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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

How can I get him to speak to me to tell my why he don't call or text me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - it prob sounds stupid, but i havent spoke 2 my ex 4 abpout 3 monthes, ive text him and called him but he doesnt answer me, ive called him before on private he answered and heard it was me and pretended he couldnt hear me which pissed me off, but how ...

He tells me he's very happy with me one minute and then says 'something is missing" the next. What does he mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months. He's in his late thirties but hasn't had many girlfriends before me. We have a lovely time together, never argue, and have both been very happy until recently. Now he tells me he suffers from ...

The other day he just walked out on me and his son

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hi i really need some advice i am having huge problems me and my partner have been together for 5 years and its not been a easy 5 years we have split up a few time but i really thought this was the last time and he had changed his ways he had ...

I just can't believe how stupid I have been

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get ...

I feel second best

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I ...

He told me that he was going to kill himself, should I tell his mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am feeling very helpless at the moment.My boyfriend of one year finished the relationship, saying that things werent working and he wasnt happy with the relationship, but at this moment i am not concerened about that.The night he finished it, we ...

Are we in a rut... Or more than a rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I am going out with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years we are now deciding to buy a house together. He got very drunk one night and ask me if I thought we "Light one anothers fire" I didnt answer and ask him if I light his fire and he said sometimes. He ...

I cheated on my husband of 14 years with his best friend. He stayed with me but now I have met someone else. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I have a a problem and don't know what to do about it I have been married for 14 years and have children, I fell in love with my husband's heart he is so giving and wanted to take care of me I was not physically attracted to him physically, but he ...

I was with a guy 12 years younger, but we broke up because we wanted to grow seperately. Is there still a chance for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I broke up a month ago with a guy 12 years younger. I was his first long term relationship. It lasted a year and nine months. He left me suddenly. I'm 37 he's 25 but we look the same age. We still love each other like crazy, we're each other...

Hes a true sweetheart and I really want to help him, but hes so distant, should I just be patient ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Question: He started being distant, I love him and don't know what to do! I was dating a guy for 4 months. Everything was perfect in the beginning, but I moved about 2 months into it. I'm only an hr away so we still managed to see each other even ...

Did I get dumped by text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - well I've been dumped, and I dont know what to do or feel anymore.... and I know i should just be getting over it and not writing this... but... I was seeing a guy for a while, since around April. We were getting along great and enjoyed 'staying...

My bf thinks i cheated on him, but I didn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - my bf thinks i lied and cheated on him, when i didn't i dont know. what i should do? i love him soo much he also will get mad at me if i dont answer him right away. i keep telling him i didnt cheat but he keeps saying i did from an email that he ...

I feel like he's just bored with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Is he just too afraid to break up with me? I have been with my man for 4 years we have two kids togather and one from a previous relationship of mine. I feel really neglected and have spoken to him about this on numerous occasions over the past two ...

He says he loves me but he's flirting with other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf is really confusing. One minute he's sending me e-mails telling my that he's so incredibly lonely when I'm not there with him, and not being able to see/hear/touch/kiss me drives him nuts, and the next he's flirting with other girls right ...

8 yr relationship, a kid, and now he is drinking doing drugs and not coming home

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for around 8 years and have a 6 year old daughter together, and we live together. The problem is, that this man often goes off on drinking binges and ends up sleeping at other people's houses. He smokes cannabis ...

I called the wedding off, should I wait to find out if he will still marry me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - MY CLOCK IS TICKING.... Ok, I am almost 30 and my bf is only 25. We have been dating for almost 2.5 years. We did have a date to get married a year and a half into dating but we went about it all wrong. We started planning the day and telling ...

He says he loves his cats more than more!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 4 months and in the beginning everything was really good. He used to be really sweet and tell me that he loved me more than anything and that I meant everything to him, but recently I've discovered ...

I think my mum is having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I think my mum is having an affair. About 5 or 6 years ago, whilst taking my younger brother to school, my mum met this man whose son was in the class as my brother. They got talking, and my mum was having problems with her computers, this man ...

