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writes: hey this is like my personal story i would like to share you.See i'm 17 and have feelings towards my 10th grade history teacher.Last year were pretty close we would talk about teacher student stuff you know the typical, and no lie, i couldn't control myself and i would flirt a little with him (there are girls WORSE than me in my school) and he would (in my eyes) respond back. We would play around sometimes and playfight (call each other names, hit one another but in a playfull way not all the time but you know....)There would be these moments were i would look into his eyes, and i felt like he was doing the same (and in my mind i was hoping he would see that i have deep feelings for him) he would stare at me quite alot, and even my friends would notice (and they didn't even know at the time that i had feelings for him). One time i even touched his hair in a very "she likes me way" i know i shouldn't have - but he just seems so approachable (but no one was there, only a few, but they weren't paying mind. To my surprise he actually smiled at me. Now we're still close, we talk about more non-related school things, and no lie at one point he got distant with me, but then i found out is that he had family/girlfriend problems. That's why he was so distant. But now he's back to his original self and he seems "back to normal" as you can say....when he was with his girlfriend he turned different....but know he's back to the sweet man i fell for.I also found out that he discovered i liked him, and my friend told me he just smirked when they talked about me liking him (because that day he and my friend were talking about some other girl that likes him and he said he was disturbed by her liking him)So now that he knows i like him....what should i do??I don't want to hurt him or his career, so i stopped acting like a fool and act more maturely....(but the girls in my school get me PISSED when they are all up on him!!)Thanks for your time!!
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reader, TheTrustworthy  +, writes (10 June 2008):
I think he's bored at school, and if her were a good man he wouldn't be disloyal to his girlfriend- leading schoolgirls to fall for him and want him, and he certainly wouldn't make them desire him in any other way but his subject knowledge.
When you're at home, you have your parents or carers, and when you're at school they're subsituted by teachers...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know that thats what he'll want and im willing....(ofcoarse with time)
i know hes older i know the risks the consequences the ups and downs we would have and im willing to do all of that....
i try to focus on boys my age and go out with them but ever since i meet him and gone out with boys my age all my thoughts lead back to him and i feel wrong so then i break up with them i know you people probably think im a sicko or something but thats what i feel and i cant help it....
thank you guys for your advice i really apprecciate you taking time to help me out....
thanks!!
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reader, JTalbott  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 A crush on a teacher is a common thing, I had a painful one on my seventh grade teacher. As you're finding out, the challenge is that your teacher is in a very different place in life that you are.
But you have a choice about what want in life. Why not refocus your energies on boys in your class. Yes, they're more difficult and scary, but that's normal.
When you find yourself thinking about your teacher, try gently remind yourself that that isn't the direction you want to go. With time your crush will fade away.
Good luck, you can do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): So by beomg willing to be in a relationship with him and make him happy, does that mean you would be willing to have sex with him? Because that's what a serious relationship would involve. So I find interesting that you don't feel sexually attracted to him. However, once you turn 18 I think you should pursue him and ask him out, before he gets another girlfriend. Obivously you like him enough to be in a serious relationship with him, so you should go for it. Just be sure you'll be willing to have sex with him when that time comes, because it won't be long after you start dating him that he will want to have sex with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he is 28 years old and he had a girlfriend not too long ago,but they broke up and i dont feel sexually attracted to him....i could see myself in a serious relationship with him i would be willing to make him happy and the legal age here is 18 and i will soon be 18 and soon graduate from school....i dont expect nothing to happen right know but i do have hope no lie that when im out of school and legal that maybe one day we would be together....as for the other girls they just like him....one girl does say she would like to be his girlfriend but having her current one at the same time....unlike me i care about him and id do anything to make him happy but he if its not with me at least wed still be friends right??Thanks for you help guys!!xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): First, let me ask, how old is this teacher? Is he younger than 30, or older? Do you find yourself sexually attracted to him? Could you see yourself in a serious romantic relationship with him? Do the other girls at your school talk about how they would like to be this teacher's girlfriend?
The best thing for you to do is find out what the age of consent is in your state (17 or 18), before you do anything. My state has a law that even if the student is at the age of consent (17 in this state), it is still a crime for a teacher to have sex with a student. So find out what the laws are in your state. Also, if he has a girlfriend, he probably won't be interested in you, unless you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): I wouldnt do anything yet, as he could end up loosing his job or even going to prison. I wouldnt worry to much about the other girls as he he doesnt seem intrested in them the same he is with you. Just act like you do with him now and when you leave school talk to him about your feelings see what he says !!
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