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writes:I feel helpless I absolutely love my girlfriend but she doesn't love me because she claims I am a compulsive liar and don't love her at all. And I feel like I am unloved she tells me she never loved me and she only told me she did for me not to cry And it's because of this I feel like I am unloved and that I will never find anyone but the truth is I love only her and want to be with herShe thinks otherwise And she tells me I am ugly I am an idiot and unlovable Please I need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2011): "And she tells me I am ugly I am an idiot and unlovable" Ditch the bitch.
You really need to grow a backbone OP, I mean do you not see how whiny and weak you sound letting someone walk all over you and then say you feel helpless? OP you are letting this girl walk all over you, for what? Does she have amazing tits or something? Because certainly doesn't have a great personality.
OP unless you man up tell her to fuck off and start working on gaining strength of character and conviction then you're going to be stuck dating girls like her because being a weak and over-emotional doormat is not what women look for in a partner. The only women that do are the ones like your girlfriend. Wake up, grow up and man up. Whatever magical thing you think is great about this girl is not worth all the shit she is putting you through and saying to you. It's called emotional abuse OP. I don't care how great her tits are, it's not worth it, plenty of other women have amazing tits too.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (11 December 2011):
 Dishonesty is a serious relationship killer. All relationships are relationships of trust. The relationship is defined by how much you can trust and predict what the other person will do. If you agree that you are a compulsive liar then you should seek help to overcome this. You will not feel loved and connected to any person who can not trust you.
By your report the things she is saying to you indicate that yes sadly she wants you to go away. You should respect her wishes and leave her, before her abuse of you escalates. You need to work on yourself for a while. Look up manning up. Most girls will not respect a guy who cries to get their sympathy. Stop thinking about what you want and start thinking about what you can offer.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (11 December 2011):
 Are you sure this person is still your girlfriend? This sounds to me like a parting shot or an act of desperation designed to get rid of someone who just won't go away.
If your girlfriend claims she doesn't love you, you'll have to take her word for it. As hard as it is, you'll have to move on. The longer you stay the more repulsed she will be. If you don't have respect for yourself, she won't either.
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