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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...

I think I've finally had it! Should I break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Confused, pissed and frustrated. I can't stop feeling angry over boyfriend not helping me co-sign for an apartment. We have been together 10 years. Lived together for 5 years, 3 years lived in my own apartment(we do better with a little space ...

How do I get this woman to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I am a 26-year-old female in a relationship with a woman for the past two and a half years, and it's not working out. She is an alcoholic, sometimes physically violent, very often abusive, insanely jealous. She moved into my flat about a year and a ...

I'm heartbroken at being dumped because we got uninvolved with each other's daily lives... I need to hear some different perspectives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ive had a relationship before, and ive been dumped before. This time its worse. Basically, ive been going out with him for a while now, and it might just be me but i get used to things, i get attatched and when they leave i cant cope myself...

I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be ...

What is my girlfriend thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So heres my problem: My girlfriend hasnt been so affectionate lately so i brought it up with her and asked if there was something wrong and if she wanted to talk about anything. so she kinda gave me round about answers like "idk" and such so ...

Does he care at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hello hope you all can help... ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years... he says im unaffectionate (i am such a loving person but gave up trying because he is non affectionate) ...if fact my question is this .. Ive always tried in the rela...

My trust in him has died

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up because he says I don't trust him..the reason I don't trust him is because he lies to me about the smallest things..we have a child together and my family lives cross country so I can't just move out quick..but then ...

He says he's not a bad guy, can I believe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - there is a guy and we used to kiss and snog but it didn't really mean anything i think it is something like friends with benefits? and we are really good friends. then he liked this girl and now they are going out. but me and him are really r...

We are on a week break of our 7 year relationship. What do you think will happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are Juniors in College, both 21, and have been dating for 7 years. We love each other dearly, but feel we have no time for each other. we never fight, and frankly I feel like we have a very good relationship.. when its going good ...

After 5 years am I bored with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - It's been 5years, me and my boyfriend. We had argued several times about the idea of he being the giver without me sharing anything in return. I do admit my mistakes but at the same time I felt I don't deserve him. He been such a good boyfriend but ...

He said he loves me and is missing me and suddenly wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 8 months previously we had been best friends for a few years. We have been having a difficult month due to moving home and him being made redundant. Then one day out of the blue he text me to say he wasnt happy, w...

Boyfriend doesn't call

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend doesn’t won’t to give me care such as call, text and loving word after 1 year our relationship happened. Before he was good guy but know I feel I loose him and I still love him so much. ...

The process of (LDBI)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

24 October 2010 (?) - This article consists of four simple words, Love, despair, broken, and incomplete. In other words the process of LDBI. Everyone goes through this process atleast once in their life, maybe more. Let me explain this process to you in greater detail. L...

I don't think he feels the same about me any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi guys i been with my bf for 1 year and half and we both sharing a flat. lately i relaised that we argue over everything e.g wat to eat, going out, wen i come back home late from uni etc. even the other day it was our anniversary and i dressed up ...

Does my girlfriend like me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in ...

He thinks I'm cheating on him and is losing interest in me... but I'm not!!! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I need some help.. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years and have a small child together. Everything was fine until one day he came home and said he had a feeling i was cheating on him (something i would never do) and said his feelings were ...

Boyfriend bores me sometimes... is it time to call it a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months. We have broken up many times but it wasn't serious ones. the reason we have broke up was because I was bored of our relationship. His a really nice person I've hurt him few ...

I love my "Nice Guy" who doesn't reveal much of himself, and I am feeling shut out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hello all. I guess I can call myself a “Nice Girl”, and if you met him, you would definitely call my guy a “Nice Guy”. We try our best to do good to each other and community, and we handle disagreements with honesty in a sane manner. We have a ...

Boyfriend losing interest, how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend has recently gone back to university which is 3 hours from where i live, i rarely get to see him anymore and i am finding it really difficult. Hes in his last year but i got so used to him being around over the summer holidays ...

After 5 years into the relationship, and don't know what to do..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years now. We were only 18 when we started going out. At the beginning i was completely crazy about him. For the last 6 months things have been going a bit strange for me. I really thought i wanted to get ...

Away Backpacking - How or When Can I Break Up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend now for several years. Sometimes things are good, but a lot of the time I just want to end the relationship. We argue a lot and then just end up making up again. Much of my love for her has died and I now care ...

I finally left! Why doesn't it feel better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - i recently left the father of my two children i had enough of all the misstreatment. he verbaly humiliated me, ocacionally pushed me around. he is very weird somedays he treats me really good but other days he doesnt stop telling me he hates me ...

I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn't happy and I was paranoid. What happens next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost three years on my 21st birthday. I did it for a number of reasons. Even though we love each other immensely, we had a few issues. I broke up with her because I felt like I needed a little bit ...

Does this teacher feel the same way for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - My teacher is from america and is actually rather handsome. He's only 23 and im just nearly 16. At first we never talked but after a while we got used to each other and now talk an awful lot. He's even offered to let me use his house when i do a ...

I never felt like his top priority! Was I right to end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 3.5 years and we recently broke up. The peculiar thing is that I’m not experiencing the feelings that are commonly associated with a break-up, (daily crying, no sleep, etc.) I don’t know if this is because I’m really ...

How can I get up the nerve to break things off with my long distance girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - I'm a rather shy guy, and not very good at standing up for myself, so it was really hard to try and break up with my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I had been long distance for well over a year, but things haven't been going so well. I decided that ...

