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female
age
30-35,
*menina
writes:I just brooked up with my bf of 11 months I knew since the 1st time I saw him that he was the one for me . After failing with all my other relationship I met him in the rite moment in my life. I knew what i was getting my self into when I met him he was a sweetheart such a great guy with me but his life style was something that i didn't like. He showed me he loved me when I was with him everything seem so perfect when he talked to me he sounded so honest i knew that he loved me to . You know when you know you found that one and you get that feeling! ? that's how I felt every time i was with him.like any other relationship we had our ups and downs and break ups, I wanted to make him happy since he comes from a family that has never pay attention to him or showed him love, he didn't had a father, and since he was younger he started doing things that he wasn't supposed to . but he told me that he wanted to changed that he just need it help there I was for him to help him , for his b day and x mass and new years he never got anything but when he met me all that change. when ever he need it an advise or something i didnt doubt i was always there for him I cared so much for him , he told me that sometimes he felt that I was the only best friend he had cause all of them always used him.he made me smile , he made me feel like no other guy ever had for him he made me think like if I was the most beautiful girl idk but he completed me, he was the first that i ever said I loved you to and he was the first he ever said I love you and I felt that he was being real, by the time people was jealous, try to do anything to break us apart. one day he wanted to leave back to his home town I beg him so much and I thouhgt I was gonna lose him then he text me and told me that he was sad cause he saw the best thing in his life walk away . day after he called and told me he was gonna stay ,now we brooked up 6 days ago cause he kinda changed he stopped calling e he wasn't calling like he used to he started to leave me to aside for his friends , i started to feel used cause he would want me or call me when ever he was by himself , then he was acting weird like he wound t tell his friends that he was with me and he would make things up, he wouldn't reply my text and i don't know I was feeling left out by the one that i loved and when I most need it him when i brooked up with him i told hi how I was feeling and he said that i was exaggerating , and i told him that he changed and i was feeling left out he ask why I told him why and all he could say is what you want me to do , i told him that i couldn't be with someone who doesn't love me or care for me when I do feel that for him and the last thing he said to me was ok that's good bye. we haven't spoke since then he hasn't call or nothing, and is killing me it makes me think that he doesn't care, yesterday i text him telling him that I miss him , and he never reply back.what should I do should I let him go or maybe he would come back again ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): As hard as this sounds, he is not showing any interst in wanting you back. I knnow it is hard to let go the ones you love, but isnt it worse to love and notbe loved back? you are a young girl and you will meet many guys, trust me. He may not have been the one forever, but he was the one for that moment when yu needed someone who cared about you. and so you shoudl move on, but smiling that you had met such a wondefu person. So i think you shoudl let him go. If you dont want to, then wait a few days and see if he contacts you, but DONT text him or call or anything. let him b the one trying to talk to you. dont get the phone the fisrt time he calls you, if he does. let him notice that you are hurt.I think that what he did was immature. but again, boys. so thats my advice.hope things work out for you
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