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36-40,
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writes:I am an identical twin and sometimes find that it's hard for me to be separate from others. I have cravings to be always close to someone, yet due to society that doesn't happen. Sometimes I feel like I have an high sex drive, but I think really it is just a desire to be close and connect with someone. This is never with an intention of cheating. Of course, I want to connect constantly with my partner, however he doesn't have the same degree of affection, intimacy, sex drive, closeness, etc. Please let me know your thoughts about the difference between sexuality and being affectionate. Is there a way to be affectionate without the perception of cheating. Like is cuddling with a friend wrong?If you are twin especially, please, please let me know what your problems,feelings or tips may be in intimacy with a partner, etc. Do you have some of the same problems of not being close enough to someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Well I am not an identical twin but I am a fraternal twin. Me and my twin are EXTREMELY close and I experience exactly what you describe. Sexuality for me is simply an expression of my affection/connection toward the person I'm with. So for people like us there is little distinction between sexuality and affection (as far as a lover goes). I also share that constant need to connect. Are you asking if it is ok to be affectionate with your friends while you are with someone else?
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