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My dreams are even filled with this teacher and this love is taking over my life. What should I do??

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Question - (27 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys I,m in a real situation here. I seriously need help getting over my MARRIED male teacher.

It all started when I moved to this new school about two years ago. He was one of my teachers and I took an instant liking to him but then this innocent crush unknowingly developed into a deep love which is so hard to let go of.

I know by now you're all saying "oh another immature student who is mistaking infatuatuin for love" but I can assure that is certainly not the case. I knew it was a crush before but my feelings now are sooo much stronger it just has to be love.

I mean whenever I see him my heart starts to beat so fast that it feels like its going to burst.

I get so nervous whenever I,m in his class and feel like I,m gonna throw up which has actually happened or faint although we get along great and he makes everybody feel comfortable. I can remember one time I even fainted in his class.

I,m not sick or anything either because I get regualr chech ups done. He even knows that I like him because my friends have said it to him as a joke before. Whenever he sees me he starts to blush deeply and smiles and looks down or makes intense eye contact.

All through class he looks at me and makes a lot of eye contact. I,v hugged him a couple of times too. Could this possiby mean anything??

It feels as though its just the two of us in the classroom and nobody else exists. I just really love him. He's the most adorable and the most sweetest person ever. My dreams are even filled with this teacher and this love is taking over my life. What should I do?? I am starting to obsess and I really dont know what to do. Help somebody! Thanks for the anwers!

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A female reader, anonymous08 United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2008):

anonymous08 agony auntlisen if hes hugd u stares at you throughout the lesson maybe just maybe he likes you my teacher does that too ive been told by agony aunts he likes me and hes doin the rong thing ino im anserin ur advice but plz anser mine 22 .........

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2008):

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/teacher---student-relations-article.html

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A female reader, tsurugi-ijin United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2008):

tsurugi-ijin agony auntLook, you right, this isnt just a case of student in love with her teacher.. Your also Underage.

If you make any moves towards your teacher (or him to you) This would cause so many problems. You have to think about the fact you would ruin his home life and he would lose his job and might not ever be allowed to be a teacher again. Theres the added factor that because your underage he could/ Would go to jail.

I dont mean to be so harsh but this is a Bad desision to take it any further. Avoid him and try to lessen your feelings for him, i know it's hard but the bad points out way the good on this one by a Long Way.

Please Write an Update.

All The Best, Jin

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