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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Been dating a guy for nearly two years, he broke it off twice earlier this year coz he couldn't see us moving on (both married before - him twice, both got kids - mine with me 24/7 his only gets to see once a week). He lives about 8-10 miles from me and used to come round every other night. When he broke it off he said he knew was making biggest mistake of his life, trusted me 110% and meant world to him but he couldn't move over my way and my kids settled in school.Basically ended up staying friends and spending bit of time together which ended up with him coming round every friday night, which turned into him staying every friday night. We've spent more time together the 5 of us than we did before the split, even met his parents last week which hadn't before, now in school hols I've spent Sunday to Thursday evenings staying over at his and him staying at mine on Fridays when my kids are back from my parents (work full time, so they stay with my parents in school hols as its easier than going back and forth every day).Problem is he never tells me he loves me, which he didn't before (he said when we broke up he found it hard to express his feelings) I basically don't know where I am with him and it annoys me. If i tried talking to him he'd just back off but I feel stuck in a rut with the whole situation.Any advice.
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