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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I pushed him too far and he's heartbroken. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months. It was perfect, but not for long. We fought. It was generally his fault, him saying the wrong things, and I would get so hurt that I would break up with him, promising myself that I would lea...

He's not the same now that I'm pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and feel like my relationship is falling down around my ears. My parents didn't react to well when then heard the news, but they are looking forward to meeting their new grandchild, even offering to buy the pram. When I told ...

Circumstances are stopping me from breaking up with him for the moment, should I wait a little longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - ive been with my (first serious) boyfriend for a year and a half and until a few weeks ago have been very happy, suprising some friends as most people wouldnt automatically have put us together. we come from very different families and have very ...

My husband has changed in ways I cannot explain, I tried to be patient but I cannot take it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hi my husband And I are having a lot of problems he has change in ways I cannot explain he tells me to be patient that everything annoys him that he does not care about anything or anyone not even our baby he says that he does not know what to ...

Whenever we fight, I'm always the one that apologizes even though I've done nothing wrong. Is this worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - What to do with my girlfriend? I am a 15 years old boy and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Still, I loved her longer than that. It's been four years that I've fallen in love with her and I've stayed devoted to her e...

I'm in a loveless marriage. I'm miserable but I can't leave the kids. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Don't know what to think or do anymore. April 7th, 2000 my wife left without a word. No note, no indications whatsoever. Took our kids and moved in with her boss where she stayed for a year and a half. Then she came back... my mistake but I still ...

What is my boyfriend trying to say to me by saying nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i have been in a loveless marriage for 5 years. He has been dating other women and i began dating a man 2 years ago. We stay living together only for convenience and we are working on separating sometime next year. anyway, I am totally in love ...

How often should I see my long distance boyfriend? I don't feel bad when I miss a weekend, should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (of 3 months) lives about 2 hours from me so its not that difficult for us to see each other, but we can only visit at weekends cos we both work full time. However, he wants to see me pretty much every weekend. I.e. alternating visi...

I have fallen out of love with him but I don't know if I should continue to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am married to a man who is a wonderful provider for me and my children, but I feel that I'm falling out of love with him. He's just two years older than me and he acts so settled down and old all the time. I like to get out and do things, but ...

My fiance doesn't love me like she used to...she wants to see other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - My fiance told me she doesent love me like she did. She came over on sunday and texted me before she came over that we needed to talk. It bothered me so much, she was going to wait until after dinner, but i begged her and she said, I think we should ...

My husband has filed for divorce and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I am 34 years old w/ 3 children -2 boys (16 and 13) and a girl (8). My husband and I became friends first. We talked until all hours of the night (he was still with a girl he had been with through high school- 9 years). We saw each other a few time...

I don't know if should stay or just leave him. I don't trust him anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ive known my husband for 15 yrs and married for 6. He went to Ohio 2 weeks ago for work. I knew something was different when I talked to him. He came home told me he didnt love me, wanted to be alone, etc. I was in shock it came out of no where. I...

I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't love my husband, and I want a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My husband says he loves me, I believed him. I thought I felt the same. When I got pregnant with our child thats when he proposed to me. I said yes. I was going to wait till after the baby was born to get married but everybody kept asking me why ...

My much younger wife doesn't want sex? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Dear cupid am a frustrated 63 year old male.the reason is my wife who is much younger than I is no longer interested in sex.She thinks that sex is unsanitary ,this wasn't a problem when we first met.I am beginning to adapt to an inferiorty ...

I just don't understand why he is avoiding me! It's dissapointing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in June. I loved him so much and he loved me and I think we broke up over a misunderstanding - it was a stressful time for the both of us and a lot of miscommunication and hurt feelings. I was the first to hurt hi...

How do I turn down my feelings for a business partner without changing our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I'm married with children and have strong feelings for a guy who is 21 years younger than me! It's awful and I can't get him out of my head. I've never felt like this before. I could never act on my feelings or let him or anyone know so it's bot...

I think he's not attracted to me anymore. What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i dont feel loved by my boyfriend any more.he doesnt show me any affection ..he says he loves but doesnt show it.i want to make him attracted to me again but i dont know how..please help.....

