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writes:Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 months and my feelings have got even stronger for him but the thing is he knows i like him well basically everyone knows i fancy him when my friends told everyone in the whole of first year i knew it was only a matter of time before he found out but actually he didn't know until my friends told him but he thought it was a joke until my PSE teacher told him i actually did fancy him!!After that he was just dead weird with me and became extremely distant!!But now he thinks he's just a teacher to me again but he's not i still LOVE him!!And i really don't know what to do either tell him i still have feelings for him or just keep hurting or you can give me different advice!! So PLEASE give me more advice and help me with my problem!! Thanks xxxSTEPHxxx
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reader, MARISSA  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Well sweetie theres not much you can do i mean im 14 but i know what im talking about mk you can love him and even tell him but it wont make a difference hes way to old girl and try and see someone im not sayin you have a problem ..and those arent real friends so dont trust them ..so look for someone else you like and try to go out with someone ! youll see itll all work out in good time my dear..
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): i am 11 and i would never like one of my teachers. So, if i was you i would try out a boy (if you are a girl) or a girl (if you are a boy) that s your age. if that doesnt work i would tell him how much you like him. After that, you should thik about why you like him and evaluate him while you are alone.
I hope you like my answer and everything works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): i am 11 and i would never like one of my teachers. So, if i was you i would try out a boy (if you are a girl) or a girl (if you are a boy) that s your age. if that doesnt work i would tell him how much you like him. After that, you should thik about why you like him and evaluate him while you are alone.
I hope you like my answer and everything works out!
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reader, dannyf76 +, writes (18 May 2008):
hi,im sorry to say but i doubt this relationship will ever work out!its to much of a age gap and if u do start dating your science teacher can be arrested and charged!so if i was you keep ur relionship at a friendship!
danny x
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reader, Angels Eyes +, writes (14 May 2008):
Angels Eyes is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey!Thanks for all your comments i'm just gonna add to what i said i know now not to tell him i still have feelings for him.But i had started to go off him again but a few days ago i've not been able to look him in the face for quite a while well since he found out i liked him but a few weeks ago i did and well i got this weird feeling in my stomach and i'm not sure what whatever it was it made me feel sick.But this week he sat next to me on the desk to help my group cause they were just not helping me but when he sat on the desk right next to me i got that feeling in my stomach again and i really want to know what it was so if anyone can help or say they've had that feeling before then please do!!I know it sounds like a really stupid question but if you can bring some light to it then please do!!Thanks!!
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (13 May 2008):
 Okay. First it is probaly just a crush. It's natural to fall for older guys.DO NOT tell him you still have feelings for him. It will make things worse. For now you will have to keep hurting but hopefully soon you will fall for someone around your own age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): You'll be alright. Remember can love anyone you want, but it's not ok to be a nusiance. He's already shown he's not interested by backing away. He loves his girlfriend.What can you do. Well, carry on hurting. If people find out you love him, who cares. You can't help how you feel, you love him, you think he's great. Make something of yourself, study hard in school, and listen to what he's telling you in lessons. Make him proud of you and hold your head up high. Show people how strong you can be, even though it feels like your dying inside and someone's ripped out your heart. And then one day you'll be older and meet someone who reminds you of a certain teacher.Stay strong and be good.
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reader, Angels Eyes +, writes (13 May 2008):
Angels Eyes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAww thanks guys for all ur support!!
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reader, inlove101 +, writes (13 May 2008):
he doesnt want to get into trouble with dating you so back off hes to old for you and ure 12 its not love get over him
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): It is not worth it, girl. You can not expect yourself to be with your teacher romantically. Keep in mind, I only think that is puppy love. Just like LJ001 says, you need to be with someone that is within your age. Is there a boy you like, who is also the same as you, at your school? Also, my suggestion is that you might need to focus on your studies and not on love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Honey, telling him will only cause problems. I know you're hurting and I know it's hard, a lot of girls have been in your position. Seriously! But you can't tell him because this will cause only more unnecessary aawkwardness between the two of you, and I'm sure you don't want that. Just keep trying to forget him and concentrate more on a guy your age. He's 15 years older than you, and teacher-student relationships are totally illegal! He would lose his job, and that would be awful for him as it would be hard to get one anywhere else. Look honey, in time this will pass I PROMISE YOU!! Just keep strong and remember that it will pass. Think about other hot guys that are in your own year if it helps, although I wouldn't be rushing into anything too soon :]
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reader, uncle_baj +, writes (12 May 2008):
 this will pass,i know its been a long time but it is natural to be attracted tto an elder person (usually a teacher) it natural part of becoming a teenager,its all part of puberty,so start focusing on other boys in school and not teachers,and the reason he bacame distant is because he could of lost his job if anybody suspected there was something going on,so i urge u to let it go bacause unfortunatly nothing will ever happen between you guys anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): If I were in your shoes, telling him would be the last thing I'd do. Someone would get the wrong idea and start a rumour that something is going on between you. It's what happened to a girl at my school. She has now been excluded from all her lessons with that teacher. It could have been worse- The girl could have had to leave school and the teacher would go to prison. I'm sorry but you will just have to keep hurting. It will be hard, but in time the pain will get less and less and your feelings for him will disappear. It may seem impossible at first, but you will get over him. Trust me. I hope everything works out for you.
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