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36-40,
*urpleshoes84
writes:This is quite serious and i'm desperate for help :o( I have slept with girls in the past, and i really enjoyed it, I have been attracted to girls for longer than I can remember and not thought anything of it, just thought it was hormones, in my teens, but now i feel like i'm more attracted to females than men, and get extremely turned on by the sight of two women having sex with each other, even a little bit more than just a ordinary couple (men/female) .Thing is i'm 24 and I feel like i'm hiding things away from people close to me, whilst I feel extremely sexy and turned on by women and men, I do also feel ashamed about being attracted to women in a big way! and like if I tell my family they will not understand, I feel like I have to 'come out' but I don't know why for certain, it's on my mind a lot, and I know it's not going to go away, it's actually affecting everything, there are times when i'm at dinner with my mum, and i just want to blurt out 'i love women' but something stops me, then i punish myself for seeming weak, probably sounds crazy, but it's all buzzing about in my head. Reply to this Question
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reader, 2112EricYYZ  +, writes (25 May 2008):
 i personally think yous should tell them they love you and im sure they will understand
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reader, all i need  +, writes (17 May 2008):
bottom line is "is your family still going to love you? im sure they will. youll tell them when your ready.. and youll know when that time comes.... good luckl dear..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): I dont see why your sexuality has to be explained to your parents, isnt that a private matter. I would leave well alone and not tell them, but hey, that is me, and if you feel the need to tell, then go ahead, but dont expect cuddles and kisses from them. Remember some parents just accept any strays from the norm.
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