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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

If I end things now will she think I just wanted sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now, i am kinda starting to loose interest in the relationship cause we all busy and i wanna focus on school too. Anyway we kinda split up like two weeks ago not really a break up, just like a break ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...

If he was the one my feelings wouldn't have changed, would they?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi guys, i've been with my partner for 4years and we'v been engaged for almost 3 we also have a daughter together.. however for quite a while iv been feeling different around him. I feel like theres no spark anymore and our sex life is basically ...

I want to leave but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - How do i get my boyfriend (soon to be ex) to stop eating his boogers, every time i see him hes diggin in his nose and putting it in his nose.. i am so grossed out.. i dont even kiss him anymore, and he gets really really made and throws temper ...

Could the steroids numb him emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - please can you give some advice, i have been with my partner for over 2 years, we have some tough times over the last few months, he has admitted to me he is taking anobolic steriods, I think he has only told me as over the last few weeks he has ...

He can't have loved me like I thought! Is he a loser?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Me an my x broke up 3 months ago. I have never heard off him since. I did cheat on him, but i was drunk and it meant nothing. He changed his number. He cannot love me like i thought because he would have wanted to sort our problems out. Is it time ...

What lessons can I learn from this? My Boyfriend left without any warning after almost 1.5 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I’ve read a lot of wisdom on this site so I thought I’d seek some guidance and advice from you wonderful people. My BF of 1.5 years left me without any warning a month ago. I came home and all of his stuff was gone and only a note left saying...

Help me save my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

25 December 2011 (M) - Please help me! Me and my gf have been 2geva 4 nearly 5 years, we have a briliant relationship, wel that is wen she ay got her cell phone in her hand, she wont tell me what she doing and who she texts, she has a password on it to. She says she not ...

I lied to my Bf, who I love, about WHO I was meeting. How do I resolve my guilt at not telling my Bf it was my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him vey much and couldn't ask for anyone better. However, I deceived him the other day, and I really don't know what to do about it. I told my boyfriend I was going to meet up...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

I'm worried I'm in love with a guy I grew up with. What will I do about my boyfriend, who I don't love now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I grew up on a rough estate, and I hung around with the bad boys. That was 7 years ago, and since then i met a lad through college and we got together in 2009. He cheated and lied constantly, i forgave him, Though I don't know why I did forgive him,...

Am I justified in feeling insulted by his behavior towards me over his 'present?' to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I (relationship of 6yrs) dont do presents however today he bought a present for his son's Gf (live-in rent-free gf) a ok Body shop set n some loose items. In jest I asked if he had anything for me and he took one of the items .wra...

I'm losing all sexual attraction towards my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

21 December 2011 (?) - I'm losing all sexual attraction towards my bf. He used to be thinner and well-built and his face wasn't as round. Now, 2 years later, he never exercises, eats more, sleeps a lot and has gained, I would say, over 30 pounds. It's visible to everyone. ...

Now that she's angry, should I continue following her father's advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - So my ex, who lives with me, broke up with me 2 months ago. She claimed almost a week ago she was confused and didnt know what to do, she told me she missed me and she didnt want to hurt me, she cried a little. The day after she told me the same...

Is he insensitive or am I too sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - My fiance says I'm sensitive, but I think he's just mean. I won't get into a whole lot of background. We've been together for 7.5 years now and I just get upset with him too much I feel. He just does things that get under my skin and it really sucks ...

I am due to fly out to see my bf but he has just dumped me! I am distraught!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - Ok so its less than a week before Xmas. I am due to fly out to be with my boyfriend tomorrow (6 year relationship) and he has just told me, out the blue, that he doesn't feel the same way about me any more... and he told me by email. I am totally ...

I feel distant towards my boyfriend! Its getting worse, Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 years. Lately, as in the last year I have felt distant from him, and it gets worse everyday. When I try to sit down and talk to him he either gets mad and says he hears it all the time or he'll laugh and say he's tired ...

Have I ruined my chances with my Ex Boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hey all, Recently I've been talking to an ex from a long time ago and he admitted to me after a year of being apart that he still had feelings for me. I'll admit that I've always had feelings for him and have wanted to get back together with hi...

I'm Jealous of his new Girlfriend, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Skipping all the details, there is basically this guy that I've had a huge massive insane crush on for pretty much most of this year. For one reason or another it didnt work out, and I thought I'd got over him, but now he's got a new girlfriend, and ...

He did not invite me out! Why is he acting this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - To cut a long story short. I have fancied this guy in university for a year now and although we haven't talked much through the year, we went on a dinner date a couple of days ago. We got a bit drunk after dinner and I went back to his and we ki...

My ex is seeing another girl, is he doing this because I did not trust him? I'm just hurt!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - Ok I really need help. My ex and I were together for three years. We had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we forgave each other and always told each other I love you. We'll we broke recently over something I had done. I had inva...

Why wont he commit to me? I'm losing my mind!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - Im 34 years old and for the last 18months i have been having a casual relationship with my first love. I lost my virginity to him when i was 23 and we had regular sex for about 4 years. He is a bit of a commitment phobic. Maybe the reason for this ...

Can I get her to open up her heart to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

14 December 2011 (M) - In June of my girlfriend of many years left me for another man,It was painful and traumatic. Three months later we made contacted and started the process of talking and seeing each other occasionally ,while she is still with him. Things progressed ...

I broke up with my Girlfriend and I know she's confused. Should I just let this go and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - i was with my girlfriend for two years, and she broke up with me for someone else in june. since then, though, we remained friends, but it eventually led to her telling me she still had feelings for me. it's been a roller coaster ride ever since. ...

