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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

How do I confront my 10 year old daughter about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Is it possible that my 10 year old daughter could be having sexual relations with her 12 year old boyfriend. If so how do i confront her, do i just ignore it or do i beet the living crap out of him. Can she get pregnant at 10. I've seen them both ...

I live with my in laws, and I feel suffocated in my marriage! My husband is not willing to change this as his mother would feel "deserted."

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - ive been married 6 months, i live with my in laws this is something my husband is not willing to change any time soon. He is afraid that his mother will feel deserted if we leave the parental house and even bought a bigger house so we would al...

My inlaws have been in touch with my husbands ex girlfriend and I feel betrayed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My in-laws have been contacting an ex-girlfriend of my husbands. This women and I do not get along at all. She says that her child is my husbands this he says he is unsure of. DNA testing isin the works. It makes me upset that they are contacting ...

My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I ...

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I think I hate my boyfriend's family. Its been 6 months since the last time I've visited them (which went horribly wrong).I took the brunt of their meaness and turned my cheek and they still complained to my boyfriend that they thought I was a bad ...

Shall I tell him what I think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My son has started a relationship with a man 20years his senior. This is his first gay relationship. I want to support my son but cannot support the age difference. What can they have in common?- I'm bewildered. How can I give positive feedback ...

They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...

My family are living in the past! How can I get them to accept that I'm no longer depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I recovered from depression about 4 months ago and I'm having real trouble dealing with 'the aftermath'. Actually it's more that everybody else is having trouble; I'm doing really well at college, have a job and an amazing boyfriend. Overall I'm ...

Bar verses Christianity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Me I'm a Christian, my brother is not saved, I do respect him since he is like our earthly father. We usually spent time together and whenever he goes out to town to drink he makes sure I accompany him. At the bar he takes the beer as I take the ...

My mum died 6 years ago, I'm now 12. My sisters are too lazy to cook for me. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - This is a very small thing but to me it's annoying. I have two older sisters one 23 and one 21 they both live at home with me and my other sister who is 15. We just got a new cooker after two years of useing a microwave and grill. I was really ...

I've got a crazy mother! Anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - My mom hates me. I am friends with one of her friends and she says she feels that she loves me, but she hates me also. A couple of days ago she had a huge fit and started crying because she was upset that I put the frying pan in the washing machine ...

My sister has decided to get engaged the same weekend as me. Am I wrong to ask her to do it a different time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Well, my dilemma is this- my bf and I were just away for a week on holidays and while he was away he proposed (totally surprised me!) I was SOOO happy, and we waited to get home to tell our families. When I got home I told my family including my ...

My parents will laugh and make jokes at me if I tell them about my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for about a month and I want to tell my parent but if i do, they will laugh and make jokes! I realy want them to know what happens in my life but it feels like I'm living two lives. I don't know what to do. ...

Could this be a mommy complex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still n...

I hid my son from him, and when he found out he treated me badly and was uncompassionate towards me. How could he??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi I was seeing this guy for over 2 a months.He was saying how I was the girl for him and how much he realy liked me.There was something I kept from him and that was that I had a son. I was quiet lonely before I met him and I wanted the feeling ...

I love my aunt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - I am very fond of my step-aunt who is 18 years older than me and connect with her intellectually, emotionally and perhaps even spiritually. She has been married for a long time but we have fallen deeply in love with each other and want to marry ...

My husband now wants me to obey him, as head of the household. We cannot agree on this particular issue.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hello I hope you can help me i'm at the end of my tether. I have been married very happily for 16 years. Recently my husband and I have been discussing how best to talk to our teenage daughter about sex. She already has a little knowledge l...

I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told ...

Our only obstacle is that she doesn't want to hurt her parents with an intercaste marriage. What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - hi i m 27 male and belong to an orthodox indian family and i m madly in love with a girl of different caste who is 21 n studying. we are in this relationship for the past 1 year and she loves me truely as well . but we got seperated almost 5 times ...

How do I focus on my marriage, when I still think about the man I couldn't date as he was my brother's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I have beening carrying a flame for my brother best friend for a long time, I was his 1st but we never dated because of my brother, we had a fling for a while without him know and hooked up again, I am now married for one year, but I think of him a ...

Why does my boyfriend keeps allowing his mother to interfere to the point she does things to destroy us saying it's in his best interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and he has allowed his mother to interfer to the point we haven't been able to get married and we don't live together any more. She does things to destroy us and tells him it's all in his best interest. ...

My daughter's father came back, I don't agree with him signing back for parental rights - which he voluntarily gave up and now blames me for - so he doesn't want to talk anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I don't know what to say but I still love my daughter's dad despite the horrible things he's done and said to me. I left him because of his lies, cheating...but I still love him. I moved on with my life and then he decides he wants to come ba...

I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated. She was so mad at me, and I am in tears about this. I don't understand why she thinks that it's so wrong!...

What exactly is the grieving process?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - my dad died a year on wednesday and i dont think i have grieved yet but i am not sure coz i dont no what what you do when you grieve, could some one please help me ps i dont like talking about it with anyone x ...

I have an abusive brother. Why doesn't my mum listen to me and do something about it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Well, I know this is probably wrong to say, but I hate my brother...I mean REALLY hate; I can't stand to be around him. He's physically abused me 3/4 times 2 when I was alone with him, he mostly strangles me and chucks things at me with force, h...

How do I control these kids? Or should I not bother to try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - My fiance has two boys and we have recently moved in with her mother because my fiance's father recently passed away. The grandmother has asked the two boys not to download anything on her computer. I have had many arguments with them over this bec...

