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writes:Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He's 27 years old, and its his second year teaching. I had him when it was his first year teaching, and it all started then...He's a really great teacher, I learned a lot from him. This year is his second year teaching and I asked him if I could be his teacher assistant for this year, he said I could and I was the happiest girl ever. Since Ive been his TA (teachers assistant) Ive been getting a big crush on him day by day. We talk all during class, he would talk about his life, I would talk about mine. It's just really nice because we have a lot of things in common. I'm not the only one who thinks my teacher is cute, bascially all of the girls in the class think that also. But one of his students found his xanga account and it had some very personal stuff there. Someone sent it to me, and I read it. Since I read it I really know what he's going through and I have a bigger connection, I dont want to tell him that I found his xanga account, because that would be wrong, because it was none of my business to do so. But I really wish something could happen between us. I'm going to be a senior next year, hopefully ill still have a good relationship with him when I leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello all, i know its been awhile since I wrote last. But I just wanted to give you an update. I'm a happily engaged woman with my teacher. He proposed to me at my graduation dinner. We arent getting married until I'm done with my trade schools in 2 years. So we have time to plan our perfect wedding. Everything turned out amazing. Hope all is well with you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question-nicole
thanks that was great advice. ill keep that in mind
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reader, nicole5178  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 People work better together if they connect personally, be it coworker-coworker, teacher-student, or any other authority-dependent status. I think it's good that you all are friends--I don't think it's weird at all. Having a romantic relationship, of course, is off limits until you graduate, but you know this already. Just keep being friends. Loving someone is never a bad thing. Be care about how you choose to convey love, though, because in the end after you graduate, if you all continue interacting like you do now, you will love him like family, whether it's like a husband or a brother. It would probably be in your best interest at the current time to steer your emotions toward close friends, instead of thinking of him as a... romantic conquest. Just take it easy.
Good luck!! Hopefully that helped and wasn't a total waste to read.... Take care- Nicole
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Hey babe, if your chances with your teacher don't succeed, you can always hook up with me. I'm looking for a good time with a special cutie, and you look like the young blood this 27 year old guy needs to satisfy his needs. I'm in a band, I don't know if you have heard of it, but to protect my name I'll call it Reset. Reset was a band I used to listen to while I cleaned the smelly bathrooms in my high school. Well baby, I really hope you choose me over this teacher because I will make your life worthwhile. I've got way more to offer than that boring teacher. Lust after me baby, love me darling. Because I think I have fallen in love with you.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 no i wouldnt say it would be a bad idea to keep a friendship with him, but you have to make sure you dont let your feelings get in the way of your friendship. because if you cant then it would be best not to have a friendship. i had a female teacher i spoke up to 4 years laters it was realy nice as she was so happy how my life was turning out!. hope that helps
Aphexy
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I wouldnt mind to have a relationship with him. but i know for a fact that its never going to happen, but i like him as a friend. he's a great guy. but is it weird to keep a relationship with a teacher after you graduate? and i mean as friends...even though you think he's hott.
thats not bad right?
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (25 May 2008):
i hate to say i agree with princess on the matter..a teacher and student should only have a teaching relationship not personal ones, he has put faith and trust in you as a friend , not a promising relationship and these sort of things can be mixed up, you care for him he cares for you but only as friends and ide bet hed be mortified if he knew. you need to keep it profeshional. you look up to him and its understandable how you may feel, but its not what you think it is. i would stop this crush now, and be with people more your age thats my opinion aphex x
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reader, s_princess  +, writes (25 May 2008):
do not hope anything would happen between u and him.
he would be absolutely immoral and not worth to the 'teacher' title then.
enjoy your high school years...
feelings can be mistaken.
have you had a bf yet? you shall experience how a guy your age is...teacher-student relationships all go wrong,c ause they start wrong. basically they shouldnt start
i wish the best for you!!
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