A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I'm married with children and have strong feelings for a guy who is 21 years younger than me!It's awful and I can't get him out of my head. I've never felt like this before.I could never act on my feelings or let him or anyone know so it's bottled up inside me.We are together a few times a week for business purposes and I don't want to stop meeting with him but I do want to curb these out of control emotions I have and don't know how!He makes me feel alive and happy.How do I turn down my feelings without changing our relationship? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, disapointed +, writes (28 August 2008):
Ask yourself why you feel this way and why you cannot feel the same with your spouce. Maybe it's not the same because what you see in this person you are not willing to creat with your spouce. There is something that attracts you so what is it? now take those attributes and attractions and apply them to your spouce. Things are getting old because you allowed it to. but you can do something about it so take charge of your spouce. Rip his clothes off and go sexually crazy you both are young you just got to hit the button and keep it coming. Seduce your spouce go on a trip just play the role a man should play and then he'll come around because he'll be saying I should be doing this not you. Then it will be you picking peaces of your clothes out of his teeth or trying to find your bikini bottoms where ever they flew off to. oowwwww
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