I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions of my wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - I don't love my wife any more and I can no longer tell her I love her anymore. I have a daughter at a young age and don't want to divorce but I feel that our relationship is hurting my child. I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions ...

Why has his sex drive decreased so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I'm wondering why the sex in our relationship has fizzled. I've been with my bf for a bit over 1.5 years now, a lot of it living together. And in the beginning we'd have sex quite a bit, at least once a day, a lot of times more. And back then both ...

I'm cold toward my wife and need to get the love back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Hi, we have been married for 11 years and have two beautiful daughters. My question is that my wife is not or rather seem not to be interested in sex. Whenever I get close to her or try to make a move towards having sex she shrugs me off and says ...

This new guy online has me questioning my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years and we had until recently a great relationship we have a 3 year old son and live together.we have always had a passionate relationship however he has hit me twice(drunk both times)and recently we ...

I'm angry my ex could treat me like a ghost after everything we've been through together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - Just broke up with my Ex. Its been a week and a few days. We were on a break, but she made it permanent and now she's "dating" this guy she met at a bar 2 wks ago who lives in Australia. After we decided to take a break so she could work on he...

Sometimes his very touch irritates me. I don't want to have sex with him ... why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months or so. We live together... and in a couple weeks we won't be, as I really want my own apartment, and living together was out of convenience. We're both cool with this. So... I don't want to have sex...

He doesn't feel the same as when we first started dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - I'm not a person to give up easily and I believe that we are meant to be together, but he says he is no longer 'in love' with me. He still lvoes me, but doesn't feel the same as he did when we first started dating. I love him and want to be with him ...

How can we have this discussion without fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - So I've been with this girl for 2 years and I feel I am at a point where some hard decisions need to be made in regards to the relationship. At the moment I live with my girlfriend and have done for a year, the relationship has developed into q...

I broke up and I regret it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend. The reason why I broke up was that I didn't feel in love I didn't have that butterfly feeling. Through he was the most wonderful man I met he loved me so much and would have gave me the moon. But things ...

Stuck with old lover,new person treats me better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5153 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Basically I was with this girl C for nearly two years, for the first year the relationship was perfect and I fell madly in love. But as time went on, the relationship fell to pieces, she left me. Everything came out she cheated on me, and id ...

Boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - Hi guys, I'm having some mixed signals interpreting my boyfriend and would be happy for any advice and input. thanks. :) basically the story goes like this: my boyfriend and i (both 21) met a month ago and kicked it off from the first da...

Two months ago she was going to love me forever; now she doesn't see it working out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I'm 21 and I've been dating my 27 y/o girlfriend for just over a year now. I met her in Australia after she came for a year from Germany, where she has now recently returned home. We travelled all over Australia together and i took her home to meet ...

don't want to be her friend when I care about her and don't get any recognition for it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M) - About 3 months ago the girl of my dreams told me I like you as a friend and being the nice guy I said sure lets be friends. I thought being friends could possibly mean down the road she might like me or want to hang out with me like a friend would ...

I feel his mother always comes first!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I had an arranged marriage and 3 kids. He is well educated and family man; however I do not feel that he is in love with me. Last summer, while in our native country, we had a nasty fight because of his mother intervention in our live...

Calling Christians - Can a spouse do so much wrong that you just can't come back despite what the bible says?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I am a very spiritual person. I love people and always look for the good in them. I am someone who can be involved with someone who has 2 tons of bad and 5 pounds of good, and I shift the scale to the good. But I am in a marriage where I have lost ...

I ditched everyone to marry him and then he changed his mind! Now he wants me to drop everything again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, i feel so lost and confused i'm not sure of anything anymore . i'm 19 and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months i'm really young i know but i love him so much he's all I've ever wanted and i can't picture my life wit...

Why do I feel so unloved when my girlfriend says she won't have sex with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Why do I feel so unloved, unappreciated, and dirty when my girlfriend says she won't have sex with me? Why do I feel as if she doesn't desire me anymore? Why do I feel so...... Down......?...

Do I get bored of guys' attention and how do I stop this?

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7 October 2010 (F) - I get bored ? i think i really don't know what or why i do this .... Well first of i am a 20 year old who has never had a boyfriend ,but always have a few guys who was interested. My problem is that i feel like i lead guys on and once i get there at...

Is our relationship turning into a fading spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 15 months almost to the day. Our courtship was awesome and we have great chemistry--plus, he's my bestest friend. God, I used to look back at our time together and just be marveled... The first guy to twirl me ...

How long is too down? The sex has never been good and now I don't look forward to being with my husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for 21 years. During that time our sex life has never been that great for me,. For the past 10 years I have had no desire to have sex with my husband, do so just to keep him happy as a wife should, normally only last a couple ...

I just feel so alone and don't know how to move forward.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Ok this is complicated and I'm sure will sound silly to a lot of people. I met this guy about 3 years ago when I was still living with my kid's dad. I didn't love my kid's dad and I was planning on breaking up with him so meeting this oth...

He asked me to homecoming but openly flirts with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I said yes. We had a time where we both liked each other but nothing ever happened cause he ended it. Now, after he asks me to HC, he sometimes ignores me and openly flirts with my friend (and they both had a time where they liked each other too). ...

Confused by this love triangle! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello, I have been dating a guy for a few months, he was great at first helped me with everything, told me he was married but getting a divorce, he came for a visit a few weeks ago left early saying he needed to get back to fini...