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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My marriage was a huge mistake but I'm too scared to get out of it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I'm too scared of what will happen after I leave my husband that I can't bring myself to do it. I got married at 21, and he was almost 24. We had been together for two years when we got married and had lived together for a year and a half. I thought ...

Do men find it difficult to cope with a very independent woman? And how can an independent woman prevent a partner from being needy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I wonder if someone can help? I have a mixture of two problems in one. Firstly, do men find it difficult to cope with a very independent woman? Secondly, how can an independent woman prevent a partner from being, for want ...

Could he have been right? Am I too close to my mum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Am i too close to my mum? My ex boyfriend who i was with for 4 years and lived with recently dumped me becuase he said i'm too close to my mum. He's made me question myself, tourture myself, caused a gap between me and my mum and has made me hate...

How do we deal with his crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - Hello Friends, I need a help. It is for my wife that I write. Her nephew is just 18 and very curious about things. He is very close to her and week back he asked his troubles to her. She being friendly explained as much possible. He during the cour...

How do I deal the stress of knowing my parents don't want me home for 5 months before I go back to uni?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) - I am an extremely calm and laid back person as a rule, but recently I have been struggling with a great deal of things: 1. My parents are having some serious issues with their marriage (I know there is nothing I can do but it is on my mind). ...

How can I help my colleague and friend? Afraid she's having a crisis and may lose her job.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I have a frienship question. I work with a woman who has, over the years, become a friend. Though we don't really socialise outside work, we do confide in one another when we go for lunch etc. I am fond of her. Her home life has spirall...

I resent that his ex-wife expects me and my family to run errands for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I am frustrated and unhappy and thinking of leaving my 3 year relationship. My live in divorced boyfriend's ex wife seems to think it is appropriate for everyone to run errands for her and thir child. She instructs him to tell me to pick up art ...

She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...

I'm in love with my son's ex-mother-in-law but our relationship is a secret. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - im in love with my sons ex mother in law and she loves me but she says that we will never be able to get together because of her kids and our mutual grand son. our relationship is secret from everyone. i help her with money. we kiss but i ask her i ...

Left a troubled relationship and now he's being threatening. How do I cope when I go back to college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - I m a 21 yr old woman, I was in a troubled relationship, initially he was really serious and in love but then later on he would abuse me for small things like not going out when I told him I would. Once I told him I would leave him in a fight an...

Help. My sister has gone off the rails and I worry about her son.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - 12 Years ago, my sister got pregnant out of wedlock and at first tried to move out of her apartment with her friends and home with us. Thankfully, her friends weren't having it because she owed rent money (she had planned to work from home and pay ...

His ex limits my access to their daughter, but she's about to get a sibling

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I'm hoping someone can give me some advice about the situation that I have found myself in. My boyfriend and I are expecting a baby in the summer, and my boyfriend's daughter from a previous relationship is really excited about having a baby bro...

I would love for us to make a step forward in living together but he is not prepared to talk about any future plans!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Hi , would love an answer to a complexed dilemma . My boyfriend lives in London . I live in Scotland , we have been seeing each other for three years . I would love to see a step forward towards us living together . I was told by my boyfrien...

Am I wrong to give him a second chance? And I'm wrong for not holding our past over his head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I've been a single mom since my daughter was 8 months old. My ex and I got along and then i found out that he cheated on ( he fooled around with a girl at a party) we decided that we would break up but We have been co parenting my daughter and ...

Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

I am being shut out by his language!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi! I need advice on a relationship with language differences. When I met my boyfriend he didnt know any English, but he insisted on being with me. He worked hard to learn English and did well. Now his daughter came to live with us full time and he ...

Wrong name caused husband's family to miss flight to see ill family member. How do I help husband get over the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - The other night my husband's close friend's sister who lives in the south (we live in the north east) hung herself (very sad as there was no indication just 1 day before in social network posts). She was actually found and revived, then sent to a ...

