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*eeto18
writes:i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. we were always close and she was always happy and cheery. we had a great sex life and kisses and cuddles were romantic and nice. However recently she has been very snappy with me at the slightest of thing and avoids kisses, cuddles and sex. the most i get is a peck on the lips and a rubbish cuddle. can someone tell me why her attitude has changed. iv caught her out on a few lies but none of them point directly to cheating. on short - she lied about going to meet a group of people in this group a guy was there who tried it on with her. i feel right to be unhappy with that.
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reader, Deeto18 +, writes (21 August 2008):
Deeto18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he was asking her if she wanted to. she said no. well thats what she said to me anyway lol. I'll talk to her first and then see how her attitude is after that. If its still the same then i'll know she was lying to me even when i was talking to her about it.
Even if she was cheating, it's not the whole she's seeing someone else things that bothers me. Id be fine if she said she wanted someone else and spared me the Bullshit. The thing that gets me as well if she was cheating is if they thought they had one over me as if they had took the piss out of me and laughin about it sort of thing. I swear i cant handle people like that id prob have to do damage then.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Is she immature enough to not tell you when she's angry with you, and just expects you to figure out she's ticked off and why she's angry? Could she be angry because she knows you don't trust her?
Time for a calm, honest talk with her. Don't get angry, ask her about what's going on when you are calm and able to stay calm, and then listen. Uncle Phil may have a very likely explanation.
If she avoids this conversation or passes it off as nothing, then you probably do have a reason to be concerned. If she's acting guilty, then she probably is either thinking of being unfaithful or actually is being unfaithful.
Another possibility is that someone has been spreading rumors about you. She may have heard something to your detriment.
The only way to get to the bottom of it is to talk and LISTEN. Don't get angry or you'll get nowhere in the discussion.
Good luck!
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reader, johnaddison22 +, writes (20 August 2008):
 To be honest I am biased when it comes to things like this. I found out mine was cheating because of the change in attitude much like the changes yours is going through. I would definately be aware that cheating is a possibility.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): I wonder if she was sexually assaulted by this guy who tried it on with her. That was the first thought that came into my head. If her attitude changed immediately after this incident that might explain things?
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