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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have been with my boy friend for over 2 years and I'm feling like my relationship is not as it was before. My love isn't the same and I feel that he doesn't love me that much as he used to before. I feel lonely and get tensed. Can you please help me? What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): Well I sincerely believe that as much as a relationship changes, it is only a reflection of the people within the relationship. Yes, feelings change over time... but you can only be sure of how you are feeling, you can't know how your partner is feeling without asking! Relationships mature and grow I suggest you redirect your tense feeling into one of action; talk to your partner and explain how you feel, that you feel lonely and tense. I also suggest you make a list of reasons 'why' you feel that his love is not as 'much" as it used to be and 'why' your love is not the same!
A
male
reader, u wana no i will tell u +, writes (20 August 2008):
ALthough at the start of ur relationship u thought he was ur one true love. but as u have found now that maybe he wasn't. if ur love has frizzeled out maybe u should go do stuff that u most enjoy wif each other or try new things that may reagnite ur love 4 each other. but sometimes its just better 2 let go. move on in the world and find someone new to have a relationship wif.
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