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writes:me and my boyfriend of 5 years have recently split up, it wasnt a good break up and i am trying to get on with my life. But my mum and step dad are still having him come round even though they know how i feel, i talk to them every time they have him over im always hiding in my room now or round my friends house scared to come home incase he is there. they dont seem to get why i am so up set with them it feels like my ex is more of the family than me. i am saving for my own place but that wont be for a few more years, how do i stop my mum and step dad having him over, i dont want to see him and i dont want nothing to do with him, but i cant keep hiding in my room forever please please help me-------added from same user:me and my ex of five years have split up recently. i have found some one else but cant tell my perents about him as i know how my mum feels about this new guy and he cant tell his dad because im too much like a member of the family on there side as we grew up together from very young. My mum is still very close to my ex and still has him over somtimes even though she knows how i feel about it. should i tell her about my new boyfriend just to get rid of my ex or just try and deal about it i feel trapped in my own home becaue of this situation, she can have my ex round but im not aloud my new boyfriend round, really dont know what i should do? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): It's your life and you can date who you want. Tell your parents about this new boyfriend and it might just put them off inviting this ex round.Maybe your parents are hoping you and your ex will get back together seeing as they seem so fond of him. If you show them you've moved on it might change their minds. Just a thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): I think the best thing for you to do since your parents don't listen to your opinion would be to confront your ex and either try to make him your friend and convince him to stop the visits to ur home or try to just tell him upfront to stop goin to ur house
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reader, tzina  +, writes (26 January 2011):
i can understand you very much.Its a very awful feeling..you lose someone that u loved..i am just like you in this case..!and i dont think its the best way to face the problem..ok in the beggining it will be very difficult..but u must believe in yourself and be strong..you must fight this feeling and think that ur family will be with you forever!
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