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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Once I have her, I don't want her as much as I used to when I was after her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - What is wrong with me? I'm 14 and one minute I'm head over heals for a girl... and do everything in my possibility to be with her and go out with her... I fell in love for her but once I have her... I don't want her as much as I used to when I was ...

I'm not lazy and I try to take care of everything but I'm wore down and I don't know how much more I can take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband no longer talks to me except to argue if I say nothing it's still my fault. I've been married all most 10 years. Everything I do or say is wrong. I feel unloved and definitely unwanted. I'm always a bitch. I've been sleeping on the couc...

His co worker told me my boyfriend stopped caring for me 4 months ago... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together 2 years. He goes out with co workers but tells me nothing, does not text or call, he tells me he doesn't need to check in and doesn't want me to know where he hangs out. What do I do? His co worker told me he is ...

Is it possible he just doesn't fancy me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 29 years of age. He does not like to have sex often, I usually have to initiate sex all the time. I ask him if it's me and he say's no, and replies with saying I don't have a sex drive any more. Is he telling the truth, when ...

I'm not attracted to my older boyfriend anymore... why am I feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok please help me based on these facts........... * I am 28 years old * I have been with my 45 year old boyfriend for 5 years * We haven't slept together in over 2 months because I don't feel attracted to him in that way anymore - I could kiss ...

I think I love my friend's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly two years. And the other weekend I hooked up with his best friend. Both me and his best mate have decided to keep it a secret. But I think I now have feelings for his friend now. Although I ...

Any connection we used to have seems to be gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - hey guys ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i think its falling apart so if you have any advice please help! for the past month hes been really depressed and paid me no attention. I think some of the feelings i have for him in that time lef...

Tips on how to keep my relationship fresh, please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I need a bit of advice as to how to keep my relationship fresh. I have been seeing wonderful man for two years now, we see each other for one or two days a week and it seems to have fallen into that routine where the excitement is going. Litt...

What do I when he changes to be cold hearted and doesn't care anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i've been in this relationship for 2 years and my boyfriend and are now common-laws we live together and we have 3 cats. he just turned 21 and i'm going on 22, he changed 3 days after his birthday it went on for 2 weeks and after that he was fine...

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want ...

I care about him alot but don't think I want to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I'm stuck in a real predicament. I have been dating this boy for nearly 8 months but I'm starting to fall out of love after quite a few incidents where he has been overly protective and possessive of me. I don't know what to do, he has a great side ...

Should I continue to "take" from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Oh this is so strange, the guy that I have been dating, now every couple of weeks for 2 years is in the hospital with a clogged stent in his plumbing?.. I mean those were the words he used and honestly I am not in love with him and well I don't know ...

Lost interest in marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - am a lady and married for seven years. my husband has had a tendency of not communicating in marriage when something annoys him. he just changes his mood and do not talk that much. at first i would try to start a conversation, but it was only...

Live my life... or stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years,(I'm 26, she's 23) we have bought a house together and are set up for the rest of our lives really. We also work at the same place so therefore see each other for dinner etc through the day. T...

Really need some help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I was 16 when we got together, now I'm 23, and I am starting to feel that I want to go and explore life. I think I still love him, but I feel I've missed out on a whole part of my life. We seem to have les...

Am I ready to let go? Or do I want it all back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5751 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - it's been 3 months since i left him, i couldn't take it and i already left nc to start my life in texas when that happened the feelings were "i can do better and better". he came down in december for my birthday, and we got engaged [we were tog...

I want to get all my old feelings back and just be happy with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5751 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt like i was too young to be with just one person. I felt like my feelings had changed for him as well. The problem is that i dont want to move on from him. I want to get all my old feelings back and just...

We broke up so that we could see other people, but what if end up not getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5751 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupids, My bf just broke up with me a few days ago, it hurts so much and I'm really confused. We have known each other for 4 years, but dated on and off for 2 years within those 4 years. We started dating since he was a freshman in coll...

I've finally fallen for him, but now he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Ok, I was in love, in a 2 year relationship and then he suddenly left me and didn't even give me any reasons. I was shocked, and alone for about three months, and then this guy (my current bf) came around and I really liked him. I even thought at ...

I just need to know what to do to get this person to fall back in love with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girls for about a year on and off. Recently we lived together and I started to feel taken advantage of so we decided to live seperately and still date. Well we both say we love each other but yet she doesn't show a lot of emot...

He loved me when we couldnt be together, but now that there is a chance for me to live near by he doesn't want me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - How do I know if he has real feelings for me? I met this guy on the internet about 9 months ago. We then started chatting online and webcamming for several months. i then took a chance and flew to Canada and spent a wonderful month with him. ...

He is afraid of commitment and keeps running away. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5751 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - He was hurt so deeply once, not by a woman, that he ran away from everything for years. His life, his friends, his family. He had to start over again from nothing. Now I feel that he is doing this to our relationship. His fear of allowing ...

Why am I so selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Im 22 and I have been in a relationship for a little over two years, but lately i have started to realize that i am being selfish. My boyfriend is beginning to get fed up with me...he pointed out today that i dont do anything for him, simple thin...

Tips on how to end my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. It's the usual story, relationship started off wonderful and then gradually it's began to become unbearable. I have had a long think about what to do and have decided it's time to end it. My ...

He says he doesn't love me! What is going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - We've been married for 1 and a half years. We're both young, very young. In the beginning he always pursued me and I was very cold. After we got married, though, things changed. He was still more loving and warm than me, just not as much as p...

