved in a situation and would like some advice. I have been working for this company for a year now and part of my job is dealing with reps based all over the uk.There was this 1 rep in particular who i got on well with-we ...

The situation with my married teacher has intensified, please help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - A few months ago I posted a question on this site about the close relationship between myself and my married art teacher http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-he-was-not-married-would-he-see.html Since then it is becoming more serious, althoug...

Should I tell my family that I am Bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - This is quite serious and i'm desperate for help :o( I have slept with girls in the past, and i really enjoyed it, I have been attracted to girls for longer than I can remember and not thought anything of it, just thought it was hormones, in my te...

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...

My husband caught me having sex with my cousin

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family ...

This is PASSION unbound, but I have to contain myself!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (M) - I'm a dancer and I'm single I help others to learn this style of dance (Ceroc) I have become very accomplished at it and hardly ever sit down because the fact that men are in short demand at any dance venue, good male leads are even rarer ! so I am ...

How do I behave around her boyfriend? I've fallen for her, and I know I can't do anything about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

15 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I hope you can help. I've fallen for somebody who has a boyfriend. Now, I know that I can't do anything about it and as far as I know they are perfectly happy. I don't want to come between her and her boyfriend, but if I'm honest I do want to be ...

I'm in love with a married woman, I'm not going to try and break up her marriage though by pursuing her, is it still o.k. just to be friends with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (M) - So i really dont know what to do here. Let me explain. I am 26 years old, single, and will be for a while. Im just not into the whole dating thing. I have a friend, who i talk to alot. We met about 3 years ago. She is alot older then i am, married ...

Is it wrong to love my step-step-3rd cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

14 May 2008 (M) - My dad got married in June (2007). I was hanging out with my step mom and we went to her cousin's new house. I have never met her cousin, until that day. Her cousin, has a step daughter. I couldn't help but tellin her how beautiful she was etc etc. ...

My sister gave me oral

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

14 May 2008 (?) - I woke up the other night to my own sister giving me a blow job! I thought I was dreaming it. I woke up I asked her to stop, but she said you must like it as I was ready to complete. She had been drinking I think. She is 5 years older than me. I...

Is it o.k to date someone because they are only engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - My grandma is trying to hook me up with a waiter that she sees every weekend at a local resturant. She dragged me in thier and I met the waiter he was good looking and he seemed to be interested in me. But My aunt informed me that he was engaged. I ...

Does he like me or is it just a game he's playing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - hi im Leighton, I am 16 yrs old i met a guy that i instantly fell for and he seemed to like me aswell. He would call me to see how i was and to meet up with me because we lived close. Over a couple of months i fell in love with him even more as...

Help! I need somebody!- Do you think he's sending signals or not???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - (this is a combination of several of my replies to other users before I had my own account....now it's a question) I've known my english teacher for 2 years, last year when we would talk in passing and then this year when he was finally my teach...

I'm in love with her but she denied my feelings. She insists we stay friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) - Hello, I am a female in love with another female. The woman I am in love with has denyed she feels the same way. However I am convinced she does feel the same way, but because she is married and because of other circumstances she is not admitting it ...

Do I have boundary issues with my teacher?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, would appreciate some advice please :-) In your opinion is it morally wrong to be very close friends with your teacher? He is male and around 40, Im 16 and female, and I will admit that I do have romantic feelings for him. However, Ive acc...

I love my Science teacher!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 ...

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I some...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

36 year-old woman sleeping in the same bed as her uncle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - what do you think of a 36yo woman sleeping in the same bed with her uncle? yes she lied to me, she said she's living with her uncle in separate bedroom, but when i went to their apartment it was just a studio and they're sleeping together in one ...