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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

His mother doesn't approve of me and I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I want to get married. He is egyptian muslim and i am white muslim. His mother is racist and hates british girls (muslim or not). He is very close to her as his father died at a young age and she ...

Is this classed as a holiday romance now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My daughter went on holiday she hated it and came home early when I asked her why she said "everyone" was sleeping qround getting boozed out off their head and the other girls were laughing at her because she didnt want to sleep with anyone (she ...

Do you think he is having second thoughts about marrying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused. About 5 months ago I was talking to my boyfriend of 10 months about our future and he didn't say much at all in response. I took this to mean that he wasn't interested in anything other than being boyfriend/girlfriend and just ...

I want him to have a good career and status but he wants to stay and take care of his parents. Is there any solution to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi friends. I have a problem and i really wanna solutn of dat. My bf is the owner of a jwelery shop or say, his father is. His brother has settld himself and has a good career n status of his own. But my bf is just like a care taker of his fat...

Would guys be turned off by a 24 year old virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - This may seem like a weird question, but I've got to ask. My sister is 24 and still a virgin. Would you guys be turned off by that? First some background info: My sister and I are very close and currently share an apartment. It's a handy ...

Cheated on husband with his brother, he left but now is back and we had sex again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - okay 3 years ago my brother in law came to live with my husband and I, well 5 months into him living with us, my bil and I starting having feeling (which we addressed) and then a sexual relationship. my husband at the time was in jail for fdomestic ...

Where do I start to meet other gay men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm 23, have Asperger's syndrome, and although I've had some struggles in life, things have got a fair bit better over the past 2 years (well, since November 2008 to be really technical, but...). I find it difficult to make friends, unless ...

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was ...

My boyfriend's mother ---

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Thank you for all advice. I'm 33, my boyfriend is 34. Both my parents are living he has a mom and a drug dealer slash user bro. My boyfriends dad past away a year ago. My boyfriend n I live with my son who is 11, we have dated 3 yrs now. Before h...

I took him back, but I don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband going on 12yrs. this Aug. we been married going on 9yr. we have 4 little boys. what i need is a mans view,we were arguing a lot but nothing serious,or so i thought,well he left me for a girl who ive never met ,but he was ...

We planned our pregnancy, now I am having second thoughts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma..... At Christmas, my parter and I decided to come off using contraception and just to let nature take its course and see what happens. Last month, we booked our wedding and honeymoon for July next year and I went ba...

He's not offering any support -- am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm very upset with my boyfriend and I'm wondering if I'm overreacting or being a jerk. My grandfather was recently hospitalized and has been in and out of congestive heart failure. I am 20 and still living at home. My parents have decided to fly ...

How do I stop my brother from becoming like our abusive father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Our parents are divorced and my brother (13) visits our dad for twice a month. I don't see him but he is having a negative effect on my brother. He is becoming sexist and says things like men should slap women if they disobey them. (this is what my ...

Is my mom worrying for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - So in 4 days I'm going to Tokyo with my dad and borther. My mum told my dad to look out for me and now let me be on my own. She says I'm young and look like an anime character, and that this will attract some Japanese men. Other people have said...

Sisters are best friends while I am out in the cold.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My sisters block me out of there lives. I am in the middle my older sister and I are 18 months apart and my younger sister is 6 years younger than me. My older sister has disliked me since birth and my younger sister was so much younger than me, ...

My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 July 2011 (?) - My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable. We argue constantly and I'm not saying it's always her fault but she does bring on the majority of our fights. Ever since we were kids she's been a total control freak, everyone says I'...

How do I get my parents to accept me for who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok. I'm 16 years old. Old enough to get piercings if I want them. My parents agreed that I could get a belly bar (I've been desperate for one since I was 12) and a cartilage piercing. I thought that what is known as an 'industrial' piercing was a c...

Found my 8 year old brother and a girl playing together naked, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hi right now I am very scared and disturbed. For two years now I have been sexually active with my bf and we have done it at my house quite a few times when my parents were not home. However some of those times my little brother who is now 8 was ...

My mom thinks that wet bath mats and talking loudly are deal breakers! How do I get her to accept my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I was so worried to tell my mom I got engaged to my boyfriend. We went back to my hometown to tell her in person and I was so relieved when she seemed to take the news well (ish) that I cried. But my partner went home a couple of days before me, and ...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...

How do I tell my mom that I'm ready to start having sex? And are condoms good enough or do I need some other form of birth control too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hi!! I'm new here and i'm not sure how to ask, but well, i've been with my 1st boyfriend for almost 6 months and we want to start having sex, but we are both very worried about unwanted pregnancies and we don't feel save using just condoms during s...

If I get a job my child will suffer, if I don't I will suffer through lonliness! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi My husband is the only son of his over possesive mother.We are married 10 years but .My mil stays with me....who thinks herslef as Mrs.Perfect.Bcoz of her constant critisim I lost my cofidence .I took up a job...but she was not ready to take ca...

Why is she not dying to be with me, like I'm dying to be with her? Even if she doesn't want me, how can I be closer to my daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Hi i have a big problem about my relationship, any one for honest advices?.I met my gf at work where we were colleagues together it was october 2009 when we started dating. Now i am in another job and she is still working there.I really love her so ...

Our families will never approve of our relationship but we cant live without each other! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I am a bengali brahmin and my bf is marwari. I am a student preparing for medical and belong to middle class family. N, my bf (two years older than me) has passed b.com with quite good marks. He has 5 jewellery shops of his own and has quite high ...

Do I take heed of the Value Judgements of others? Or can my fiance and I find happiness following our dreams to help others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - im having a bit of a personal crisis in my life right now, this may take a while to explain so bear with me. When i was a teen i had 2 best friends, we had all been home schooled and spent as much time together as we could. that all changed ...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...

