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writes: I met a man 13 years older than myself 3yrs ago. We dated for 6mths until I moved across country. The only reason we quit seeing each other was because I moved. We seemed great together and I fell in love with him. We kept in touch but not often. Last year he called to say he is 40 and ready to settle down and wanted me to move back to be with him. He said to think it over and call him back. Well, I was dating someone at the time and never called. I recently contacted him and he seemed excited to hear from me and told me so. I gave him a modified explanation of why I didn't call and told him that it is now his decision. He said ok and made plans to visit me. We conversed thru email a few times and every time he would say he was glad I called him and how he misses me. Problem? I haven't heard from him in a month. He won't answer my calls and responded in email 3 weeks ago to be patient. I know he is single from people in his town that I am friends with. Should I give up and forget it? I'm not the patient type, but I stopped contacting him after his last email.
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 If someone (guys or girls) stopped responding to emails/calls/letter/whatever else, he/she probably isn't interested anymore. Well, the exception applies to accidents, family crisis, etc...
Sad to say, I would say he is not interested anymore. If someone is really interested, they will find time in their busy schedule to talk to you. Busy is such a lame excuse (but still very often use).
Maybe you should move on to a new guy. You'll probably be much happier too.
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