He is eight years older, I like him and I think he likes me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Ok so I'm at my moms friends house all the time ...I sleep here almost every night. She is like another mother to me and I've known her my whole life. She lives with her husband, her kids, and her brother in law. They are all like a family to me and ...

We have rekindled our childhood romance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week...

My thirteen year old caught my husband and I having sex. How do I repair the relationship with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - so every friday, my susband has a day off. we thought to make it special on valentines day, and ended up having sex. we didn't hear the key turn in the door because the next thing i know, my thirteen yearold daughter's standing in the doorway ...

Do I stay or let him go? Just found out that my Bf is expecting a child with his Ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

22 February 2014 (?) - I have just found out that my boyfriend (whom I have crazily fallen for, never had a man treat me so amazing) is expecting a baby with his ex. I am a jealous person (unfortunately) and I see myself becoming pushed down on his priority list when thi...

Should I interfere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I have two older sisters and, unfortunately there is a fall out with the eldest one and she has been off the scene for a year and a half. I learned she was dating someone older and she visited our mother at Christmas with him. Right enough, he is ni...

Dad cheated on mom 4 years ago, still together today, everyone has put the incident behind them but I just can't?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - This is very hard for me to type because I've never spoken about this to anyone. I came here because I feel like I need some advice on this. It's been some time and I still can't move on from this. Sorry for the long post but I could really use some ...

How do I get an aggresive suitor to back off a little without chasing him completely away

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - This year, I told myself and God that I am going to get married. I don't have a boyfriend yet but just dating. I went to Dublin to see my ex December and even though the long distance is still an issue we are still very hopeful. Then when I came bac...

Am I wrong for disliking my sister?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - Am I wrong for this? I'm starting to not like my sister. She is always gossiping about someone and she has nothing positive to say about anything. I hate it when people clean other people's closet and not their's. I'm college student looking to go ...

Do I love him? Does he love me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - So me and my step cousin are really close. We clicked the moment my mum got married to his uncle. We'd always stuck together in everything, and at school, (he goes to the same school as me,) we always partner up for projects. We also hang around ...

I do love her with my all heart, but what can I do about her cousin with his wandering hands? She will not give me a straight answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - I'll try to keep it short, sacrificing a lot of the details so bear with me. My GF and her female cousins have had/have an intimate relationship with a male cousin. Proven thanks to people leaving their facebook messages open for all to see.... s...

My parents or my boyfriend? I feel like my parents are making me choose!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Hello, my name is Alexis and I have been dating my boyfriend for five years. My mom works in the same school that I go to and a year ago my boyfriend went into rehab for smoking weed and just doing stupid things that he shouldn't have done. During ...

How do we get her to back off already? She's not really a mean, vindictive person but she is sure causing a lot of trouble!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - This sounds snotty, but there's this girl who is constantly trying to butt in to our group of friends even though we try to give her kind hints that she really just doesn't fit in. At first, we tried to give her a chance. She sat down with us...

Is my husband trying to get the custody of my child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Hi I and my husband are getting divorce a "friendly" one! we got help from a mediator,so no lawyer. My husban is a plaintiff which the mediator said it doesnt matter but I felt in some ways she has my husbans's side! close to the court day i goft my ...

I'm worried about him being a dad to our daughter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - my daughters father is still going through a messy divorce. been seperated two years, divorce is over a year and three months now. our little girl is 3 months old. he has shown mixed signals of his interest in her. i feel like he uses me as a ...

Am I really gay or just scarred by women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Hey I'm Todd, I’ve never had any luck with women. Ever since I was a little boy girls never seemed to like me. Many girls seem to give the impression they like my looks although I’ve rarely ever heard anyone say it, besides my mom’s friends. N...

Is history repeating itself? I took my ex back but we have problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - So cut a story short, I met a guy when I was 17, went through some really bad stuff, lying and cheating. Settled down at 19 and had my son, but then he kept staying out all night getting drunk. So I moved back to my mams in may 2012, after find...

