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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My sister and I just don't get along!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ugh. So much stuff has been going on. And I don't think I can handle it anymore. All that therapy I was going to; stopped. And stuff just didn't get better. Even with the Therapy. So Jan 20th, I graduated. Very happy about that. And My Birthday ...

What else can I do to make me look more like the 14 year old I'm supposed to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm 14 but I look more like I'm 17 or 18. Most of my friends families don't approve of me because I look so much older even though they are usualy always older then me. In tired of me looking older affecting my life with my friends, so how do I ...

Trust and loyalty towards family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My daughter was married for 2 years. Overnight she turned into a quiet, withdrawn person. Talking to her, supporting her didnt draw her out of her shell. During the 2 years we (family/close friends) noticed that things between her and her husband ...

My cousin wants to use me for kissing practice!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - my cousin wanted to practice kissing with me to see if she was doing it right aparently but the parts of my body she touched during it and what she said after told me it wasnt just a bit of practice she said after i enjoyed that can we practice ...

He's completely avoiding me now and I don't know what to do...

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31 January 2011 (F) - Help Me!! I'm 23 year old and i fell in love with my classmate. He is 22 years old, and also in love with me. He was the one who first kissed me and gradually our relations got strong... v both have physical relation. Our cast is diff and even age ...

How can I break the hold her mum has on her?

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31 January 2011 (M) - i really need help my girlfriend's mother wont let her go she treatens her and tells her she will disown her her father died when she was a baby and as far as i see her mum has been brain washing her from that time she tells her stuff like i have ...

He already has a child and doesn't seem to want another, but he is the love of my life...What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i am 30 years old and have never been married and never had a child, my boyfriend whom i love more than anything, has been married and has a child with his ex wife. i know in my heart that i want to get married and have a child someday. on the very ...

How can I get my daughters boyfriend to pay his way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice regarding my daughter's boyfriend. His mum threw him out and he was living with me full time for a while but i couldn't sustain it because I was made redundant and didn't have much money plus I was unwell ...

Dreaming of my girlfriend's sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - i've started having dreams about my girlfriends sister, and wanting her, what do i do, i cant get away from the sister because she lives with my girlfriend, help. ...

I cant stand my dad's girlfriend! How do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i would like to say thank you in advance and im sorry that this is so long. my parents split up when i was in fourth grade and my dad got together with this woman and i can not stand her. like at first she put on an act and everything so me being a ...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

Advice on dealing with my teenage daughter?

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31 January 2011 (M) - my 16yo daughter took up with some pentacostal revivalists who kept on pressuring her to increase the commitment. after a few months she broke away and became friendly with a lesbian girl and developed a relationship. the girl and her friends showed ...

Is there any way to make him pay maintenance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi can anyone give me advice 25 yr ago i had an affair which i became pregnant my daughter is now 25 years old out of the blue after 25 years he wanted a parternity test which was positive (which i knew it would be) but since then he has not ...

16, in love, and ready to have a baby. Need advice, opinions, and feedback!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 years old and want a baby. Ok so I'm 16, turn 17 in 10 months, I finish high school in just under 5 months and have already achieved good grades so far. My boyfriend is the exact same except he is 2 months older then me. We have been tog...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Stuck in a viscious cycle of arguing with my husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I am a married mother of two toddlers, married for 6 years. My husband and I are stuck in a viscious cycle of blame and arguing. We have a multitude of problems... mostly I think it stems from lack of good communication, and stress, but I am at a ...

I want to have a better relationship with my parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hello, last August me and my mum had a really big argument and I moved in with my dad. I won't go into all the details of the argument but I will briefly describe it. I didn't have a job and got her a cheap box of chocolates for her anniversary. I ...

Worried about leaving my kids with their father who is an alcoholic. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My existence here in this country depends on my ex. I don't know why I say he is my ex as we still live together. He was supposed to move out once he had the money. Since I've been working (3 months) I've been paying all the bills myself so he can ...

Sms didn't work. I really like her, but don't want to look needy. What's the best way to arrange our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hey, I Would like to ask you a question or post my " problem ". There is this girl i'm attracted,to her,to her personality .... I got to know her on New Year's eve, got her number. My cousin speaks with her sister , they have a serious re...

I'm worried my husband will cheat on his business trip. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip, and once he returned he confessed to me and said he is guity. However, I cannot come to terms with this yet. It's been 2 years, he has been avoiding going to business trips, but now he c...

What can I do when my boyfriend believes I secretly want his older brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Me and My Boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I love him so much and I know it's stupid but I feel like he's the one. The only problem is he is insecure. He doesn't feel like he is good ...

My husband always has the air conditioning on even though it bothers me and the baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i know some of guys may think it baby like but i dont have friends and this site helps me. my husband has a very high body temp. if it cold amd you touch him he will be hot. in the car he turns on the air con in the house he turns the fan. the ...

I'm 17 and have a curfew of a 9 year old. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - ok so i'm 17 years old. i live with my stepdad and stepsister. when my mom died 3 years ago i had to move back in with them. my stepdad never lets me do anything. go see friends, hang out, NOTHING. It's been this way since i moved back in. tonight i ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...