How can we find our daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - my daughter joined a cultic relationship. he made her change sch stop contact with family and friends and moved her away. now she seems to have left him but we have no idea where she is. we think its a cult farm, any ideas of how we can find out ...

My mother-in-law comes every day to clean up, do my bf's ironing, etc. Her interference is destroying my relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - my bf mum is really ruining our relationship, she wont but out, she comes round every day and cleans up, best thing is she does the my bf's ironing and i have to do my own, its as if i need a gold card to be with my bf its ruining our relationship ...

Our situation is extremeley complicated and I wish that my partner could see that I've finally grown up. What should I do to be a couple again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner 9 years. we have an eight year old son. i was addicted to recreational drugs when we met, though i have since stopped. i lead a avery busy working life and have had little time for my family. i still smoked cannabis up ...

Finally admitted infidelity after 17 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I am posting to this group hoping to get some support. 17 years ago, I was married for 5 years just had our first baby. My husband tells me has some kinds of bugs in his pubic hair. Stupid, naive, catholic school girl like me looks it up and finds ...

He kisses me but calls me on my twin sister's name. Confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I am seeing this guy who i really really like!! The problm is i have a twin sister, he keeps on holding my hand, keeps on kissing me, but calls me my sisters name!! i fell out with him, but then soon made up. He did it again last night, ...

Not feeling wanted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, well ok here goes nothing i really like this guy but my parents dont they think i can do better but i dont like nobody else he is all i think of and i dont really think he likes me but he aint afraid to be around me at night when nob...

I fantasize about having sex with my mother

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...

How can I stop dwelling on the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Hi have been with my boyfriend 4 years we have a son who is one the first 2 years of our relationship was rocky he would go out and never come home he would text his ex girlfriend behind my back he would tell me he love me one minute and the next ...

His two-faced sister is always talking to his ex and being mean.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's sister has been communitcating with my bf's ex. All the communications have been mean stuff about me. They call me mean names, talk bout how they wish my bf was still with his ex, plot ways to get them back together..and so on. I have ...

I'm struggling to move on from my husband. What should I do?

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23 October 2007 (F) - me and my husband have recently got divorced for the simple reason of we just drifted apart and thought we'd be better off as friends. I was his first and he was mine we have been best friends since infants school so we know each other very well. I ...

I feel like a prisoner. My wife is trying to alienate me from my family. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - My wife has been bringing up divorce lately, sometimes jokingly, sometimes not. I've never been in this situation before so I'm hoping someone can tell me whether our relationship is worth saving or if we're better off apart. My wife doesn'...

Lesbian sisters?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - hi. i am 18 and i am a lesbian. my younger sister is 13 and we are close. i have started to get horny around her and want to know if this is wrong. should i not spend as much time with her?...

This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her ...

I added a question before regarding my attraction to a friend who is gay. I now wonder if he could be Bisexual...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I added a quesion a while back about my attraction to my friend who is gay. The advice I received was really great and made me see the problem in an entirely different light. The thing is we've been spending a lot of time together recently and ...

She was raped by her ex father in law. How can I cope with the distress I feel for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

22 October 2007 (M) - Hey, My fiance has a sexual past that she is not proud of and I'm not either. It's a real problem because I get these recurring disturbing images. She is coming from a really sick marriage in which her husband tried to sell her for sex and his ...

Who is right and who is wrong? I woke up in the middle of the night and my husband was at the PC, chatting.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

21 October 2007 (F) - We had a great day together. Around midnight I went to bed, he was watching a game on TV. I woke up at 2:30am and he was not in bed. Without much thought I went downstairs. He is on his computer, chatting. He said he was chatting with his coworkers. ...

I was kicked out and found everything I want but now I miss my family and I feel they need me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

21 October 2007 (F) - 10/21/07 4:34 a.m. Hello, I am desperately asking for help right now... I am 20 and was kicked out of my house May of 2006 for silly reasons. Like not cleaning the whole house or as mothers would do lot.. compare how we are not lik...

How can I describe to him what it's like to have sex with someone who's so drunk they hardly can recall it? He hid this "habit" until after we got married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I'm 51 y/o, married 7 months to a total alcoholic, functional in all ways, but a drunk nevertheless. He hid it from me until after we were married. I knew he drank a few beers a day, but not also at least a 1/2 pint of vodka, too, straight from the ...

My husband's parents cause us to fight all the time because of their bickering, how to tell them without risking them to destroy my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - My husband's parents won't butt out of our business they try to tell us how to live our lives and raise our two children. They don't respect us as parents and they cause us to fight all the time because of their bickering, how do I let them know ...

We get married in a couple of weeks and he says he doesn't want kids, whereas I do. We both have a child from previous relations...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - ok here goes me and my b/f love each other very much we are planning to get married in a couple weeks but he don't wont anymore kids but i do he has one who is 16 and i have one who is 5 he says he is to old which i don't think he is he is 35 but he ...

He told me that the only thing that's stopping us getting back together is his family problems.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Okay well ihave been dating this guy for over a year and he broke up with me. We are coinsidered on a timeout. HIs reasons were that he gets mad when i get jealous and i told him i would try to improve and it has been a long trial. Well alsothere ...

I hate my family life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I hate my family life im 13 and there are so many family problams I hate everyone in my family there so unfair and horrible. I want to leave home. I have a week off school for half term and i would rather go to school just to escape! What can I Do?...

My neurotic sister is causing problems. What can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - My 88year old dad died almost a year ago. My younger sister (45years old) took it very hard (she's neurotic anyway). We have a great deal of property that belongs to us all (Dad had 4 children) my sister will not cooperate in the selling o the ...

I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...