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writes:i know some of guys may think it baby like but i dont have friends and this site helps me. my husband has a very high body temp. if it cold amd you touch him he will be hot. in the car he turns on the air con in the house he turns the fan. the problem with that is the baby and i end up with bad colds. he knows the results of his acts but doesnt seem to mind. he says if he too hot he get headche. can you please help me there is already enough fighting in the house. how do i get him to see what he is doing to us? is it fair that he must avoid a headache at the expense of 2 people getting a flu Reply to this Question
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reader, melomat +, writes (31 January 2011):
melomat is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys for your advice. I've been too sick to talk to him waiting till I'm better. He doesn't seem to feel bad that we've been sick, so I don't know if I'm in the right place.
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reader, Cherrie_StPierre  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 This is a bit serious of a situation. You two need to learn to communicate more. That's what marriage is about. You really should sit him down and come up with a compromise. If he's hot, go take a cold shower, or maybe have one room designated for him that is always cool. You need to stand up for this for your baby's health. It sounds like you two might have a bit of a rocky relationship already. If there is always fighting going on, there are a lot more issues to address than air conditioning. And why do you have no friends? If you ant to email me, please do. I would like to probe at you a bit more, see if I can help you in any way. xoxoxox
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reader, just a female  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 i think you need to sit him down and have a chat.
you and your baby should not be put in jeopardy because of him, but then you should not ignore what he is telling you either. calmly tell him that it is effecting both of you and that he needs to take into concideration the rest of the family. maybe try not having it so cold?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): Well you say the you don't want anymore fighting but you may have to for the health of your baby and yourself. Put your foot down. Do a trick on him pretend your sick and do nothing for him. And when he say something like where is dinner, you say I'm to sick with a cold from the air being on all the time. Make a lesson be learned
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