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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now... it seems like the relationship is falling apart... we don't hang out as much. we are always arguing...i am more into the relationship than he is...how can i get him back into it...do i play mind games and act like i dont care? what can i do to fix this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (22 March 2009):
Try asking him he he needs a little space, and if he does, pay attention to how he uses it. Mind games suck, men don't react well to them, and they tend to make matters worse. Simply tell him that you have noticed an emotional distance between you two, and you'd like to know if there is something he would like to see change on your behalf that would get him more involved in a positve way. Be upfront and kind.
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