How can I bridge this terrible predicament?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I am a middle-aged man, I have a daughter who was born when I was in my teens. Her mother and I were High school sweet hearts and I loved her very much. My daughters mother was unfaithful to me many times, I tried to make it work but I could no ...

Why doesn't my mother like my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys! I haven't posted in a while, and regardless if that's good or bad, I do have something I want opinions or solutions on. Recently my mom has been making rude remarks to not only my boyfriend but also my sister's, and she also keeps saying ...

Can one child destroy a whole family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I have a very tragic life. My whole family i destroyed. My children, are all troubled, and I have other serious problems as well. Some chronic bad luck. The family picture is terrible... There is drug addiction, Death from drugs, crime and sham...

My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the ...

Parents are struggling financially. Should I let them move with me if I buy a new home?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I need advice... well I moved in with my parents when my husband and I separated. My dad quit or got fired from his job, we really don't know the truth. I thought it would be a good idea that I pay them instead of staying on my own. Well I've been ...

She hasn't told anyone we broke up, what does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - what does it mean when you split up from a parter of three years, but they havent told their parents, friends, or even changed her relationship status or pix of the two of you on FB?me and my ex gf broke up and she wants to stop talking for a little ...

My husband gets his family involved with everything when I only want his opinion! How do I handle this situation?

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28 January 2011 (F) - i am away from my husband for my delivery since last 3 months.right now in my house.i ve a step mother. i feel lonely in the house as nobody is there for me to share something.my relatives are taunting as some are angry with some family prolems with ...

I've been putty in my parents' hands

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts, How can I make my Parents respect me? I feel They aren't taking me or my words seriously and are trying to make my decisions for me. They get emotional when I tell Them to not meddle in my decisions. How can I not hurt Them and ...

Baring my soul here after my life changed drastically. How do I salvage my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi - I'm very curious to hear people's responses please. My husband and I have been together 14 years (Im now early 30s -he's mid 30's). I realize now that I met him at a very vulnerable time in my life. I needed a lot of attention and I was just...

My online boyfriend wants to marry me, but my parents do not approve! Should I listen to what my parents tell me to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I'm feeling like giving up right now, it's too much I could handle. People surround me keep telling me what to do according to the law in my country and stuffs, it seems I have to sacrifice my own feeling. It is about my relationship ...

I had sex with my mother's friend. I'm worried she will find out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. So I'm a bit a stuck with a situation and I don't know how to get out! My parents are both in their mid 40s, I'm 18, and I have a 4 week old daughter. I've been through shit (I guess it's relevant to say), and my parents have recently been ...

His kids are always sick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...

I want to go see my online boyfriend but can't figure out how to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers ...

Twins and affection, advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am an identical twin and sometimes find that it's hard for me to be separate from others. I have cravings to be always close to someone, yet due to society that doesn't happen. Sometimes I feel like I have an high sex drive, but I think really it ...

How do I cut ties with my sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I will try to keep this brief but it will take a bit of explaining. I am the oldest of five siblings. We are three sisters then the youngest are boy/girl twins, ages up from 23 to 31 (myself) The problem is with myself and the middle sister who...

Wondering is this right where our children are concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have recently started having really strong feelings about my ex sister in laws ex partner he feels the same way about me.We both have children that are cousins and im wondering is this ok for us to b in a relationship in the future.We are not ...

Did I make the right decision allowing my son back into their lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I have a dilema. I recently started allowing my son (I'll call him Elijah) to see his father's side of the family. He is 18 months old and hasn't seen them in 14 months. During the four months I was still married to his father we lived at his ...

Is my boy friend cheating on me or does he have a drinking problem:?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing someone for seven months. We see each other about once a week. We talk on the phone once or twice a week, but otherwise we communicate by email. He used to have his two kids with him most of the time and now his ex-wife has ...

How genuine is my guy? I've helped him so much, and yet I feel excluded from his life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me ...

Whenever I'm home, I want to go back to uni, but when I'm at uni, I want to come home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Dear all, I don't really have a relationship question but if anyone could give me some advice I'd really grateful. Basically, I'm struggling to cope with my emotions. I've gone through a lot of changes over the last year and I've also been under ...

If I give my married lover an ultimatum is it likely that she will leave her impotent husband for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male, and have been in love for 1 yr with a married woman aged 26. She has been married for 3 years and never had sex with her husband, because her husband is impotent and even denies he has a problem, and considers not having sex ...

How do I stop my ex from coming over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 5 years have recently split up, it wasnt a good break up and i am trying to get on with my life. But my mum and step dad are still having him come round even though they know how i feel, i talk to them every time they have him ...

How do we tell our parents we are in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - dear cupid my boyfriend is my cousin does it work?? how can we tell to our parents that we love each other??...

Is this relationship okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Ive recently enetered a relationship with my x sister in laws x partner, we both have children that are cousins, we're not planning on letting kids in on it till alot later, is this wrong? [Mod note: commas inserted to make this more legible.]...