He says he glad I contacted but He won't answer my calls now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6667 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I met a man 13 years older than myself 3yrs ago. We dated for 6mths until I moved across country. The only reason we quit seeing each other was because I moved. We seemed great together and I fell in love with him. We kept in touch but not often. ...

He is getting divorced and seems less happier

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i live with a man who is getting divorced now and ever since we have moved in together he seems less happier to see me each day....

We love each other but all we do now is argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating now for 10 months and he just recently moved away for college and now all we seem to do is argue and treat each other horrible.. we both love eachother alot and want things to work out but i feel that i cant find ...

When do you know if they are the "one" ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - When do you know the person you are seeing is the one for you ? Does it suddenly creep up on you or do you know straight away ? Sorry for the silly question, but I thought I really knew someone and now im not so sure, and I thought they were th...

How can I form a better relationship with my wife ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I've been married for 40 years, I don't love my wife and I thinks she knows that. Recently friends of ours have split up, I am absolutely obsessed with the woman in this split and I can't help thinking of her all of the time. Could you suggest ways ...

Things are going wrong between us young lovers... do you think she will want to stay with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - I have had a real hard time with my girlfriend for the past couple weeks. We've been dating for 2 years now, and I think this all started though because she started hanging around her friend more who likes rap music, goes to parties, and is ...

How can I get back what we lost?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and everything has been fun. lately he hasn't been really into having sex and he seems distant.. we had a fight the other day and he said he just wants everything to be like it was when we first met. ...

He doesn't treat me like a girlfriend, but I've fallen in love with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6672 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, but during that we kept breaking up because he never treated me like a girlfriend, but now ive fallen in love and just cant bring myself to end i havent seen him in ages to talk about it and when i ...

I stayed for the kids now I must leave for the kids...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - i have been in a rocky relationship for 6 years.im 36 with 3 boys. my partner is the father of the younger 2. recently i have totally gone off sex and realise i dont fancy my partner. he is very over weight and a couch potatoe where as i love ...

He refuses to sleep in our bed, and doesnt come near me anymore, is he just playing me ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - I have been single for nearly four years. i met a man with two children one adult and one 17. i get along with the kids very well. Actually the 17 year old and i have bonded so much that my boyfriend makes comments such as, what they think you're ...

What is he thinking???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

13 September 2006 (F) - What is he really thinking? I've been with my boyfriend for the past 7 years. We're both in our late 20s and I thought we were very happy together and he was the one. However, he dropped a bombshell on me a couple of weeks ago and told me that he ...

He ignores me in front of his mates...Should I leave him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have only been dating 2 1/2 months i love him but he just ignores me infront of his mates it started not to long ago after he came bacck from malta with his parents i think he might of fallen out of love with me because were ...

She played with my emotions twice and now she's angry when a I put my foot down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - i don't know what on earth to do right now. my "best friend" and i have been friends for a while now. but back a few months ago, she confessed her feelings for me and told me she wanted to be with me and leave her partner. we wound up hooking up, ...

My husband of 12 years told me he doesnt love me and moved out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6675 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - my husband of twelve years has told me out of the blue he no longer loves me like a husband should and he does not know why this is.we have our own buisness which is in trouble finacially which is now affecting home finances he has moved into a ...

Im not happy in my marriage, I like this other woman but have remained faithful, I stay because of my son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - i have been married for almost 5 years and have a son who is almost 3. I have not been happy for a little while now but havent said anything. I have now met another woman, who is slightly older than me. We met about a month back and it was like my ...

How can I get him to like me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Im going out with this boy who i love so much anyways tonight we were talking on msn messenger and a 'slut' who i kind of know somehow got his msn address and told him lots of lies about me and he turned all funny on me. Then i got all upset and ...

Is the grass greener on the other side - or am I kidding myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - In Love with two guys... Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3years now, I love him so much, I know he'd do anything for me and he'd never hurt me... but to be honest Im bored, we like very different things but most of the time I just give in and...