I feel like our relationship has reached its end...but I am struggling to let go. Any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I’m finding it hard to break up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years (I’m 20 and he is 22). He is my first love and he is also my first sexual experience. When we first started dating it was pretty rocky. I thought about breaking up with him but my ...

Is this a bridge worth mending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

11 December 2011 (F) - I really need a pep talk here. ): Brace yourselves, it's a long story! btw, hi. Sorry if its hard to read, it's 2AM here. I was supposed to attend a college somewhere on the east coast to be with my boyfriend at the time. Let's say his...

My girlfriend claims she doesn't love me because I'm dishonest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

11 December 2011 (M) - I feel helpless I absolutely love my girlfriend but she doesn't love me because she claims I am a compulsive liar and don't love her at all. And I feel like I am unloved she tells me she never loved me and she only told me she did for me not t...

How to move forward in an off and on relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

11 December 2011 (F) - Just wondering if it sounds like I'm being ridiculous.. In almost 3.5 years, my bf has broken it off twice. This is our 3rd time back together. Each time we broke up or got back together it was always a bit of a surprise. I would go back to him v...

Is he trying to repair our arrangement or end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

11 December 2011 (F) - I got i txt msg from a guy friend i had sex with about 2 months ago just once but i got msg today saying 'i dont know how this is going 2 work, when am free your always busy and when your free am busy' what does he want? is it just the sex or does ...

I'm in a relationship, but I'm attracted to another girl and can't stop thinking about her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

10 December 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend over 2 years, and whilst the relationship is going ok, our sex life isn't (not as frequent or adventure as there used to be) and lately I've found myself being attracted to a girl who works in a local store. I've neve...

What should I say if she calls? title Lesbian LDR of 5 years.. Has she moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4756 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - I flew interstate at the end of August. A and I had been doing bad for some time and it had been 8 months since we saw each other last. In fact during those 8 months we had a break up that lasted 2 months. A came here for Christmas and stayed for ...

There's no spark, I don't think there ever was. Do I tell my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore. We've been together for two years and I moved 200 miles away from home to his flat with him (and his mum) 6 months ago becaus of problems at home. We spend every minute of every day together and I can't ...

Can I rebuild after so many set-backs? I desperately need experienced advice on my heart ache

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I have been a dear cupid reader for 3 years now. This is the time of my life I really really need support and advice. I feel I am really ugly and unattractuve. Please I urge you to read cause it is going to get really long but I will k...

Is this love? Why is he closing himself off after being so close?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Dear all, I have been with my BF for around 9 months. it has not been an easy relastionship - so recently I started detaching myself. Anyway, since I have been doing this, he has been declaring his love and the sex seems to be differnet. It seems he ...

Why do we want people who hurt us back in our lives?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - Here's something Ive always wondered, when we love somebody, and let's say they take off with someone else, cheat, etc. outside of feeling the anger, how come so many people are inclined to take the person back so quickly? and overlook the fact that ...

Should I sell her engagement ring?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - Me ard my partner were Engaged to get married next year last week she told me she does not love me and has not loved me for a long time. She doesn't want to make things work as she has feelings for someone else. Question is do I sell her engagment ...

Am I losing feelings for my ldr boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - I'm dating someone who lives two hours away. We've only been dating for about six months, and we've known each other for a year. When we first began talking, I was SO into him and when we had little arguments I would go over the top about ...

I'm tired of being the one who always tries to make the relationship work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for nearly 2 years.Only during the start he used to call me, nowadays im the one who is always calling/trying to meet him. He never even tries. If i stop calling even for a week, he wont bother much. I dont want to do ...

Does the ex ever wonder, 'what if?' 'How can some ex's finish the relationship so easily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - I still don't understand how someone who was supposed to love you, can just up and leave you and never look back. I'm talking about relationships where everything's fine, but then one person does a 180 degree turn and leaves for no apparent reas...

Drifting apart while in college. How can we work on the long distance relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years now. We are both now in college and are drifting apart. It has gotten to the point where she has told me that I annoy her all the time. We are both busy and when I try to talk to her she will ...

I believed what this other girl was saying. We broke up. Do I wait for him because I love him or do I give up on the relationship and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend has been dating over a year. but we broke up on monday. caue this girl that is real obsessed with him was always causing drama, she told him that she wished i was not with him, so she could be with him and that she was going to...

Is it just that time has changed my attitude? Or could it be the promotion is affecting things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years moved to another town a year ago for a job. We were living together and everything was great. The plan was that I follow him there once I get a job. It's been a year now and initially I missed him like crazy and I thought...

How can I avoid sex in a loveless marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - Is it possible to stay married, not be love and avoid sex with husband all the time? Is there anyone here who has been in this situation? Please share your views and experience to help me. Many thanks.....

My girlfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

2 December 2011 (M) - Alright people I would like to thank anyone who took the time to read this post. Ok so I am in this relationship that will be 2 years in a few days. I've been with this girl since my sophomore year in high school and recently I have a "Wall" in ...

They all lied to me. How do I get over this anger and rage I have inside of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

1 December 2011 (M) - Ok its been a while since I have posted on here. I had an ex girlfreind who I broke up with. This is because one of her male friends, who I knew and trusted very well. who also happened to be my friend, was getting too close. It bothered me....

I always thought love should feel like you are falling in love again every day but I realised thats not possible, now I'm worried I have ruined my relationship because of this....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - I think I'm addicted to the feeling of falling in love, the one that's not supposed to last. I always pictured my dream relationship to be like I'm falling in love with the person all over again every day for the rest of my life. But now I see that ...