Ever since we married it all went downhill. Is the love lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been looking through this board and I see a lot of great responses to peoples questions. Well here is mine.... I started dating this gal about 1 and a month ago. Things got really hot really quick and we ended up getting married about ...

How do I tell her that we should just be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for over a year now. we've been friends for several years, and just started to get serious. she and her family are madly in love with me. but now i feel like that we were better off as friends. we have done it all and ...

My husband cheated on me and I don't know wha to do. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 5 yrs now.he had a 2 and half yr long affair that started soon after we got married with a woman he was closely related to and said it was to get back at his uncle (that woman's husband). i forgave him for this ...

I am not sure whether I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life, I am also very worried I won't find someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I dont know what to do anymore. I have been with my girlfriend for a 1 year and 8 months now. When we first started going out she told me about her past some parts of it I wasnt to happy hearing about and from that time on wards it has been a...

I don't think I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. But I don't want to break up with him because I want to love him again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I don't think I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. I frequently feel very miserable about no logical reason. I've sought professional help for it before, though no-one really takes this problem seriously, I don't think. Anyway, I was feeling do...

My whole body and mind are crying out for sex but my gay boyfriend seems to have lost interest!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I am gay and have been with my boyfriend for a number of years. The last few years have been a real emotional struggle for me trying to deal with his decreased interest in anything even remotely connected to sex. Talking seems to be pointless as ...

Why does my hubby say he will miss me, and yet do nothing to prevent me from leaving?? Should I take him back if he asks so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I have been married for two years. About 4 months ago, my husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore, citing reasons like he's having a midlife crisis (at age 24!!) doesn't know what he wants from life and wants a fresh start. Since then ...

The question is, what do I do now? What is my next step? How do I start over again? I'm used to seeing my children everyday....Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I am now 30, so is my wife. We’ve been together for 10 years now, married for 7. Our first child was born 7 years ago. We now have 4 children, or at least she does. Since the birth of her 3rd child I had always been unsure if I was the father. I ...

I don't want to believe it, he dosen't try to kiss or hug and if I reach for him he pulls away... is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - Hi I have been married for 10 years but been with my husband for 20 a few must ago through my doctor I found out he cheated, because we contracted STD , he denied it all the to the doctors office and then the next day he was in tears saying how bad ...

If I really am liking her less, then should we just break up? I want to know what I am feeling and what I should do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. We meet up only once a week but we keep communication open the everyday. From our 1st to 5th month I was a jealous, possessive person, and I would get really suspicious make a big deal out of it if she ...

His love for me seems to have faded. Should I pursue him or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I just brooked up with my bf of 11 months I knew since the 1st time I saw him that he was the one for me . After failing with all my other relationship I met him in the rite moment in my life. I knew what i was getting my self into when I met him ...

My husband has become more and more withdrawn with the passing years. Now the kids are grown ups, is it worth me staying? How can I make him change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I've been married for 26 years and for about 6 or 7 years my husband has got more and more withdrawn - we exchange information but don't really talk, we haven't had sex in that time and he goes to the pub every night (he says its only for the last ...

I'm not sure that I want to break up with him yet, I'm still thinking about it but I need your advice on what to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - hello. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. and i guess it's been pretty serious. in the past, i've been in many relationships, that were almost pointless. but my boyfriend and i are really close. i've never been like this ...

I was in a three year relationship, and the way it was ended, I don't feel I have closure, what can I do with this terrible pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a r...

Why can't I get my live-in girlfriend to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 August 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for two years and we just got a place together. its only been 2 weeks and its been misery. but i try and leave her and she wont leave ive tried to break it off 4 times but there is no end? why?...

I don't feel the same way I used to when he says he loves me. Should we give it more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for two years with a man I met online. We were extremely close, and planned on getting married. It was the first time I ever felt so strongly about anyone. Unfortunately, the long distance got to be too much, ...

I broke up with my best friend, and I miss him, but I won't be the first to call.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - Two weeks and one day ago I "broke up" with my best guy friend.We had been friends with benefits in the past,but he lost his virginity to some girl he doesnt even know or care about and i've secretly loved him.I have given him my heart and always ...