How can I get my life back with my ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - I will try and keep this as short and sweet as possible. Any piece of advice would be greatly appreciated. Basically I broke up with my boyfriend in may of this year, the reason being is that I am of greek Cyrpiot origin and he is English, his ...

I broke up with because I was no longer in love with him, hes hurting and wont let go, and this in turn is killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

11 September 2006 (F) - Hi please help me if u hav any ideas on what i can do, iv split up with my boyfriend about a week and half ago after being together for a year, and although i love him, im no longer 'in love' with him. we argued and fought a lot which is the reason ...

He treated me bad but i still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - "Does he still loves me? Is it over?" I met my ex bf online. We communicate online and by phone for a year and half. When we met I felt like I have known him for so long. I stayed in his house and first night he begged me to performed an oral sex...

We are going in different directions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6677 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - please help me, i dont know what to do now. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we have been freat, we never fall out or anything until recently.. we have just started further education and there are loads of people we know fro...

He has Herpes and its bothering me but is that all???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has genital herpes which he contracted some years ago. He is very sensible and we always use protection. He has an attack probably every 3 months or so now, which is better than it was. We've been together for a year and a half and it's ...

My ex has another woman a week after moving out and it bothers me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I would like to know how to get over the fact that my ex husband has a new woman in his life a week after he moved out of the marital house. We have been divorced since Sept 2005 but lived together until june 2006. He now has a new woman in his life ...

I split with my boyfriend of 4 years, im now feeling down and not sure about my decision!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

7 September 2006 (F) - I am feeling really rubbish right now. I split up with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years three weeks ago and although we said in the near future we wanted to be friends we haven't spoke in about a week and I am really starting to miss him and wan...

I love him, but Im not "in Love" what can I do without hurting him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 6 and half years and recently I have started to doubt my feelings towards him. We have lived together for two years and are due to get married next May and I am terrified at the thought. We have not had sex for nine ...

Can someone try and help sort through this mess in my head.. Im scared of making the wrong choice with the wrong guy!! (very long)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - Hi, First of all I am just warning you that this could possibly be the longest letter you have ever received but I wanted to tell you every little thing so you have the perfect picture. I was hoping you could help me make a decision as I ca...

He hurt me and now what we have is a shadow of what we had before!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

6 September 2006 (F) - I was hurt by my boyfriend, I understand how it happened, he understand why I was hurt. It was unfortunate. He's sorry about it. Problem is I don't feel as much for him as I did. Don't get me wrong I still love him, need him and care about him. It's ...

He didn't commit to me and now he is getting married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

5 September 2006 (F) - My Ex Boyfriend has just told me he's getting married, we've been split up since Christmas, so why do i feel this crap about it? I sobbed my eyes out in front of him absolutely gutted, were still good friends but this was a guy who didn't want ...

She wants to get back together, but not just yet, I thought things were well and truly over... should I wait ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

3 September 2006 (M) - My wife and I split over a year ago and it is has taken me a long time to get back on my feet. We both made mistakes in how we treated one another and decided that it wasn't working. I am now in a new job, have a beautiful girlfriend and g...

How do I break-up with my boyfriend and should I try the new guy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

1 September 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. When we first started going out, there was a bit of chemistry but now there is none. I don't think he feels the same - I think he still loves me and I feel guilty because I tell him I love him ...

We ended our physical relationship, we live together, still love each other, how can we date others when there is this connection ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

1 September 2006 (M) - Living together after a 9 year relationship breakup - HELP!! This is a followup question to a previous discussion because my partner and I did decide to officially break up after a 9 year relationship. We still love each other dearly, but as best ...

4 years together, we split... I cant deal with it, all the whys and ifs ? what shall I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

1 September 2006 (M) - I have split with my gf and mother of my baby after 4 years together. Her feelings have changed/gone, she wanted something else, doesnt want me even though life together was stable, financially viable, easier, loving, affectionate etc she just cant ...