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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for two years and we just got a place together. its only been 2 weeks and its been misery. but i try and leave her and she wont leave ive tried to break it off 4 times but there is no end? why? Reply to this Question
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reader, kyleerox99  +, writes (24 August 2008):
You have to be stern, don't beat around the bush.
Maybe she's a gold digger and wants your money.. If worst comes to worst you should just move out.
Maybe think about it a little more before making such a huge commitment like that
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Were you happy before you moved in together? If not, I'm surprised that you went ahead with the move. If you were happy, then I think you are just experiencing what normal couples experience when they try cohabiting for the first time. My boyfriend and I fought almost every day when we moved in together. It took both of us awhile to adjust to having to share space with each other and check with each other before we made decisions we were used to making on our own.
Whose apartment is it? Did you move in together? Did she move in with you or did you move in with her? Unless she moved in with you, I think you are the one who needs to move out if you are serious about ending the relationship. Even if she moved in, you could start to make arrangements to get a separate place or to find a place to stay for awhile until she gets her things out.
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reader, belladonna123  +, writes (24 August 2008):
hi.can you give more details please.for example, were you happy with her during the 2 years? If the answer is yes, you have to accept that living together is never easy, no matter how long you love the person or how well you think you know them. If you love her you gotta make it work. Can I presume you definately don't love her anymore?
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