I'm in love with our best friend, but I don't want to hurt my husband or break up our friend's marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - okay here it is.about three years ago i started sleeping with my husband and mine's bestfriend. but I fell inlove with him .i told him i was inlove he said he loved me too.he's also married with 3 kids.he is not happy in his marriage but feels his ...

Accept to stay with him and hardly see him or just dump him as he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i been together nearly 5 months, ghe used to want to spend loads of time with me, we went out to lots of places, now he has 2 jobs and we see each other once a week, i understand he has to work, but now he always wants to do is be ...

He never says he loves me and I feel stuck in a rut. I don't know where I am with him.

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22 August 2008 (F) - Been dating a guy for nearly two years, he broke it off twice earlier this year coz he couldn't see us moving on (both married before - him twice, both got kids - mine with me 24/7 his only gets to see once a week). He lives about 8-10 miles from ...

With my girlfriend for five years, want to marry her, do love her, but total confusion in the relationship, breakdown in communication and other things, need help, whay should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and this year was the year I was going to ask her to marry me, we're both 28. She recently came back from a night out with work and woke me to tell me that she and a guy from work had kissed. We ha...

I thought he was untrustworthy. He thought I was too fussy. Who's right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - What do you think is happening in his head? I ended it for good with him at the begining of the year. He wanted to try again but i didn't want to. He had lied a few times and he is one of those guys you find hard to trust because he is quite se...

There's no spark with my current guy, but my ex turns me on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I have a question. I'm in such a hard spot right now. I been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we should have broken up after the first week. I don't feel attracted to him anymore because he makes me so upset all the time. He is like a f...

He says I'm great but he "can't get into it" and won't explain. What does he mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I liked a man for 3 years and we never dare approach each other until 6 months ago, we then saw each other most days, now he says im the nicest girl he ever met, kind, caring and gorgeous but he cant get into it and no longer talks to me other than ...

Five months into the relationship and the passion seems to have died. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - been with my boyfriend now 5 months and he still likes spending time with me but there is no passionate kissing now or fun sex he only seem to like it when i giv him a hand job and he has given up on trying to please me what should i do?...

What happened here? He pays no attention to me unless we're out, and the sex has gone from a lot and good to less and NO foreplay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - When me and my bf started dating in the beginning, he would be all over me. Now after 5 months of dating i don't even exist around him, he'd rather just have me in the background while he watches tv, hangs out with his friends etc. As soon as we go ...

Bad choices, either stay with my boyfriend who I care for as a friend or go for the one I really like but who is moving away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5935 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Well I must be confused as on a website asking this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.. Here's the main problem. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years (and have since moved in with) I started dating him after a really bad pa...

Is my girlfriend losing interest and taking me for granted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 1.5 years now. She is 19 and I'm 21. When we first started dating we saw each other quite often- 3-4 times a week, which is expected at the beginning of any relationship. We usually spent some time ...

Recently my girl avoids kisses, cuddles and sex. But none of her lies point directly to cheating?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. we were always close and she was always happy and cheery. we had a great sex life and kisses and cuddles were romantic and nice. However recently she has been very snappy with me at the slightest of thin...

I want to break up with him in a way that lets him know I am not willing to be ignored like this, how can I make him want me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 18 months has changed. He doesnt call when he says he will, he stands me up and I feel ignored. I want to break up with him in a way that lets him know I am not willing to be treated this way but I do still want him to know that I ...

After two years of relationship love does not feel the same from either side!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boy friend for over 2 years and I'm feling like my relationship is not as it was before. My love isn't the same and I feel that he doesn't love me that much as he used to before. I feel lonely and get tensed. Can you please help ...

I can’t decide if he is depressed, stressed or seeing someone else, or all three!!! Have not seen him in 3 weeks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - I don’t know where I stand with my boyfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been going out just over a year. He told me when we first got together that he likes his own space and he finds talking about things difficult as he had ...

We don't see each other often due to our schedules, she's become distant and says it's depression. I don't know what to say, ask or do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

19 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, but this last month and a half she's been very distant. We've always been so close, very affectionate, had sex often... but now, it's almost like she doesn't even wanna be in the ...