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writes:My fiance told me she doesent love me like she did. She came over on sunday and texted me before she came over that we needed to talk. It bothered me so much, she was going to wait until after dinner, but i begged her and she said, I think we should see other people, i just stared dumbfounded. I didnt see it coming. We were doing pretty good, she has been really cranky lately, and i dont talk to her much anymore being that she works at night and sleeps during the day. I dont know what to think, she told me many different versious of what she wants during the course of that day. I asked i got many mixed emotions, i got the feeling that she wanted a seperation, she made it clear that she didnt love me like she did, and i begged her to please reconsider, because i loved her still, i got her to say ill think about it. We still had sex, she pretended that we were friends while we did it, it was hard for me. She got home and, if you think about it, she told me all this, and she still told me she got home and kindly said go to sleep. I didnt get any sleep that night. I dont know what she wants, she has stated, i need some time alone, i dont love you like i did, we need to see other people, ill keep you around for sex, no we just need to see other people without sex, see other people until we meet someone better. She smiled and seemed happy and content in what she said but at times i teased her about how i didnt care and she looked like she cared. I texted her the next day i felt so bad, she basically said leave me alone, i need some time i dont love you like i did its the best for both of us. Supposidly she wants to be friends and still have sex. Im so confused. I love here and everyone in my family says that we will be ok. I hope so.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 August 2008):
She is letting you down gently. Do not have sex with her and just accept it is over. I think you will be heart broken but you need to cut contact for a while and try to get over her.
She is just going to use you and hurt you more otherwise.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (30 August 2008):
 What a great family you have there! Not. Why would they even want it to be ok with someone that is basically saying they want to use you for sex until someone better comes along?
This woman has a bare faced cheek sweetheart.
Are you willing to go along with this farce?
C xxxx
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