Can two completely different people work it out and stay together? Or is this a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm confused. I've been with my bf for 3 years.we live together. He's a great guy and would make a great father/husband. However lately we've been fighting because I'm ready to have a baby and he's not.(i'm 28, he's 30). we argue about money because ...

I'm not a leech!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm in a 5 year relationship with my bf and two kids a 16 month old and a 3 year old, living together in his house. We have been having tough times since we only have one income, he works and i stay at home with the kids. I have been looking for a ...

How can we help our son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Our 19-year-old son recently "came out" to us, and we both told him that we would accept him whatever - gay, straight, bisexual. However, he's told us that although he knows he's gay, he told us it's innate, he wants to get rid of his homosexu...

I need help with my 14 year old daughter...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - Hi a have a question I have a 14 year old daughter that shocked me today. she call me and was going to ask me a question and me messing with her I said no u can't go to your friends house before she asked her question and then she said forget it now ...

He said he was an accident but why was he hiding my little girls underwear in his closet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hey all. I really need some input. Last November...of 2010, my ex was at work. We were together (in relationship) at the time. Something happened while he was at work, to make me want to search his apartment. Can't recall exactly what it was, but ...

How should I deal with my father-in-laws bizzare behavior when he is at our house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I am a 31 year old married woman. We have had a difficult time of late because my father-in-law is visiting and while he loves his family, he hates everyone else. He calls other people "outsiders". He gets upset with my husband when other people ...

Is my boyfriend's mother too clingy or am I being over sensitive??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 20 and I'm 18. He's just about to start his third year at University and I'm about to start my first University year in the same city. He's an only child, and his parents had him quite la...

Just curious, why do parents put their kids into honors classes they aren't ready for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I'm an incoming freshman who attends public school. Its a good school, but not the best. Its just a regular school but has alot of very intelligent people. Anyway, earlier this year course selection. You teachers would write down our reccomended ...

How can I help my sister deal with her BF and a potential LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My sister's bf decided that he wants to move away to place A which is in state X. He is from place B which is in state Q. He felt that he was unable to accomplish anything in state Q and he has expressed how sick he was of this state and the people ...

I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all ...

I don't want my parents to know I lied to them about my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Okay, so I broke up with my ex a few months ago. We'd been on and off since fourth grade, and i still like him Some people told me he was spreading rumors about me, but he said otherwise. I was upset, and didnt want to break up with him just because ...

Is it weird that my friends and family think my girlfriend is perfect, but I don't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - ok, so my everyone thinks my girlfriend is perfect. they all think she is smart,funny,nice and beautiful, the problem is i'm not so sure. i find a lot of the things she does annoying, i mean sometime i really think i like her, but other times im not ...

Is it me or to women get over with child support?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Im not sure why/when child support payments got so high. I understand your child gets 20% of you money but that still seems like a lot. When I was growing up my father had 4 kids and had to pay my mom 200 a month ( he hardly even payed that). My mom ...

I can get a roomate or move in with my mother for free and save for a house...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello all, After a horrible year and a break up with a guy with an addiction, I feel like I want to get my life on track. I'm 37, now single, female with no kids. I feel like I have wasted so many years on bad choices and now would like contr...

How can I stop my 13-year-old brother from starting to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I need some advice on what to tell my brother. He is thirteen and i have recently discovered that is thinking about having sex. His mates are apparently doing it and I've told him i am sickened by this and all the other usual blah like you're ...

My family dislikes my bf, I love him, they do crazy things to break us up, should I move out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, my sister and my mother hate my boyfriend!and i feel like its creating a gap between us and this makes no sense!when i ask them why they dont like him their only reasons are because he doesnt have much money all the time to take me to ...

I want to be with him so bad but I don't know if I should go back on the roller coaster ride...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i has been broken up for 2 weeks now. I've been through a hell of a lot of bs with him. From him cheating on me multiples of times, hiding our relationship from 2 dozen of females on facebook, lying to me a lot, disrespecting me, ...

Trying too hard to make everyone else happy is making me depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Any help is appreciated. So my girlfriend and I broke up and we have always been on and off but recently we've been really great. She says we act like friends and its true shes my bestfriend, but I feel like she wants to just jump into another rel...

Do I introduce my LDR boyfriend to my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - So my LDR boyfriend is finally with me, and only here for a short time. Do I introduce him to my parents? I met him online, and they knew about him before but were very negative about the whole issue and told me to dump him immediately. The...

My adult son has shunned me, because I moved away from the family! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - New to DC! Hello everyone. I'm a 56 year old female. Mom to three adult children.(2 kids are in their 30's and youngest is 20) I am divorced since 2000; currently in a long term relationship for 8 years. My current partner and I have always ...

How do I tell my son that he will be seeing a father, he barely knows?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - First I would like to thank everyone for reading this. So here it goes, I just had found out that my kid's father was granted for an access to see him. I've been reluctant to agree with this due to my kids father hasn't been a father to my child. I ...

I want a family, he wants to join the RAF. How can I end it without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Okay, well this has been a really hard decision for me to make and to be honest I'm still not a 100% sure if it's the right decision either. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years now and we seemed perfectly happy together, we wante...

I hate my in-laws! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - OK. This question is for anyone who has in law problems. I can't stand my in laws!!! They have never been really nice people . I'd love it if we never had to see them again! But that's not an option. Despite the problems with them, my hubby won't ...

I don't know how to get through to my father

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I really need some advises from you guys to help me to improve my relationship with my parents. I don't understand why my dad always over worries about me and he always try to suck extra economic and political knowledge into m...