Selfish in-laws and husband's a pushover with them. How can I speak to him about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Thank you fir reading in advance. Sorry I know it is long. Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and have 2 children together, the youngest of which is 6 weeks. My partners family have not seen our youngest yet as they all live in...

Husband belittles me in front of friends and family. I want to leave him, but is there any way I can correct the situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I became very resentfull toward my husband. The main reason is that he complains to people about me. He doesn't complain to everyone but certain people. Like this couple that we don't see very much often, may be every couple months. Usually ...

Is it too late for me to make my mother proud?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - When I think about how fortunate I am to have my mom, part of me thinks, ''why am I complaining?'' But part of me is hurting for my mom because I feel like I'm a worthless daughter and she deserves better. I'm at a point in my life where I feel ...

Grandparent died, boyfriend left and I had a melt down at work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Im hoping for some good advice regarding my current situation. Just recently I lost my last grandparent, who I loved very much and meant the world to me. I am overcome with grief. today, my partner walked out saying he was fed up of my `diva li...

How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape c...

My mother is doing her best to come between me and my g/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

14 February 2014 (M) - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year now. Out of the that I was deployed for 8 months. From the moment my mom met my gf she said she was rude to her. My sister / friends all like her and thinks she is a great girl and I love her, While ...

I'm a very sensitive person and I always get drawn to troubled souls. Should I follow my head or my heart on this one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - I have just seen a guy again who I met a year ago. We get on very well and have a connection. I have one dilemma .I am 39 a mother of an amazinh boy. This man is 35 with no permenant job and my gut feeling is that he may be a little troubled. Im a ...

My sister is using funerals as a way to pick up guys??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - I'm concerned about my older sister, recently we've attended two funerals (neither individual knew the other, one was a business colleague of my Dad's, one was a neighbor killed in a car crash). I'm 19, my sister's 24, and single. It's her attitude...

I can't leave my brother but I can't pursue my dreams if I stay with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - Hi there. I don't know if it's a relationship question or not, but i am really freaking out in this situation and want to seek immediate help. A little brief about my past. I lost my mother when i was small and recently last year my dad expired ...

My ex is pregnant, she told me just after we broke up. I offered my support and she rejected that. Anyone else been in this situation? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

13 February 2014 (M) - Well here it goes, recently I got back with an Ex girlfriend who I had dated a few years ago, and I can genuinely say that I loved her then, and that things appeared to be going well second time round. Then it all went downhill. One weekend and ...

He has made me feel so undervalued in my role as a wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - Hello, I have a question that I have been having a hard time with. My husband and I have been married for 13 years together for 17. His mother recently passed away he was in Florida to be at her side for 1 week I took care of our kids. He returne...

I feel like I'm being rushed into marriage by my boyfriend, my parents and even my friends

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I feel like I'm being rushed into marriage by my boyfriend, my parents and even my friends to a point. Last week, during a family meal my boyfriend proposed to me in front of his family(Mum,dad and two brothers and their partners and kids.) I...

Why am I so weak and vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - I am a woman going through a separation from my alcoholic husband who put me last for years... I moved out and met someone who was married.. I knew it was wrong.. I knew.. You always know when something isn't right but he wanted children with me. He ...

How can I support my boyfriend's family at this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - So my boyfriends eldest sister is in hospital and it's quite serious, I've told my boyfriend I'm here if he needs anything but I feel like I'm being useless at the minute and I could be doing much more to support and be there for him and his family. ...

Horrible relationship with my mother, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - Hi maybe somebody here can help. I have a very serious and personal problem. Through out my whole life my mother unfortunately has been into drugs and alcohol, it's pretty bad. With all due respect, my mother is not really a good person because o...

I don't think my family likes my boyfriend. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I don't think my family likes my boyfriend. It makes me sad. We've been dating for a few months now and in the beginning it seemed like they really liked him but now it has changed I think. I don't know why, exactly. They haven't had any problems...