I can't decide.. I really need opinions! please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Right I have a boyfriend who really likes me, and i don;t really know why i said yes to seeing him, i don't think I've ever had strong feelings for him, but we've been with each other for 3 months, we don't live near each other and maybe see each ...

I've fallen for his best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

Stay in the relationship and try to love him again? Or get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and we've had some bad moments mostly because of his jealousy but we managed to overcome them. I was usually the one who made more compromise and i sometimes got frustrated because of this but I ...

I'm a monk serving everyone but me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I married my wife 17 years ago. She became pregnant we were in grad. school. We've built the trappings of an amazing life...a son, careers, great house, pets, and so on. We are supportive of each other...we are great friends...but...there is very ...

He isn't on the same page as you, what do you do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i've been with this guy for 2 1/2 years, married for almost 1 and I thought he was for me. english is his second language, and even though i speak his language too I feel like I can't communicate with him at all. i like to use big vocabulary and ...

Relationship is falling apart I feel like I am putting more into than him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now... it seems like the relationship is falling apart... we don't hang out as much. we are always arguing...i am more into the relationship than he is...how can i get him back into it...do i play ...

The blossom has left the relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - ive been with my partner for 2 and a half years now. for the last few months the blossom has left the relationship he never ever wants sex n he could never go with out it before. i would like to have your opion as to why this is i believe hes been ...

Feelings of doubt in the relationship..will they go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for eleven months. im 17 and he is 19. He is the perfect boyfriend! He is attentive, affectionate, patient, caring etc. He is everything i could want to spend the rest of my life with. For the past eleven months weve ...

Help needed please. I want to break up with my boyfriend but not sure how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I don't think I love him any more, at least I'm not in love with him any more. I recently met another guy and we went out as just friends but he's told me he likes me and I've said the same to him a...

Bored with Marriage!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I really do not know where to start.. Some of the questions asked seem "all to familiar". My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have 4 children total, all under the age of 11. Two from previous marriages and our youngest 3 and ...

Just ending a long painful relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Just ending a long painful relationship where I was verbally Abused and mentally as well. My ex said I was terrible in bed and I couldn't kiss well And said I was boring in bed but he bugged me for sex all The time. So now that the relationshi...

Don't know if I wanna still be with my fiancee

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - hey all. this ones kinda complicated for me. i am currently engaged to my girlfriend. but lately have been feeling like is this the person i really wanna be with!! see i give her everything i can to make her happy. but back in november i found...

Stay with fiance and be unhappy? Or go with my feelings for his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm so lost. My fiance and I have been dating for 4 years now and we recently have gotten engaged. In any case, I dont find myself so attracted to him anymore, yet I am extremely attracted to his older cousin. We share an extremely close bond. ...

Why does the cheating partner turn it around like its the other person's fault?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I in need of advice. I spend every day from the time i wake up around 7.30am when i know my husband gone to work, just sat in a chair i go on the computer just browsing when i am not doing this i cry i am crying now as i trying to write what i a...

Too little wedding planning and respect. Too much of the ex and also sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start, but i am pretty much finding myself growing more distant, angry and unhappy with my fiance. I know i love him alot, and when we go out and do things together, its always alot of fun, but i am just not 'feeling it' ...

Husband seems unattracted to me only after 1 1/2 years of marriage. :(

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I need help with my marriage. I've only been married for 1 1/2 years and I feel like my marriage is already getting stale. My biggest problem is my insecurity with my body. I've always had high self esteem until I got married. My husband LOVES big ...

I want to split from him but can't get him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy I don't love. The thing is I already confessed I loved him but now I wanna get out! What should I do to avoid hatred between the two of us? Will he feel betrayed when I tell him I don't really feel anything for ...

How can I change him? or am I over-reacting.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 23yrs old and have been married for nearly 2 years. I moved away from my home town 5 years ago and met my husband soon after. He is a lovely man, but i never imagined my life to be like this. I love him very much, he is my strength. ...

LDR--breakup..does a month no contact work? Is it natural to have waning feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Me and my long distance girlfriend of 5 years broke up last week and and while i miss her i'm suprisingly not overly torn up about it yet. For those who have been in a LDR you'll know that it has to be preety intense for it to work and this ontop of ...

Obsessed boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My bfriend and I have only been together a few months. The first two months were very serious (talks of marriage) but now I have just about had enough. He got really drunk one night and sent me abusive text messages because I was at work and ...

I don't know how to handle this situation and could really use some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for two months. From the start, she has pursued me quite aggressively -- a fact that I initially found flattering. Unfortunately, as time goes by, I realize that I am simply not in love with her. She, on the other hand, seems ...

For my daughters sake.., should I settle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I met someone new. My husband and I were having problems. I was 8 months pregnant and he decided it was best for me to go live with my parents out of state. I don't want to get into the specifics of the problems but it did not involve cheating in a...

What do I do to save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for almost 3 years ( since 17) and for the first almost 2 years it was a long distance relationship. We got engaged while still living in different states and planned on one of us moving. Due to some family problems i was ...

Does she just want to teach me a lesson? Help me out here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've got a long distance relationship with a girl. She has problems and is stressed so I asked if we could just be friends until I got stuff together to come down and be with her. But I made it clear that I wasn't going to cheat on her and she told ...

I'm losing feelings for him and don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - im dating a guy i have been since just after christmas he says he loves me and all n i am pretty sure i love him but im losing feelings for him and i have no clue what to do i told him bout it once he stopped talking to me for a few days and i guess ...